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anonymous
writes:Hi all, well i sent a question in last week regarding a girl i had dated a few times, and got some great advice on what to do. Well since then she has been in contact with her friend on a social networking site. Her friend asks her how shes doin, anythin? you know. And her reply was nah, i give up, musnt be interested. Now we both hadnt been in contact for a week so i assumed that she was thinkin that i aint interested so ive sent her a couple of messages askin hows shes doin and why i aint been in touch and got no reply. Even tried directly chatting to her through msn whilst she was online and she completely ignored me and went offline. If she aint interested why doesnt she just say because i sure would. Really dont understand her behaviour, especially after it was her that seemed so keen at first. And what should i do now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): Hi
By what you described she has already told you she's not interested. Save yourself some time and let it go, you look back on it and be glad you did. Rule of Thumb - You meet a woman who rocks your boat and she asked you if you would like to join her in some activity..whatever. Would your response be "maybe..let me check my schedule" I doubt it. Well woman are no different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): go NC on her (no contact) and see how she likes it, if she doesnt contact you, then find another girl, flaunt that infront of her,and again she how she likes it. If she comes around then you are ment to be, if not move on. Goodluck brother
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLOL, course not, just seems a shame after we got on so well. But these things happen, not that big a deal, just a bit confusing with some of the things she said lately thats all. It just seems that with her depression which she suffers she seems to be sabotaging possible relationships.
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (30 November 2008):
 IF you dated only a few times its easier to walk away with your pride intact. No relationship to break up, no drama to deal with. She might be feeling uncomfortable about things and rather not say something that might hurt your feelings.
I know when a man I am not all that interested in wants to talk to me, I tend to avoid rather than say something as it is uncomfortable. But you don't know each other too well, and like everyone suggests, just let it go. Obviously not a love match. Is she the only girl in town? LOL
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe's 28, but she did say she's had a couple of bad relationships, so maybe she just sabotages it so she wont get hurt. I dont no, just semms strange after her tellin all her friends and family about me, saying she feels really comfortable with me and wants to see me again she behaves like this just confusing to say the least.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeh im well movin on now, just dont get why she told her friend that i mustnt be interested then act like this when i clearly am. Think she needs to grow up a bit to be honest.
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