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He doesn't want to get back together whereas I do!

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Question - (30 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I saw my ex for about 5 mins earlier on, I've not seen him since friday anyway when i saw him he gave me a hug then he said sorry i dont no why i needed to do that,

He dumped me but we still talk every day, he doesnt want to get back together where I do. I'm now not sure what he wants, is it possible he still has feelings for me?

We where together for 8 months and been split for 2 months

Any advice would be greatful

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A female reader, Aunty Gee United Kingdom +, writes (1 December 2008):

Aunty Gee agony auntYour ex seems to be playing games with you. I think it is a case of 'doesn't want but doesn't want anyone else to have.' If he really cared for you he would tell you where you stand.

You need to move on with your life because by keeping in contact with him you are only hurting yourself.

You need to cut all contact with him, yes it will hurt and you will feel like you have to see him but keep yourself busy, see friends, start a new hobby, anything to keep your mind from him.

Sometimes the truth hurts but life goes on hunny, don't let him be the one to hold you back!

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A female reader, Ginalolabridga United Kingdom + , writes (1 December 2008):

Ginalolabridga agony auntHi,

I think he is being polite and does'nt want to hurt you any more than he has it is harder for you because you were the one that got dumped as you say for him he is maybe just trying to get over it and move on with his life you too may have to do this as he seems as if he has let it go do not read too much into a hug i wish you well.

Ginalolabridga

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