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*amesiop123
writes:Hi I'm 21 and have been in a gay relationship for just under 2 years but to say it's been easy would be a lie. I have cheated when we split up over christmas and also spoke to lads on my phone I'll be honest. But he has never cheated so he says but he went to meet a guy that didnt show up , he's also sent pics over his phone to other lads txt other lads and recently found a profile with his details online, he says this was to check up on me to see if i had any accounts online, I know I aint been no angel but I had such a hard year, I cheated at christmas when we finished cuz I was on my own and he wuz with family, then I lost my dad in May, lost my job just after and was in a car crash after that, when my dad died he stole £500 to pay a fine off which was to go towards my dad's funeral, he's also had it easy, I have paid all the rent as we live together and paid all the bills and paid for us to go on holiday in January. Not seen a penny back really to be fair he does the working now while I'm on a plumbin course but we have just split cuz I found that profile online and also he stole 150 quid out of the holiday spends tin! I just don't know what to do. Will things change or should we just give up? Someone help me please .ta
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (20 November 2008):
 dump this thief. you lost your dad and probably feel alone but instead of being there for you he robbed you when you were low-with money for your dads funeral! are drugs invloved in this situation at all?
you deserve love and thieves ain't got no honour
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): It's very hard what you've been going through, life not easy but there are times when everything seems to pile up. You've just split, thank god for that, it's hard now, but he's not the companinship you need. If he steals from you, and from something so sacred as the money for you dads funeral, that shows that there's no respect, and with out it, there can't be a relationship, no matter how much love, closeness...It's wrong that you cheated and you know it, but that doesn't give him a right to do what he did. Close that chapter of your life and find someone else you can trust. Don't cheat, it does nothing good for the people involved. If you are not ready for an exclusive relationship, be open about it, people values honesty more that you believe. If you are with some and start fancing someone else, break the relationship before going for the other guy.You are still quite young and if you are honest and respectful to yourself and others, I assure you, you'll find a nice life.
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