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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I learn to be less clingy???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I are kind of broken up, but at the same time we're not. He said I'm too clingy! What can I do so I won't be so clingy because I want to get back with him really bad and I want to fix this! Please help... (52 words)

15 and wanting a baby!

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schooling. The monthly disappoi... (70 words)

My friends did the worst thing ever... they told him I like him!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I really like this guy more than I've liked any one before and my friends went and did the worst thing ever and told him I like him and he said he don't like me but I always catch him looking at me and I've liked him for the longest time and I just want to ask him out but I'm ... (85 words)

What can I do to forget about this angry violent man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years.. been thru violent abuse and mentally.. he's going to anger management but if that's so why is he still threatening me by saying that if he ever catches me cheating he's going to twist my neck.. I'm also a single mother of 2 ... (163 words)

Should I continue with the filings of the divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay I met my boyfriend two years ago. On New Years it was a long distance relationship. They we both agreed to move to another state to be together. Everything seemed to be okay. It seemed like the more we became serious the more his mother started to intervine. Not only that ... (543 words)

Been seeing him for 11 years and just found out he got married 2 years ago... NOT TO ME!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for eleven years and found out last year that my boyfriend is married two years ago and was stilling with me. When I confronted him he denied it. I did not stop until he could not deny any more but he is still seeing me. Please help me to get ... (70 words)

Do gay guys flirt with girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a guy I've known for about five years now. We've been good friends since then and only recently been flirting back and forth since last summer. He actually initiated the flirting (I honestly considered him a good friend who was cute; nothing serious). But since his fl... (208 words)

What age does puberty end for guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I know you have penis questions all the trime on this site but I really need to know... when does puberty usually end for guys? I think I started when I was 11 and now I'm 14. I feel really insecure about my penis size. When it's flacid it's around 3 inches an when I'm hard... (149 words)

I am having a baby boy and I need help with names!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - HELLO!! I am very excited, and I know this is a relationship site but I would very much appreciate your opinion? I am havinga baby boy in a like two weeks and me and my husband can't agree on the name. We want something powerful and I was thinking about Andrew. So my qu... (97 words)

What is a relationship supposed to feel like after the honeymoon period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

- Some questions about marriage... My fella and I just finally got engaged after 3.5 years... hooray! Now come the barrage of questions that I keep asking myself - I think I'm an overthinker - but I figured I'd throw my questions to the Cupid and settle my mind. What is... (144 words)

I'm over my ex and dating again... so why do I still keep thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My ex broke up with me 4 months ago and like I'm dating and I'm confident but I still find myself thinking about what it would be like to be with him. I don't understand.... (36 words)

If he's ever single again what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Okay, so here goes. There is this guy, we'll call him bob. Bob claims to be straight, but he has also told me that he loves me. Bob and I are very good friends, and I think he means love in the friend way. He has come out before as "Bi" but taken it back. I told him for the... (188 words)

Should I ask her out and any tips for how to handle getting nervous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Prom is just around the corner and I don't really have anyone to go with planned. Well today me and my friend talked with a girl I have a little bit of a history with. I used to hang out with her cousin, and back then she showed interest in me as more then a friend. Well back ... (241 words)

I want to know if he still has feelings for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I asked a question on this site awhile ago about my ex and if i should give him a letter and what not. I have another question about him and I. Lately,I have been having these reoccuring dreams about him and I getting back together and him saying he still loves me.I wake ... (176 words)

Should I leave my controlling bf or try again with my ex who is very similar to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - The reason I'm confused is that my present boyfriend is a bit close minded and strict sometimes because he doesnt like to give me my space. he would like to spend all the time with me doing things his way. I'm the type of girl that likes to go out and have fun with my ... (839 words)

Why wont he tell me the cause of his mood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - sometimes he will come and see me.. he will be in a huffy mood.. he won't tell me why.. any tips on getting him to spill? my boyfriend is really amazing.. his is kind.. he supported me and is still supporting me since my granny died two weeks ago.. but sometimes he wil... (120 words)

Is excessive masturbation the cause of his lack of love-making?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I have a sex problem. My boyfriend of five months is unable to have sex with me. We get to the stage, past all the foreplay, and then he loses his erection. Sometimes he fails to get one at all. I hate to sound sex mad but the lack of "action" is making me feel seriousl... (164 words)

Why did this text make me feel angry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Well a long story short, I feel anxious about something and don't have a clue why? 7/8 months ago a guy stayed at mines, we were drunk, he was given me kissEs, groping me, he didnt care when I says I would help him with down stairs(when he was, lets say given him self a treat), ... (228 words)

I don't NEED a guy, but I really WANT one. Why could this be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Im 16, soon to be 17. I've only had one boyfriend, which was in May 2008, but it ended before it started. We didn't kiss or get intimate in any way as it was my first. He was the only guy that liked me back. However, I really really want a guy. I do NOT "need" one at al... (182 words)

I'm so unlucky in love, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I cannot believe it's possible that I've been going through a breakup again! I'm a single mom of a 5 yr. old wonderful boy, and over these 5 yrs have had tons of boyfriends that never work out! I would say average 3 to 4 a year. I don't date them unless see potential ... (74 words)

My g/f is uncomfortable in social situations, how can I help the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - My gf recently told me that she is extremely uncomfortable in social situations where there is more than one person besides herself. She told me that even when it's just 2 friends hanging out she doesn't enjoy participating, even though she very much likes spending time with ... (245 words)

Do I tell my ex how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I still have feelings for my ex and its been bothering me so much lately, because we are really good close friends and im finding it hard hiding my feelings. Theres two reason why i don't wanna tell him how i feel. One is because i don't think he feels the same way. Two i don't ... (164 words)

Why do they say they love you and then have no problem in breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How is it that grown men can tell you that they are in love with you, seem so sincere, that you believe you can feel their love. but when circumstances arise and you break up they do not seem to have any problem cutting all ties with you?... (50 words)

Should I stop having sex with my teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

17 February 2009 (?) age 22-25 - I´m in college and I have sort of fallen in love with one of my teachers. I did have sex with him once. I didn´t feel bad about it, but he kept saying how sorry he was. He says it´s not the right thing to do, but he doesn´t really do any action to stop it. Do you think I shou... (67 words)

I'm contemplating an affair because my marriage is unfulfilling!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. I have always been the kind of person that would not cheat under any condition. I have had opportunity and have never done it. I am once again in a very bad situation, my marriage is not fulfilling at all, I am really still there for the kids and the fact ... (276 words)

Do men call to message parlours for a verbal thrill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men ever just call on "questionable" independent massage parlors for a verbal thrill? I am dating someone who makes frequent calls to these places from raunchy Backpage websites, but says he never actually goes to them. Sometimes the "masseuse" is a transexual. ... (43 words)

He couldn't penetrate me, so what could be the matter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - OH MY GOD HELP. Ive been with my boyfriend about a month and already love him so much and we both think we're ready for sex. So today he was round mine and we were getting very close and intimate and he whispered to me he has condoms. So he went and got em, put em on... An... (128 words)

I find her attractive but I'm the shy type...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - So here's a question that is probably asked in different ways, countless times on here. There is a girl in my environmental studies class who I find attractive. We haven't talked to each other, and I'm not really sure if she thinks anything of me or not. I think she has seen me ... (100 words)

Is what I did (kissing an ex) any worse than his emotional cheating on me with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I went clubbing with an ex-boyfriend of mine (once in January 08, another time in May 08), whom I have no feelings for whatsoever, but we ended up kissing and making out on both occasions. The last few times we met (August to November) were pure platonic outings, ie dinners and ... (319 words)

Staring and staring? Is he playing mind games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - We used to flirt with each other and he used to act like he likes me but then he stopped. And there's this one girl who told him that she had a crush on him and he said that he liked her back. They're not dating or anything. But what pisses me off is he keeps on staring at me... (122 words)

How can I make him last longer than 20 minutes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Im 17 years old. i have a 17 year old boyfriend. when we have sex its good but its only for like 20 minutes.. then when he cums he doesnt want to do it anymore, or let me touch him down there, why is this? and how can i make him last longer? please help.... (55 words)

Love of my life got a fling pregnant... now what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi...i'll try to keep it as brief as possible...4 year live in relationship, he moved out b/c of drug problem in april 08..supposed to be cleaning himself up and we start again in a new apt, new location. we opened the relationship to dating others, but always still seeing ... (270 words)

What should I do about my anal hair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This is slightly embarressing, anyway its beginning to bother me. In between my bum cheeks, i have hair (ahh cringe!) and i would just like to know how to go about it? Like any of you have the same thing and what do you do about it? Should i shave it off or what? Thanks fo... (61 words)

I'm stuck in the middle of their affair, what should I do in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - well this is sort of for my friend(s)?? im a 18 year old bi sexual guy and my best friend is a 17 year old straight girl.. i will name her paige for this and she has been seeing a guy who is now 20 il call him micheal, well they have been seeing each other for about 3 year... (346 words)

When I text him, half of the time he ignores me, help me understand why!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year. He text me during the day sometimes. I always respond and always answer his calls. When I text him though over half the time he ignores me. Also he still has womens' numbers from before we got together in his cell. These women ... (114 words)

She's "talking" to other guys while we are together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and 7 months now. She's left me about 7 times to date other guys, but for some reason I always took her back. Now I'm in another situation. I looked through her phone I know it's wrong but I wanted to know what was going on. I ... (205 words)

I like this girl but we are good friends and she may be out of my league!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - OK, so I'm a normal goofy guy, and i make people laugh and I like this girl who is totally crazy (a good kind though). She has been having a tough time at the moment and she keeps crying on my shoulder at school. Her boyfriend just dumped her and I want her now. But, I think ... (139 words)

Is this real love or does he enjoys making me happy for the record?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm going out with this guy and recently I told him hurtful stuff about my past. The thing is since then he has try to make me happy. He completly changed his plans for school by coming to my school and now he wants to come and stay with me. He's 22 and I'm 19. Is this real ... (73 words)

Does he like receiving oral if he doesn't orgasm from it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend said he has never come from a blow job before. I want to give him oral during times when I'm on my period, but usually after a while he would stop me and say it's okay. He never asks me to finish him with my hands and he never finishes himself off either. My q... (110 words)

I know going through his phone wasn't right, but it seems that I always find things that are disturbing. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - The day before Vday I went to a bar with a guy he tried to kiss me, but I was working things out with my ex so didn't kiss him. I still love my ex. Well, later that night my ex came over and said he wanted to be my boyfriend. he looked through my phone and saw that i texted ... (686 words)

I am completely, irrecovably in love with my football coach

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Heres the deal. I am completely, irrecovably in love with my football coach (I'm a girl from england.) He is just over 16 years older than me and married with 3 kids, with a son not far off my age. He had kids young. The thing is I cant stop thinking about him, hes ... (299 words)

I love her but her past upsets me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a slight dilemma. I love my gf and we've been together 10 months. Yet the problem is that I have some issues over her past and some minor issues with things about her. She dated a couple of guys before me who were horrible towards her. They treated her like crap and ... (700 words)

I have too many boys after me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Please help me. I don't mean to, but I always have boys chasing me. I cant help it, Im just nice to them but the always see it as more. None of them will leave me alone. I try and tell them Im not interessted but they think im playing hard to get. I dont want to hurt any of ... (227 words)

Please help me to get over what he did!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I really need your help! I have been going out with this guy for 10 months. I love him and he loves me but i can't stop thinking about his ex-girlfriends. When we were seeing each other, before we officially became a couple, he really hurt me by going out with this girl who... (142 words)

I make things miserable for him and he still loves me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Valentines day past, and he didn't get me anything again. I don't know what's wrong with me but it hurts and I told him before and he said he didn't know how to love me but he says he loves me, and wants to marry me, but that I have to stop getting hurt when he ditches me. On ... (358 words)

STD's... but who from???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - When I was 21 I lost my virginity to a 23 year old and he gave chlamydia and gonorrhea and I told him that I had them so he went and got checked and it came back that he didn't have anything but he is the only one I have had sex with so I don't see how his came back that he ... (66 words)

Unlike many girls who is crushing on their teachers, I am in my early twenties, what shall I do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, This isn't the first time I mention about my obsessive crush on my teacher. Many of you have given me valuable advice, but I still feel powerless to stop myself from sinking into depression. It has been two years since my infatuation towards my teacher t... (336 words)

Any tips about snogging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I need some advice regarding snogging; I have never been that good at it; does anyone have any good tips.... (20 words)

Scared to break up because I'm used to him and don't want to be alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused and unsure what to do anymore, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We have lots in common , he is a kind man, I can trust him and rely on him. Before I met him I had not had much luck with men, always got hurt and used. Anyway things started ... (367 words)

I don't understand my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend is a real tough manly kind of guy who doesn't like to talk about feelings, he refuses to utter the words 'i love u' no matter hw much i ask him to, does it mean that he doesn't love me enough to even say it? another question is that he gets really angry whe... (150 words)

Is it normal to have chunky sperm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - is it normal to have chunky sperm?... (7 words)

Should I have sex at 14?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - im 14 and I want sex and i dont know what to do. I already masterbate and its not good enough. what do i do?... (25 words)

Planning a wedding and I'm not even engaged - have I gone crazy??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Am i crazy? im 16 and do have a boyfriend of almost a year and a half. this may sound crazy but we have spoken about SOMEDAY getting married, when we're about 22, 23. on saturday i went to a wedding and since then [today is tuesday] i have literally been obsessed with get... (154 words)

I have so many complexes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i have a question any guy i liked rejects me and i don,t know how to meet a guy who i like who won,t rejected me.becasue it always happens.i am overweight ,shy,quite ,short,fat face ,tomboy like,and i am stressed living at home and i can,t get s job to meet a guy.even... (215 words)

He chased me like a dog, now he is not sure he should divorce his wife? Should I wait for him to decide?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i'm 25, about 5 months ago i met a man he's 43 and live in singapore, we got close after we met, at that time i still have a boyfriend (26) that already 3 years together,my relationship with my bf also a little bit uneasy because i dont like the way he always going out with ... (1368 words)

Anal bleaching - how is it done, what products should I use, etc?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Firstly, this is a very genuine post!!! I am interested in anal bleaching but I am not quite sure how to go about it or what products are best to use. There are no salons in the UK like in LA who do these treatments. I have read alot about it and seen lots of products but not ... (244 words)

Ex girlfriend of 5 years meeting some else... 5 DAYS LATER!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey everyone, so an update on my girlfriend leaving me a couple weeks ago after 5 years. Listen to this...after 5 days she found someone online facebook who she randomly addeded. He hit on her saying how hot she was and she fell for it. She met with him and now she likes him a ... (359 words)

Is he embarassed to say he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, me and my best friend hangout with these boys. One of them is my brother and she is going out with him. When them two are together i stay behind with the boys. I find myself atracted to him and he told me he liked me too. We kissed a few times but we didn't go any further.... (118 words)

G/f cheated while I was deployed, now I struggle with trust issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to first start by saying sorry if my typing grammar may not flow well. As you can tell I am in the military (air force) and have been for 12 years now. I am 30 years old and my area in work in the military is under special operations through that air force which work ... (616 words)

I can't cope by myself with my child because I am remembered of his father who left us!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a single mother, who with the primary help of my mother I've been able to cope with my child. I have my own apartment but don't live there. Instead I live with my mother because I can't cope alone with my child. Why? Because I can't stand the idea of not having his father ... (249 words)

Should I encourage him to ask me to meet up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of months ago I spent a fabulous night with a guy that I met through a mutual friend. I have not been able to put him out of my mind since. I didn’t expect to keep in contact with him however, we have been chatting online ever since. Mostly it is just general chi... (229 words)

A guy would be nice to have around now but... am I doing something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 40, have been divorced for 18 months now. During this time, I have managed to finish my MSc, get a good job, and get my household in order. I feel I have done pretty well for myself and I am fairly happy with my life at the moment. I have a good circle of friends and ... (205 words)

I see my teacher as a father figure and keep thinking about him, how do I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, it's really hard to admit this because I know it will sound very weird, but I'm really confused and I do need help. I'll just come out and say it: I'm obsessed with my teacher. It's definitely not a sexual thing though, because I don't feel as though I like him. I just ... (331 words)

I don't want my ex to be happy with another girl!...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I hate the situation im in. Me and my ex broke up 4 the 3rd time 5 months ago. It was on/off lots. He wasnt that nice to me.run me down. Made me have real low self esteem. He could b so charming and sweet and hurtful the next. I loved him so much and put him on a pestistal. ... (435 words)

I feel like I'm going to pee during sex but never climax!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - When we're having sex or fingering, I always feel like i'm going to pee, but it never happens! ... Any tips?... How to get an organism?... (30 words)

We don't have anything to talk about!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - ive just got a new boyfriend yesterday and weve pretty much proved we love eachother but weve realised that we dont have anything to talk about! what do i do? P.S dont give me any sexuality advice i dnt want any.... (43 words)

I hate myself and my personality, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

- Im 25, I have a good job, lots of friends and Im nice looking. But I hate myself, I hate my personality I feel that people think that Im weird or boring and dont want to hang out with me. Im also quiet when I go out with friends and worry I wont have anything interesting to ... (74 words)

Shall I wait for another week and take a test, or just brush it off as nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I have a horrible feeling I could be pregnant. My last period was around the start of January, and I know for a fact that I should come on by now. I've also been feeling sick in the morning, starting to get aches in my body and I *think* my breasts are getting bigger, ... (192 words)

At what point did I turn into a monster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have really, really screwed up. For the past 3 months I have been tail spinning into a depression because of a job loss, money problems, and some unsettling medical news. I used to be a down to earth, level headed 31 year old guy that could get drunk and be happy. After ... (576 words)

Lack of oral

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hi i am the one with the lack of oral stimulation and a man with premature ejaculation problems.i have asked for what want and why i dont get any,yet, it he wants me to give him oral.and he tells the reason he dont do it is because he dont want.im completely clean and ... (89 words)

Do LDR relationships work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ONE SIMPLE QUESTION: DO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS (LDR) WORK? answer however you like.. yes, no, youre opinions or experiences etc. anything would be helpful! thanks... (33 words)

Do I forget about this incident and hope its a one time thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ok been on a date with this lad and it went really well we went for a walk and a long chat, i then invited him to my friends house as a few of us were meeting up he turned up drunk and he had driven as well he also smokes which kinda puts me off, i'm quite shocked as he told me ... (146 words)

She loves me but she's in another relationship

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - There is this girl am going out with (its new) and I will need your advice always, because I want to keep this relationship. We met some months ago, and since then we've been (just) friends, but I asked her out (woo her)approximately a month ago, though her first response w... (233 words)

I love my teacher, and now he knows.Can I do anything with him?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a big problem. I'm 14. I've fallen in love with my 35 year old geography teacher. I've liked him for a few months and last week I told him how I feel. I wrote it in a letter and got my friend to give it to him because she had his lesson next. Later that day I emailed his ... (284 words)

When I ejaculate the fluid is very thin?!

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My fluid when i ejaculate is very thin and there isnt much compared to what you see in most porn films. Does this mean there is something wrong and if not then how do I help it?... (37 words)

How do I make my man really hard?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I want him to become very hard and so he could be the happiest.. Any tips or ideas? I'm willing to do anything and i'm always in for something new! Cheers... (33 words)

I don't want to be a turn off! Shave or no?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - this is for all the guys out there. do u prefer it wen a girl shaves down there or do u like the hair? neva had sex before and i guess i'd neva really thot of shaving till today. my b/f only commented once about it but he doesnt seem to really mind. does the length of the clit ... (69 words)

Is it illegal to have sex in a car?

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last night (16 February 2009) an older woman I am seeing went out and on the way back she said pull into the side which I did. Then we kissed and had sex.............what I wanted to know is: Is it illegal to have sex in a car in public?... (52 words)

I'm not sure about these occurences with my g/f!

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I met a girl online when she was dating another guy, we talked for months and had undeniable chemistry. We met 5 months after we first started talking, it was an unbelievable night, culminating in our sleeping together. At the time she had not officially closed things off with ... (343 words)

How can I show her how I really feel about her?

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello, Im in a relationship i love the girl and she loves me.she told me like a night ago that i can talk the talk but i still got to learn how to walk the walk. what does she mean by i need to learn to walk the walk?? She also told me that is not all about being able to talk ... (105 words)

Its really hard to fall out with my friend but she's driving me crazy!

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a friend and we've been friends since I was 4 and we've always been very close. But as we got older she started to change a lot. And now she's become such an attention seeker. And any guy that I like she will immediately set out to flirt with them and make a move on ... (488 words)

What was I to him? An ego booster?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - So there's this guy and I used to like him a lot. And he probably got the hint that I liked him coz he started acting all nice, touchy-feely and being all flirty. It seemed like he really liked me. But there were some days when he would just ignore me and would just stare. ... (176 words)

I worry about our religion, could it work?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Now this isn't racist or nothing like that..and i don't really want a lecture about what religion teaches etc. I'm a Sikh and i know Alot about my faith.So i'm not being brain washed or none of that rubbish. I'm nearly 19-done nothing with a guy. All the guys i've ever met ha... (368 words)

Do you think she is in pain or has she just moved on?

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi Guys My ex just broke up with me 2.5 months ago, she said i hurt her because we had a few arguments and i yelled a couple of times but not enough to warrant a break up, then after a few days of not talking we spoke and she had decided she wanted out. She said we were arg... (404 words)

What can I do to reduce my bust size?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - What can i do to reduce my Breast Size? I am a 15 year old girl and i have got 38E breasts i am going up a breast size a month! In yr7 i was a healthy siz 36B and then i just kept on going up and up and up! Im not exactly fat,i am a curvy shape but my breasts are too big... (219 words)

Should I stay or go?? I need advice!

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17 February 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Hi All! I am more used to giving advice than asking for it. I need some opinions on this. I'm very confused! I have been in a LDR for almost a year. We have been together only twice, but both times it was wonderful and we were both very happy. We fell in love. We talk ... (304 words)

Still unsure - update!

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I writing an update to (cheat cheat cheat) I am still with my husband who has cheated on me several times. Not a day goes by that I wish I had the guts to walk away, yes I love him or do I now? I know that my husband has cheated all though our marriage, the excuses/reas... (383 words)

Do you consider it cheating if your husband and a work colleague were texting things like 'Love you, miss you, can't stop thinking about you'...?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Do you consider it cheating if your husband and a work colleague were texting things like 'Love you, miss you, can't stop thinking about you' and 'I am feeling randy at the thought of you in lace undies'. He says it was all a game and he needed someone to perk him up and b... (356 words)

Threesome troubles!

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm in a very strange situation - my boyfriend and I have been in an open relationship for the past year and a half. We are a highly passionate couple and like to explore new things. He been seeing this girl for a few months now, I've met her a couple of times and he has asked ... (213 words)

If she says she loves me then why doesn't she find me attractive or want any physical contact any more..?

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My g/f and I have only been together for 3 months but already our sex life is non-existent. When we first met we were rampant and spent entire weekends in bed having plenty of great sex and spending hours cuddling but all of a sudden she has become completely unrespon... (183 words)

Could the 3-shot hard liquor I drank affect my pregnancy?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a 30-day cycle..My last menstrual period starts on january 11, 2009. I had a contact with my husband on the 22nd, 24th and 26th of january 2009. Now I'm pregnant. My question is, is there any bad effect to my baby's development the 3-shot hard liquor I drunk during the ... (64 words)

I am good friends with my ex, will people understand this?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, i dated this guy for 3 yrs bt we broke up in feb 2007. it wasnt messy so we've been frenz since. we are both with other people but they dont know we still talk. i dont want my b/f to feel threatened by him yet i dont want him findig out from someone else. my ex and i hv ... (124 words)

I cannot see why my b/f needs to stay over at his son's house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my b/f 2007. He was in a relationship. We eventualy broke up as i could not take the pain. He bacame single Nov last year and we started to see each other. He has moved in. He is now waiting for his house to become available so he can share parental responsibility for his ... (273 words)

How do I make him wrapped around my finger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - okay I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years... everything was great and we were very happy He always showed he loved me and said nice things to make me feel good. but these past few months he has been showing that he doesnt care, he has been paying a lot less attention ... (216 words)

Is my ejaculatory fluid normal in colour?

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi When I have ejaculated my cum isn't white like normal cum its more see through like its a bit white is this normal and iam 17... (29 words)

What makes a boy want you even more then he already does?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - what makes a boy want you even more then he alredy does? before me and my boyfriend were dating he chased after me and i played hard to get ... he chased after me and showed me how muchh he wanted me.... now we are together and he feels like he has me! how do i get him to be ... (79 words)

So I squirted, does it mean I orgasmed as well?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I was doing some research on this site, looking up woman's orgasms and squirting. At first I was going to ask if it was normal, but apparently it is! I'm kind of embarssed about it, it seems so abnormal! What I am wondering is when I squirt I don't necessarily have ... (119 words)

What should I do to make him show that he cares?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been dateing my boyfriend for about two years now, we were very happy at first and i was extreamly in love with him .... however, things started to change in the past few months. He is acting like he does not need me and he does not give me the attention i should have. he ... (138 words)

I'm afraid my parents will not take me seriously when I tell them I want to marry!

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am in an amazing relationship with the perfect guy. We are both different as individuals but somehow we just completely click. We're both still young (him 20 and me 18) but we know that we want to spend our lives together. We are definitely not rushing into anything because ... (256 words)

What is a normal amount of sex a couple has in a week?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Can anyone tell me what is a normal amount of sex or fooling around an average couple has in a week?... (21 words)

Am I just a boring old bag because I disagree with drugs, even milder ones?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 36 my boyfriend 32 we are both from the UK. I'm going to be living in Vic, Australia with him soon but we seem to have an ongoing argument over cannabis. Basically last time I was there (he is living in Oz now) he suggested we didn't go to a party around someone's house ... (370 words)

Our sex life is almost inexistent, I'm a very sexual person, should I leave?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 6 years and am not really sure what to do. My husband and I had a great sex life when we first met. We have been together for 8 years now. Our sex life started to go down hill about 2 years into the relationship. At first we would have sex everyday... (235 words)

B/f spends an awful amount of time with his "casual" friend! What do I do?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do I start?? I'm so depressed and angry!! I'm married with 2 children and 1 on the way 2 my husband (27wks). We split in sept 2008 we had been sleepin in separate rooms for most of the year. We got pregnant the last time thru a fertility program. Anyway on the 3rd go ... (392 words)

I feel like a bad person for watching porn, how do I stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Im a 22 year old female with religious values and am a virgin, and in March 08, a friend of mine jokingly told me to watch some porn, i laughed it off, i never really cared for it. but i got curious and saw it, was disgusted but then liked it, i started masturbating and LOVED ... (221 words)

How do you know if a woman wants to have sex with you?

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - how do you know if a woman really likes you and how do you know if she wants to have sex with you? ... (23 words)

Sleeping with a first date

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I went on a date with an incredable guy and we had amazing chemistry, the only trouble is that chemistry also led to us sleeping together. He admitted it had been a while for him (as it had been for myself) and that he didn't think any less of me for it but part of me worries ... (132 words)

My mom won't listen to me!

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I wanna ask what should u when your mum won't listen to u.She just won't listen!! Although she always says " u hav ypur freedom to do anything u want,I won't say a word" But whenever I had made a decision which she dislikes.....she started to use bad words to "advise" me...(bad ... (99 words)

Lack of oral stimulation!

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - dear cupid, my fiance and i have been together for 3 years now and have 2 kids. i love him to pieces,but, i cant get him to give me any oral stimulation.hes only done it 3 times since we have been together and i have not given him any any oral lately because of it.also i ... (100 words)

I want to pleasure my girlfriend but not have intercourse yet

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm 15 (she's 15 too) and from USA and i'm in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months, And i don't really wanna have sex in such a young age but i really wanna pleasure her? What do i do? do i ask or just do it? thanks... (50 words)

I have a hard time with girls with rejection

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hi. im at uni, havin a good time with boy and girl mates but when it come to girls i "like" i find itn hard. This is because i am proper self concious even though i am told i am pretty good lookin and have a good personality i find it hard admitting to a girl i liker her ... (112 words)

Should I go see a doctor about my asthma attack?

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17 February 2009 (?) age 16-17 - My boyfriend and me (I'm 15 and and hes 16) were smoking together. I have asthma pretty much my whole life and I can keep it under control. Then I started having asthma attack (which was really embarrassing). And the weird part was that I have smoked before without any trouble. ... (78 words)

I have a date tomorrow night, but I just got a cold!

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i have a date tomorrow night, but i just got a cold! :( it's started with a bad sore throat and mild nausea a little over a week ago. a couple of ays ago i started getting a bit stuffy, and now i'm stuffy sometimes, and other times runny and sneezy. and my face look blotchy... (75 words)

I'm new to the USA, recently married and my husband treats me like a kid

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hello every body. i don t know from where i start. i have just moved to usa and got married. i know nothing here. all the time i am bored. even my husband takes me from time to another for ride. i wanted to go gym he did not want to let me i wanted to work every time he fi... (128 words)

My girlfriend cheated on me, should I take her back?

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Dear friends, I know this is long but please be patient and I thank you for whoever reads my problems and help me out. I am very confused. I have been with my girlfriend for 9 months now. ONE: recently, my girlfriend only just told me she made a 'mistake' 5 months ... (1556 words)

Valentines day, how would you take it.

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am with my boyfriend for four years and two days before valentines day my 9 month old granddaughter (special needs) suffered a gran mol seizure. She was rushed to the hospital and released on valentines day. During this time I neglected to pick a gift or card up for my ... (178 words)

Professor Hottie

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 19 and I'm in my second year of University. I've been taking a class since September, and recently in the second semester, I've developed this massive crush on my professor. It all started when I had to go to his office to get help with an essay I'm writing. I was tota... (295 words)

Playing games, part two

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with a 49 yr old man - am 28, things were great with him for the first six months, until he started to break up with me via txt for x, y reason etc - but mainly cos he doubted in me. Its now 7 months and well tonight he tried to accuse me of 'going with' ... (541 words)

My girlfriend has a history of cheating

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - She tells me she loves me. She swears she's not lying. I know some of her ex-boyfriends, they say she said the same thing to them. She has cheated on every boyfriend she has ever had. (She told me herself.) Every night I think about how she would be able to cheat on me and ... (188 words)

How to rebuild trust in our relationship?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 13 yrs now. we have children. recently he cheated on me with a girl he works with who is about 8 yrs younger then him. this is not in his nature-he's never been the type to do anything like this. well she offered herself to him over and ... (703 words)

Does he want sex or a relationship?

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17 February 2009 (?) age 18-21 - i really need advice! does he just want sex? or a relationship? i have been seeing a guy for about 4weeks. im 19 and he is 26. and we live on the same street so i often pop round his in the evening and chill. i really, really like him. and he says he feels the same. and ac... (433 words)

Worried about the cigarette I smoked!

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - hi I'm a 14 yr old male and i have a very serious question to ask ok i smoked 1 cigarette and feel really bad. I'll never do it again, it made me sick. Is this one cigarette going to stunt my growth or hurt my body in any other way. Please help i feel scared and stupid!... (59 words)

Stuck between two men what do I do?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I fancy 2 best friends what do I do? (All involved are 19/20 years old) I've been hanging around with this one lad for a while now but recently been getting to know him proper and he's such a lovely lad, although the process of getting to know him has been slow as he's r... (315 words)

How do I tell my dad?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, There's this guy that I've recently started having feelings for. I've known him for a few years, but we've started talking more than we used to. I think he might like me too. I see him most days and we flirt with each other a lot, and for the past few days, he's all I... (182 words)

Two friends fighting what do I do?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay, so a couple years back, I met two really cool people, "Payton" and "Karry" I started talking to Karry first and she introduced me to Payton. I knew that they had dated before but now they were both single. I ended up falling for Payton and we've been dating for the ... (143 words)

I like a much older man!

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, I have a pretty light hearted problem :-) I'm a bit smitten, only it's unrequited (like it always is with me) It's because I like guys that are a little older than me... okay well a lot older I suppose. But I just don't understand how age becomes such an important factor... (559 words)

Should I suggest moving in together?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Should I suggest moving in together? I have been dating a very kind dependable guy for about a year. He and I get along very well. I love him but am not in love with him yet. I have no desire to marry him until I am sure that he is the one and I know he feels the same w... (259 words)

I'm worried that she might not open up much any more because she's trying to find this new found strength within her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

17 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay I need some help for this somewhat complicated issue. The condensed version of this is that I my girlfriend and I got in a fight and I told her I needed to take some time to think about things and clear my head because of something she did (she didn't cheat don't worry its ... (286 words)

What to do about his porn habit?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am currently engaged and I am about 7 months into this relationship. I also am pregnant, but even that doesn't mess with the way I feel about the "porn" issue. I was raised in the country and never believed in looking at another person, whether it was a model or some girl on ... (151 words)

If I get lost during sex, what do I do?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm a 14 year old female. I'm about to have sex for the first time. I'm not totally clueless about sex like I know what it is and how to do some stuff, but I'm afraid I'll be bad at it. What happens if I get lost and don't know what to do?... (56 words)

Country boy!

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 41 year old woman and I just made 5 years on my secound marriage with my husband. This is also his secound marriage. And I'm so confused and Guilty that I'm in love with another man. And I talk on the phone to other men that have been in my life for over 20years. My Hus... (195 words)

My current girlfriend just wants to be friends now...

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17 February 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I was in a long distance relationship with my gf for almost 3 years. After I had met my current for the first time, my ex wrote me and told me she still loved me and wanted to be with me. I had never had closure with her, and told her that I didn't know what was going to happen ... (207 words)

Should I go on the pill in advance and how can I bring it up with my mum?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, I'm 18 and in a long distance relationship and have just found out that my boyfriend will be able to come over in August :) We will have been together for a year then :) Anyway, I would quite like to have sex and I think that at the least we'll probably talk ab... (374 words)

Boyfriend is acting funny

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

17 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend did something Friday night that found inappropriate and he told me I was just being jealous.... like he says a lot lately.... he doesn't want apologies. He did make me dinner for Vday and chocolates but said he was just being nice for VDay and was still mad.... so ... (139 words)

What to do when you're about to fall in love...

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So there's this boy that I'm really feeling well I'm 14 years old and he is 17 years old and I like him a lot, I'm always thinking about him but the thing is that we go to different schools and I don't see him as much and I think, that's why we're not as close as I want us to ... (273 words)

Should I go all the way?

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17 February 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - (sorry this is kind of long!) A friend of mine from high school reconnected with me about a year ago. We went on a few dates before he suddenly (and it was definitely sudden) revealed that he didn't want to be in a relationship. At that point I was totally crushing on him ... (393 words)

I feel so inferior to all these porn stars and celebrities, what to do to raise my self esteem?

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17 February 2009 (F) age 18-21 - I have a very stupid problem. I hate myself. More specifically, I hate my body. I feel so inferior to porn stars or celebrities. Whenever I see a scantily clad woman I feel so, so ugly and unsexy. I will never be pretty or attractive. I just don't have THAT body type. I feel ... (432 words)