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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:The guy I cared deeply for and I had a falling out recently. I met him in 2008 and we were briefly "dating" for a few months. At first we saw each other a lot and he would always bring me around his friends. He was affectionate and seemed like a gentleman. We texted a lot. I don't really know what happened but we stopped seeing each other so often after an awkward situation near fall of 2008 when he said he was trying to get over past issues and didn't want to commit.Over 2009 we saw each other maybe five times, and I was still really attracted to him. Each time we saw each other something sexual would occur. But he never brought me around his friends after he said he didn't want to commit. His excuse was that "he didn't like bringing girls around his friends anymore". Well, we finally ended up having sex a few months ago (we had done everything except sex before). He was the second guy I've ever slept with and I just can't get him off my mind. He would tell me things like "I need to work on some issues from my past I don't know what the future holds..." But I think he was just letting me down easy. I don't think he has ever had a serious relationship. Ever since the falling out he ignores my texts. I really care about him, but it is quite apparent that he does not care about me anymore considering he ignores me. I want to get him out of my head. I think I need to move on but don't really know how. I keep hoping that one day he will contact me again, but I doubt it will happen. What should I do?
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