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Offended my friend with a facebook social blunder. What can I do?

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Question - (23 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *oselio Giron writes:

I'm quite the sensitive person. Usually about myself; I feel as if everyone else around me has it better these days, and I can't really seem to enjoy myself because of it. I'm quiet, I've been perceived as a sweet guy, and I keep myself out of trouble.

I accidently offended my ethnicity (latino) with a post I made on facebook a while ago. In all honesty, I did not know that this would have caused trouble between a friend and myself (if that even made sense just now). I feel inexplicably horrible right now and I'm worried about who else saw that post, and who else is going to go against me because of this accident. To clear things up, the offensive act was a simple survey, but one of the answers I gave gave the impression that I was superior to everyone else in my race. I didn't notice until I checked again and I was completely shocked.

I feel like a completely horrible person, and I didn't mean for this to happen. I can't think of any resolutions other than to ask anyone out there for some. Any suggestions?

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A male reader, Skebeng South Africa +, writes (23 February 2009):

Hiya! I think that as vague as alot of posts are on facebook, you shouldnt worry so much... If someone truly is your friend, they wouldnt judge you without factoring in all they know about you first. And besides, facebook is about individuality. Standing out from the masses is what defines you. People dont like it, tough! Delete 'em.

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