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Why does he get sore the next morning after our sexual play?

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Question - (17 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay my boyfriend have been pleasuring eachother with our hands for a week now. I come almost every time he fingers me. He always pulls my hand away before he comes because he says he doesn't want to gross me out. We do this a few times in a night, and the next day he's sore. He said that it's not his penis, it's his balls that are sore, even though I don't touch them. I feel like I hurt him. Sometimes it hurts my feelings when he pulls my hand away. Is it because he gets all worked up and excited, but he doesn't release? Is that why he's so sore?

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A female reader, candygirl United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2008):

candygirl agony auntThat could possibly be the answer babe.

That he gets himself worked up and wont release. Tell him it wont gross you out, that you'll feel good about yourself because you've made him cum (if you do feel good wen you do).

Tell him that you get upset wen he pulls your hands away because you WANT to make him cum.

Hope this helps babe

keep us posted

Candygirl

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2008):

he might as well just let you stroke him untill he cums and if any cum gets on you just wipe it off with a tissue or wash your hands. normally i find if you dont stroke the top of his penis when he is about to cum you get less cum on your hand, sometimes non. there's no point in him not cumming as he is obviously just causing pain for himself.

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