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My girlfriend still has feelings for and close contact with her ex, what should I do?

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Question - (17 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

What should I think if my girlfriend admits to still liking her ex and he still likes her? They also have close contact at work (not in the same office, but their company has internal instant messaging that she uses frequently) and they do things together outside of work.

Just for clarity, here's our histories together. We were dating first. Then we broke up and she started seeing this guy. Then they broke up and we started dating again.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2008):

I think you need to leave her for a while. You can't stay with a girl who is essentially keeping someone on as a plan B on the side.

It'll be hard but I think you have to tell her that you don't want to share her and that she has to pick, him or you.

Then go.

Fingers crossed that she picks you!

Good Luck!! xx

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