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How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi?

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Question - (17 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *oxy Roxie writes:

How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi? For 6 years now I been lovers with a very hot and sexual woman. I give her oral sex all the time and we have hot make-out sesions. I lust her, I always try to cut communication with her and move out of her house, but we always end up back as lovers. My problem is that she dates men. I don't know, can it be true that she loves me, but is straight?

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A female reader, straight to the truth United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2008):

If she says she loves this man then i would say she is using you.

Expect more and find someone who says they love you and who isn't confused about wether or not they are gay.

Just think if she is putting yu through this now if she did decide she wanted to be with you how long would it be before she got bored of being a lesbia and wants to go back to men again.

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A female reader, Foxy Roxie United States +, writes (17 November 2008):

Foxy Roxie is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I would agree with you, but she claims that she enjoy sex with men. Infact, she is in love with a man. So, I can't seem to quite put my finger on what is really in her heart...

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A female reader, straight to the truth United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2008):

no you cant be having gay relations whilst claiming to be straight! this woman must either be bent or bi.

sounds more like she is bi although i have to admit i dont believe people can be bi, i think they are gay and just cant admit it so they put on a pretence of being straight.

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