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anonymous
writes:Ive recently started seeing this guy that I met at school. We liked each other then but nothing ever happened. 15 years on we finally get it together so there is a huge amount of expectation that I feel I cant live up to. Ive been hurt this year quite badly and I felt he had distanced himself from me in the past week so when I saw him flirting with another girl I jumped to conclusions. He is now really mad at me and doesnt know whether he wants to see me again.I know if he really likes me we will get through this but my question is how do I play it? We have left it at him saying "lets see what happens". He was at fault too but Ive apologised. Should I make my feelings clear and ask him out again or play it cool and wait for him to come to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): wait for him to come to you! other wise he will take you for granted!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): If you hadn't been seeing each other for very long, then you probably came on a little too strong by getting upset. But it sounds like he got a little too mad, as well. I would wait for him to cool off and see if he comes back to you. If he does, just take it slow and calm down about it. Fifteen years is a long time and you two practically need to get to know each other all over again.
Also something to think about is are you really ready for another relationship, since it seems like your hurt from before hasn't completely healed yet...
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