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I know its wrong but teacher is the love of my life

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Question - (27 December 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *lex24 writes:

okay, this all started a year ago, I told my teacher I loved him and he said he had feelings for me too and he also said '' but Im the teacher and your the student'' so that was a bummer. But after that things got better he looked at me differently he called me, he texted me, he flirted with me more, he winked at me. And one night we actually started to roleplay over text message, and he called me amazing,babe,sexy,beautiful.etc. the next day we were doing a computer class. and like always I was into finishing my work and doing a good job. and i went up to his desk and asked him for help,

when I got closer to be able to see his tiny writing(lol) he ran his hand up my thigh. and ofcoarse no one saw because my legs were practically being covered by his giant desk,and his desk is at the back. lol and it felt so good. Haha. BTW Im 15 turning 16 in a few months and he's 24. There was also this one time when I went to visit him. He didnt do anything flirty or sexually. we just talked for like a few hours, it felt like a stareing contest and a really deep conversation at the same time. and it was absolutly amazing. and to top it off he said he loved me. and ofcoarse I said I love you too. and when he softly put his hand on my face I think i could actually feel how much he loved me. I know the fact that he's my teacher is a bit iffy and that he's 7 years older then me, but this thing I could call a relationship Is the best thing in my life right now. I've never done this before and I've never loved a teacher before either. At school we keep it really lite, but when I drive myself all the way to his house. he cooks for me he fools around with me he carries me to his bedroom so we can relax and kiss and talk. and he is amazing in bed if you know what I mean. I know it's wrong cuz he's my teacher But i also know its love and that He's the love of my life. Should I stop this affair?

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A female reader, Alex24 Canada +, writes (31 December 2009):

Alex24 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I ment to say I give myself the drive to go to his house. lmao Now I see what It sounds like when I say I drive myself to his house, Haha

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009):

there are places where people can drive at 15, so don't get so hung up on that fact.

what makes me question this story is that he would make a move in his classroom (seriously? no one would consider that a good idea) and the fact that he's such a perfect gentleman (cooking, etc.) and yet he can't wait two years to begin a relationship. it simply doesn't add up. even a new teacher (which i assume he is due to his young age) wouldn't be so naive.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009):

Alex 24

i have to ask

how old are you

because you say

you are turning

16 yet you Drive?

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A female reader, TheDarkKnight United Kingdom +, writes (28 December 2009):

TheDarkKnight agony auntThis is clearly fake

or you're clearly stupid, no offense

Now before I even go into the reasons about why the affair is wrong the story doesn't fit

"Im 15 turning 16 in a few months"

"I drive myself all the way to his house"

So, you're still 15 and you drive? driving to his house is a regular occurance, yet nobody has questioned where you are going?, how the hell you have a car? and why you're driving at 15?

Now if he truly cared about you, he could have easily waited until you had turned 18 + left school -- I don't have a problem with that, but when he's doing that to you at 15 he probabaly wants one thing and it's not a long term relationship

sorry for being harsh, but you MUST realize that you should END it, and maybe (and I mean maybe) the relationship could be rekindled once you are actually legal. He may only want you because you are a "forbidden fruit" and most of us want something we can't have, not because we desire it..

I'm pretty sure the story isn't real anyway, but I answered in case it was

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009):

For some reason...this seems very fake. This seems like a teenage girl's fantasy about her teacher, not real life. I highly doubt a teacher, aged 24 and who worked hard to get his job, would risk it all for a 14 year old girl (at the time you said you loved him you were 14). This sounds fishy...but if it is "real" I suggest you stop this, because it'll only hurt both of you in the end. You'll get kicked out off school if the school decides to back the teacher; or he'll lose his job because of you. Wouldn't that do wonders to your little affair?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 December 2009):

He's on the verge of breaking the law. He can lose his job, go to jail and have to sign the sex offender's register. My advice is to stay away, because this could entirely ruin both your lives.

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