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writes:Help - I realised that I still love my ex and tried to do the honourable thing by breaking up with my boyfriend today, afterall, it is not fair to carry on stringing him along while I still think about my ex! I only realised I still loved my ex after he has come back on the scene apologising and besically asking for a second chance. My current boyfriend told me that I have f***ed is life up and hopes I can live with that guilt, and called me a bitch.I feel I have done the right thing by being honest, I can understand he is hurt, but I feel really bad about f***ing his life up - or is he just being dramatic?I almost thought that he was pulling the guild trip so I wouldnt leave him, does it sound like that to you?
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reader, rede2minglewitu  +, writes (1 December 2008):
He probably doesn't mean what he said to you, it's just very stressful for him right now ... you did the right thing in breaking up with him but honestly you should have done it sooner if you still felt feelings for your ex... it seemds like you waited til he wanted you again and when he did you didn't even think about why u 2 broke up in the first place and took him back
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reader, Teacake +, writes (1 December 2008):
 Very tough situation. If you are really really torn you should tell your current that you don't think you have got over the ex but you love him too. Tell him that you want to make sure you really are over him and if its okay for you to talk to him? I don't know. This is difficult. Just don't sneak around.
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reader, didda123 +, writes (1 December 2008):
 I think you have done the honourable thing by telling him it as it is. Obviously he is very hurt and upset by the whole situation and he has shown this with anger towards you.The only advice I would give you is that to make sure you really know what you want or you may fall into the trap of going from one to the other which will only cause a lot more pain and anger. Consider the reasons you split up with your ex in the first place but if you are sure you are making the right decision go for it.Good luck.
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