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writes:I met my boyfriend last January by internet. We become a couple in the first date. After three weeks he broke up with me. One moth later i had to move to another country.After that we started to communicate by e-mail, until we end up being a couple again. I went to visit him for two weeks, he ask me to marry him, and i said yes.The problem is he has issues due to the last relashionship he had. He was dating a girl of 16 years old, he was 24, the girl got pregnant. When the parents found out, they didnt allow to see each other. Now he cannot see his kid and the girl broke up with him one year ago.He feels so bad about this. And i notice he is not sure anymore about the things with me, he says he loves me, however he looks bored when he talks with me, and i am afraid we dont want to broke up with me because he feels he will hurt me, what i do? should i broke up with him? i feel i love u so much and i am sure, but he always says that is not fare he doesnt love me as much as i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Since you met him via internet and communicated a lot by email, I think it's appropriate and only fair to him that you continue the tradition by breaking up with him via text or email.
Electronic communication is such a heartwarming, touching way to say goodbye.
Don't forget to close with something personal like the following:
In light of recent events, IMHO I think we should brake up LOL
Best Regards,
(Your name here)
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reader, LucyKnows +, writes (15 December 2009):
Break up with him, that's what my first instinct is upon reading this. It sounds complicated and messy, and that's never good. If you went out for 3 weeks and then saw him again for 2 weeks, that means you knew him (in person) for 5 week and that is not good enough. Also, DO NOT marry him if you are having all these uncertainties. If you really really truly are in love with him then maybe keep things going but not too seriously. I personally would get away from this one asap. I understand that's easier said and done but if he is not being as nice to you recently then I would definitely think twice about your relationship.
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