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I'm in a loving relationship but I'm really falling for another girl...

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Question - (30 November 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi.

I've been in a relationship with a girl I really love for a little over fourteen months now.

We attend college in the same city as each other and met as a result of that. We know we'll be able to be together for at least the 2+ years we have left at this school, but I could see myself with her for longer.

We have a lot in common, we have a lot of fun together, I really care about her and I consider her my best friend.

But another girl who is friends with both of us (better friends with my girlfriend I think) is really weighing on my mind.

I've known this girl for about a year and my feelings for her became clear very shortly after. She's very beautiful, she's very smart and I feel great when I'm around her. She goes to a college farther away (about 5 hours away) and she's not in a relationship.

I thought these feelings would pass but they've only intensified. I think about her more and more, whether I see her or not. It's a feeling unlike any other.

I don't even know if she'd be interested in me but we're great friends and we spend a lot of time talking. Sometimes me, my girlfriend and her hang out together which complicates things even more.

I'm not a person who is easily troubled. But this is starting to cause me insufferable amounts of anxiety and its affecting my day to day life.

I feel trapped and I don't know what to do.

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