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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend doesn't want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know he loves me as he shows me in other ways. But getting him to kiss or have sex is very difficult. Ive tried lots of different things but nothing really works. He loves me I know that. HE said that sex was important in a relationship at the beginning of our relationship ... (61 words)

I had a sex-only relationship but now I want more. I'm lost. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a sex only relationship wit this guy. I got the idea he didn't wanna be all serious so I told him we can just call each other for those reasons. Before I didn't wanna go to the movies or dinner wit him cause I just go out an relationship now I wanna do more then just ... (102 words)

He forced me to have sex with him and I feel such a wreck about that. But I love him and don't want to break up with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have a boyfriend And I have been with him for 1 week. And The other Night , I was at his house and He kinda pressured me to have Sex with Him. Im 14 years old and I wasnt ready but He Forced me to do it. I dont feel right now and Im emotional Upset about it. I feel like ... (106 words)

Shes the only girl I have felt a connection with do you think I have messed things up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. OK this is kinda lengthy so to give you all the detail you need in order to give me the best advice here. I have worked with this girl who I shall call Mrs A since the end of March and she left last Tuesday, so end of April. She had been in my workplace f... (1317 words)

How do I know if ill ever get over him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i dated this guy on and off for about a year and we were, still are, truly in love he cheated three times. i hooked up with someone when we were broken up. we faught alot. but near the end, around september (we dated december 2006 - december 2007) we started getting along a lot ... (431 words)

He says he loves me very much but I got told that he cheated on me the night when my bestfriend died!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need major help. I have been with my Boyfriend For 4 years. And well a few weeks ago I lost my bestfriend. He died by drowing. "theres a Reason for this". The day b4 he died he told my bf"Treat her right, She's a good Girl". He laughed. And well now i got told that he cheated ... (247 words)

It's obvious to everyone else but I've never made a move before. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here's my problem, and I'm sorry about the length but this is a problem on so many different levels and I'm just so confused. Theres this guy who I work with who I have fancied for the last month or so. We work quite closely and we have always had a laugh and got on... (573 words)

Is her love just a lie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 4 years I have never loved anyone more. When we first saw each other it was an instant attraction, something you would read about in a fantasy. She was already in a relationship with someone and had a child with him. she could not keep the... (434 words)

How can I impress my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 13 and i have a really nice gf she hasnt really opened up yet and her friends really annoy me how can i impress her???... (26 words)

It's too much. He keeps flirting with me and I know he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He's a coworker and his GF works there too but in another department. We had usually being friends but mostly work things, we had never interested in each other, in fact I never even considered him before. But lately, he has change with me, I didn't notice until a friend o... (237 words)

Do you think he wants a relationship with me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age - I've been in a relationship with this man for 10 months. We have similar marital histories so there was a lot of understanding between us. He has never said he loved me though I believe he has strong feelings for me. He would mention our old age. we rent a house each on the ... (308 words)

I've always gone for "bad boys" so should I give this "nice guy" a chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age - I'm a single woman in my fifties. I would really like to have a partner, and have had various relationships over the last few years. The problem is that the guys I usually go for are the ones who have a spark of danger about them. And I have got hurt more than once! The ... (328 words)

How do I get this older, annoying, married guy to leave me alone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so theres this guy that i think likes me and i dont know what to do about it because i want him to leave me alone. at first when he would talk to me i thought he was just being nice. but now hes always calling me names like "baby" and saying how beautiful he thinks i am.he ... (93 words)

Is he sending off signals or is he just friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so there’s this boy (lets call him A) who’s 1 year older than me who I have a crush on. Well basically I’m confused about his feelings towards me. Yesterday me my best friend (G), her boyfriend (R) and A went out together. Because G and R are going out they spent most of ... (165 words)

I'm married but find myself attracted to a female boss, is she straight or not? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married woman of 4 years and I have a major problem at work, The head of my department at work is a very attractive 31 year old woman and I can't get her out of my head. I pecked her on the cheek as a thank you for helping me and she was fine with it. She alters my ... (152 words)

What do you do after two break-ups and someone you love wants to try a third time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - what do you do when someone you love a lot breaks up with you twice to be with someone else and then wants to get back together?... (27 words)

What are the signs your husband is cheating with a coworker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - what signs should I be looking for, I think that my husband is cheating on me with his co-worker while being away on business. I have no solid evidence but something in my stomach says it. how do i go about knowing if i am right or wrong?... (52 words)

No more attention unless he wants sex! What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have known each other about 4 months now and have dated about 3 months. at first we were all over each other. that lasted for about a month, if that. now he doesn't pay any attention to me unless he wants sex, which he hardly wants it. and won't even sit ... (120 words)

Am I the only one that has breasts like this? It makes me insecure!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question. I am insecure about my breasts. I have large breasts which men love, but the colored part around my nipple seems realy big to me compared to other breasts i've seen. Does it matter. Do men prefer one or the other? Am I the only one like this.... (52 words)

How will I know if I am ready for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how will i know if im ready for sex? me and my bf have been together for just over 8 months and we havnt had sex and i am still a virgin. i often think about having sex with him but sometimes i get scared becus im a virgin and hes not and whether it will affect our relationship ... (94 words)

Does he fancy me or does he fancy no-one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this lad.. i really like him, everyne says he likes me to (all of our friends)except when he is asked who he fancies he says nobody. everyone says all the signs are their that he likes me. He is always sitting next to me or walks by me, dances with me, holds my hand now ... (79 words)

We had sex and now he won't talk to me. What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so theres this guy. weve been mztes for about 8/ months. now ans again we aould have a little kiss and cuddle but wouldnt say anything about it afterwards. then recently we both spoke and told each other we really like each other, but we agreed we will just see how things ... (234 words)

He was so caring, and now I'm scared in case I get it wrong next time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heya, i was going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, we both lost our viginitys to each other, we were in love and had so much trust in our relationship, so it felt right. he was amazing, in the way that he cared for me and always made sure he wasnt 'hurting' me. i ... (215 words)

I didn't have sex and now he ignores me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

- I had a go with a boy in my course but did't have sex as I told him I only have it on a relationship basis and would prefer to know him better and so on, he told me to phone him and we agreed to date a week later but to muy surprise he look the other way when he came across me ... (298 words)

My mom says my girlfriend is taking advantage of me. Is she right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so here is the deal.. my mom tells me my gf of 7 months now is taking advantage of me. in this short time she has given up her apartment in an attempt to move in with her dad but she is never at his house she is at my house 5 days out of the week. she never pays any bills ... (167 words)

I think I am picking up her rich habits. Am I changing? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well to begin with i am a hard working teenager,because of my excellent grades i got into this prestigious university meant only for rich kids..when i first came to class i felt really lonely because i wasnt like any of the rich kids..but later on i saw this girl,she looked ... (175 words)

I really want him back even though he was violent. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night me and my boyfriend had an arguement, which caused him to get angry at me, he used violence against me and as a result im bruised, he told me he doesnt want a relationship and maybe in a few years time me and him will get back with me Im so confussed, he went out... (81 words)

She has a boyfriend back in her home town. Should I still ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, so theres dis gurl i really like, and im not sure but i think she likes me too, the problem is that when she moved to my town she left h boyfriend back over there in miami, my question is if i should ask her out? i mean sh acts like if she likes me and a lt of friend have ... (70 words)

Are his porn mags more important to him than me? Is this normal? What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I wanted to know if it is normal for your bf to masterbate to porn mag.'s rather than have sex with me? I always want sex, and he knows it, he looks at porn mag.'s while and after work.He always makes sexual advances when i’m sleeping. I feel like all he wants to do is m... (151 words)

He made excuses for not seeing me and got angry when I asked. Please help me understand.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age - I've been seeing this boy for 2 months. He told me on the phone that he couldn't see me this weekend, so I asked him when we could meet, and he flew off the handle... and then told me that he'd met someone else the last couple of days. I didn't believe him, and he then said ... (189 words)

We had cybersex, but now I don't understand what he is really trying to tell me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age - This guy and I started chatting a few months ago.... and had cybersex. We met a month later and got on really well. That was 2 months ago and I haven't seen him for a month. When I last saw him we got intimate, and then I went on holiday for two weeks. Although we have been ... (130 words)

I want to go on the pill. Will the doctor tell anyone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am worried i am 14 and want to go on the pill but i cnt let my mum find out so i was just wondring if i sneack to the doctors will they tell my mum or any of the family ... (44 words)

Whenever I like someone it goes wrong. What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever i like someone it always goes wrong. When I start a relationship with someone i really like them a lot in the beginning, but then i just feel bored and the feelings just go away.. this happens every time i like someone. And every time i have this power to like make ... (81 words)

Why does he ignore me? The signs are all there. Is it his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - asked him out 9 months ago. He’s shy and is in the popular group but is really focused on his studies.He said 2 days later that it was too close to exams but maybe after them thanx for asking. After summer he was showing loads of signs that he was interested. Trust me. He wou... (452 words)

I see the number 69 everywhere. Is it trying to tell me something? Is it a sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i was wondering if anyone could give me an answer to my question... basically, everywhere i go, i keep seeing these signs for things. not as in road signs, as in everywhere i go, i see the number 69..ok it might be nothing and im just noticing it because its the number 6... (152 words)

I tried to move on and then it all got messy. Was it all some kind of game for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m in a horrible dilemma, the last 12 months I’ve been trying to move on from this guy who I used to date. I’ve been feeling down and my feelings have became intense. I was contemplating weather to contact him. I did the stupidest thing to get in touch. He told me he was in ... (681 words)

I have feelings for an older guy, but my family might be a problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I really need your help. Right, here goes. . . I'm a 19 year old girl and I live in a small, close-knit village in South Wales (basically everyone knows everyone and everyones business.) For a while now I've been having feelings for a guy in the area. The problem is... (278 words)

His job means we keep moving, but it's not good for my children

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello all. I need some advice on my marriage. I have been with my husband for almost 5 years, and we are very happy together, we have almost the perfect marriage. The problem is his job. He works in agriculture, which has us moving all over God's creation. We are in 4 states ... (369 words)

He is going to tell me he loves me, but I'm confused and nervous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so ive been dating this guy for about three months and really like him a lot. we both have had our hearts broken in the past. he handled his break by sleeping around and what not, for him its been a year and a half, im the first girl hes wanted more than just sex from and ... (190 words)

It was special for her, but are there other methods to ensure she has an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - some educated answers would be great here!! I'm with a women with whom I make love with, literally for hours!!! Its great. The other day she had an orgasm through penetration, and I was shocked to learn that that was only the second time that had happened in her entire s... (131 words)

He says he doesn't want to go further, but his actions say different

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my question is i have a friend that i have grown closer to and now have feelings for. i asked him to be honest about were he wants to take our friendship. we are both with other people. he told me he wants to go further but has to much to loose i respect that but every ti... (83 words)

My friend's girlfriend is wrecking our friendship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend has recently got a new girl friend. I think this is great, really I'm pleased for him. However, we are also good friends, and I enjoy our alone time where I can discuss things that I - perhaps - wouldn't feel comfortable talking about with his girlfriend there. Sh... (324 words)

My in-laws hate me. It's all getting worse.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hello all - I posted a question nearly a year ago and checking it back recently I can see that people have even commented recently so thank you http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-in-laws-hate-me-and-my-husband.html I wanted to add a comment - maybe it is a final na... (245 words)

I'm not cheating but my boyfriend thinks I am.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, FAST! My boyfriend found 3 messages i'd sent a guy i slept with before.(TOTALLY INNOCENT) He was a colleage, and i HAD to text him regarding work, even though i know i was totally in the wrong for doing it behind my boyfriend's back. I have NEVER EVER cheated on ... (353 words)

She has backed off. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl i like was all over me a week ago and now is just treatin me as her mate. We were all over each other but since her mate spoke to her she has backed off me and dont wana see me. Also a close relative died so she would be upset what do i do?... (57 words)

I feel I don't trust him when he is drinking. Doesn't he really remember what he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for thirty years and I have a problem with my husband flirting with my friends, women,calling them Babe, etc... A few years ago, at the end of a wedding reception I noticed that he was missing along with my girlfriend of more than thirty-five years. I went... (367 words)

The only lad I've ever loved has confessed he doesn't have feelings for me, but something still doesn't seem right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, ok i need help and quick!! I've never been one to want a bf, liked being single etc until i met this lad in my class now for the past 5 months its gone from a patheic crush to a lot more. I always thought he liked me an so did a friend of mine but now he finally knows as ... (578 words)

Me or her? Why can't he choose or is he just playing with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke off twice with this guy, G because of religious reasons, him being a Christian and I not. We then held on to each other in an ambiguous relationship (I had two boyfriends after him but he was always there for me and I kept turning to him) until he called it quits late ... (315 words)

I would hate not to have her as a friend but it cuts me up when she is with her boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently met this girl who I get on really well with but she has a boyfriend. We talk all the time nearly every day either in person or on the phone often for hours at a time. We socialise together as well. She knows I would like to be more than friends with her but we are ... (178 words)

He says he loves me but not in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi...well i will try to keep it brief i have been married for 10yrs together for 17yrs we have been separated for 10 weeks now was kind of a mutual spilt but i think he went on to see someone else...contact has been very limited...but over the last week he has been to see me ... (373 words)

My husband likes porn and I cant help but notice that the women in the porn he masturbates over always look very different to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have read a lot of the questions and answers on here about porn and there is some interesting reading for sure but I have a question...my husband likes porn and I cant help but notice that the women in the porn he masturbates over always look very different to me..I am in my ... (270 words)

Help I've made a bit of a mess of things with bf and his cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well eight months ago i met this boy. i'm 14 and he'd just turned 17 and we really got to like eachother. one day he kissed me and everything was great. i also talk to his cousin on msn, and his cousin told me that the boy i liked had a girlfriend. i was really confused wether ... (299 words)

I can't get/keep an erection -any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i usely have sex with my grilriend about four times a week, on two seperate days. im really attracted to her and her body arrouses me but i can't get/keep an errection. we do foreplay and is fun for her but not so much for me as: 1. its quite embarassing im not hard ... (88 words)

My boyfriend of 11 months may have lied to me about why he got fired!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 11 months may have lied to me about something. I was at a party today and one of his friends whos step dad worked with my boyfriend and I were talking and we got to talking about my boyfriend and he said that my boyfriend got fired for not calling in when ... (100 words)

I always find myself fancying other men and sometimes ask myself do I really want to be with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, well here is my problem. I am married for nearly two years, we had our problems and broke up twice during this 2 years. The thing is, i always find myself fancying other men and sometimes ask myself do i really want to be with my husband. There are times when i wan... (345 words)

I'm 23 and still a virgin. I don't know much about sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

4 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm 23 and still a virgin. I don't know much about sex. i am looking for someone to tell me about sex. never had a girlfriend and never even fooled around with one. Please Help me!!!!!!... (38 words)

Where can I hide my "toy" from Mum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am trying to find a place to put my vibrator.do u know where the most unlikley Place that my Mom whould find it? Post thanks... (30 words)

I kissed my best friend's husband and I think she knows

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have 2 really good friends; best friends, I suppose. They're a married couple with a toddler and I'm a single mom. Our kids play together and my friend, "Beth" watches my daughter for me, while I work. We are like family, truly. "David" and I work together and, tonight, I ... (253 words)

I feel I look awful without any make-up on and makes me feel too self-conscious about spending the night with guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have never been lucky in love but recently I met someone really nice.We have been on dates. The problem is that i feel i look awful without any make-up on. He thinks i look really beautiful but i feel when he sees the real me he will run off. My ex-boyfriend felt i... (124 words)

Have decided I would like to have a child-but partner may decide the opposite! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 35, on the fast slide to 36 and I have decided I would like to have a child. Unfortunately, I am experiencing that common problem of a partner (39) who has decided the opposite. We have a strong, loving relationship. We both share strong ethical values. He has indicate... (108 words)

How can I stop "Mr Perfect" from trying to force me to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

- Everyone thinks my bf is perfect! He portrays this Mr Nice Guy act but Im not too sure how REAL that image is. His family think hes a perfect catholic boy who treats women with respect. My family think the same. And my friends, they think hes the best bf ive ever had! Hes a ... (323 words)

Can I save this situation and get my man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy (guy x) recently caught my eye at a party, though I didn't feel too strongly about him. The day after the party I got asked on a date by one of guy x's friends, who I also know. I accepted the date, because the friend is a nice guy and I thought it might work out, and ... (168 words)

I don't want to hurt him again-but what do yo think my feelings are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so basically i am very confused as of what to do. i have so much problems right now and it's so hard to deal with. there's this guy that i kind of like.. i don't know if i like him really. like when i first met him i kinda teased him i guess and he liked me and then it's ... (171 words)

He says I really need to tell him something good, so what do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for a year and a half and I kind of cheated on him, we broke up, then he took me back, two weeks later we have another fight and he kicked me out. I have been gone for two weeks, he is telling me he loves me and wants me home, but wont let me come ... (90 words)

When I see her on MSN I just ramble and ramble...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - So I found this fabulous website the other day for LGBT youth, and I am already checking it every hour sort of thing ^_^ It's just so neat to meet so many people! At any rate, I met this girl, and I quite like her, but I'm afraid I'm coming off too strongly. When I see her o... (103 words)

Is what he's saying normal or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have met a guy through some friends and we were just friendly to begin with. I was interested but I thought he wasn't. Then as I had planned a trip to Greece, I went out the night before my flight and he happened to be there. We just acted friendly and then he started texting ... (1347 words)

Should I tell him that my friend he fancies is only 14?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a show with a friend and my other friend *D was there, and I also ran into some other friends. He was checking out my friend *C who turns out to only be 14 while *D is 17. I noticed he was checking her out but I didn't really think much of it.. (why should I? It's a ... (283 words)

Help, I feel alone in my own house!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So ive been in a serious relationship going on 6 years, and we have a 2 yr old together, it seems lately that he never wants to spend just me and him time anymore, we used to watch movies after we put or daughter to sleep, now we just do our own thing "most the time' we do ... (222 words)

Does anyone else just not get that turned on when they are intimate with their partner?

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can somebody please help me! Does anybody else just not get that turned on when they're being intimate with their partner? But finds it pretty easy on their own? I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and I thought maybe at the beginning I just found it hard to relax... (274 words)

We are married and neglected by our spouses so we fell in love! What do we do?

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone, Please help. I have been married for over 10 yrs. My best friend has been married for 19 yrs. We have just discovered that we are in love with each other. We both have children and spouses who neglect us. We have not slept together or crossed any lines. ... (99 words)

I'm afraid of trying new sexual positions!

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am afraid to try new sex postions what do i do?... (12 words)

Deep down inside, I know he isn't the one for me. Advice on how to let go?

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't let go of my boyfriend. Deep down inside i know he isn't for me other than the fact everyone tells me, i still ignore them and get hurt over and over again. I mean i never asked him for anything during our four year relationship and he never gave me anything. W... (175 words)

Is it an offence to send text threatening to tell everyone she was sexually abused?

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best friends, just 17, split with her boyfriend of the same age after he cheated on her almost a year ago, and has hardly spoken to him since, hasn't done ANYTHING to upset him, at the break-up or after, and he hadn't tried to iteract with her either until recently. ... (259 words)

I need to meet her more so I can judge her feelings-help?

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4 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I like my friend. I want to meet her more outside school but I can't afford to risk her finding out my feelings otherwise our friendship could be destroyed but I need to meet her more so I can judge her feelings. Places like cinema are out of the question because she may wonder ... (67 words)

He keeps ditching me for this other person, what can I do?

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4 May 2008 (F)

- I need help. I have a close friend who I used to spend everyday with and recantly he has become close with another lad who is like his boyfriend. and everyday they are together. He will cancel plans with me and then go out with this lad. Its really upsetting me. Were not ... (147 words)

I don't think he went all the way, but he said he did cum. Now I don't know what to do. Help!

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesteday, i don't think he went all the way but he said he did cum. I'm so worried i don't know what to do! I can't tell my parents, and i don't know if i can go doctor's without them? HELP!... (53 words)

Is eating cheating? As in having a sexual encounter with a another female.

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay one quick question. If you are a married woman, and you have sexual relations with another woman is it cheating?... (21 words)

Please please help, I need reassurance badly!

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please please, i need major reassurance! Well last March i had an abortion because my baby was diagnosed with Downs Syndrome. Me and my partner were all set 2 go ahead with the pregnancy until we were told the baby wouldn't survive, as it had leaky heart valves. It's some... (131 words)

I don't go anywhere to make new friends. What can I do??

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4 May 2008 (F)

- I've just been thinking. I don't have many friends. Ones that will actually be there for me. I have one online which is caring for me but others I don't feel that they are best friends. The person who I thought was my best friend keeps selling me out for someone whose like his ... (108 words)

All tests were negative...so then why have I not had a period in nearly 3 months?

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. I haven't gotten my period in 2mths. It will be three on may 17. Now here is the weird part. I have taken 5 at home pregnancy test and 1 blood pregnancy test 2 weeks ago. All were negative. Can I be pregnant or what's going on with me?... (53 words)

Please help me to help my friend. His girlfriend is really nasty and abusive toward him, I think he's scaredof her!!

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my good male friends has a problem with his girlfriend. Well, they have been together for about two years and his girlfriend tells him what to do all of the time and won't allow him any freedom! If he wants to go partying with his friends, he can't if his girlfriend does... (202 words)

How do I get out of this cycle and find someone real?

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to be 20 in 2 months time and I'm still a virgin and have never had a boyfriend I'm starting to think I'm going to be alone forever. I dont think it's a problem with my physical appearance, but more with my personality, I'm intensly shy when it comes to guys and mayb... (146 words)

I want to be a Model not a Doctor!!

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i am 19 years old..and i am doing medicine(mbbs)in the first year of school..recently i have lost all my interest in studies and dont want to pursue what i am doin..cause now all my attention is into modelling..i did a few shows and i loved it..i study medicine in ... (143 words)

I need to contact him before we leave for different Uni's. Please can you help?

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i may sound like a loser to you guys but i have to make a confession....i liked a guy for almost 8 months secretly without anyone knowing. I used to catch him looking at me many times, but it lead nowhere..and now i have 15 days left, and both of us will be moving to a ... (151 words)

Is it possible to reverse his image of the "needy" girl, as I think I may have scared him off!

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4 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy about 4 months ago. He lives 2000 miles away, but was in town for the weekend and we met, but did not hook up. We exchanged numbers and began to get to know each other. I flew to see him twice already, and the last time(about 2 weeks ago). I freaked out and star... (213 words)