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female
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26-29,
*andyCurves
writes:Why Cant I just get over him?!He treated me like I was nothingI knew this and now I know what a stronghold he had over me.I have no contact with him at all, yet still some part of me still melts when he walks past.I hate that part of myself.I always feel insecure around him.There is Something about him I cant put my finger onI can say I'm just going to move on but all he can do is look at me, and I'll be like ****!!! I don't love him though. I wont let myself. I just want to get on with my life and be happy.But I cant, like I try to avoid him all the time.I talk to other guys that I like, I'm involved in loads of clubs and stuff, My life is pretty full with stuff to distract me yet I still find time to gaze.How do I move on properly and If I cant move on why?! Will I always be like this?( I know thats alot of questions all at once but this a serious issue to me)Please help, cause this has been going on for a while now and its depresssing. Thanks!!!
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reader, Broken123  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 I have the same problem ... You cant move on because a part of you is just so used to him that its telling you you need him .. Like your so used to being with him . But good for you that you have no contact with him ! Keep being strong like that .. But you really need to know you dont need him .. Like you dont need a boyfriend to be happy .. Make sure you keep your good friends by your side cause at the end of the day there the ones that are gonna be there . They wont make you feel like what he made you feel like . i know its gonna be hard but whenever you see him you jus need to keep your chin up and act confident around him so he knows your over him . Jus tell yourself you hate him and soon you wont care that hes around . I hope this helps because this is what i did and it did work .
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