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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm starting to obsess over my weight again and think I have a problem.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - this really isnt a relationship problem but its deff a problem... okay well since a recent brake up with my bf i have had very low self esteem. I used to have an eating disorder, I was always working out and finding some way to lose weight. Well now My self esteem is low and ... (166 words)

Are there any women who dislike having their man's semen in their mouth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there any women who dislike having their man's semen in their mouth? Has anyone ever gagged on it? How do you get past the taste and texture? I really want to try, but whenever a little gets in, I gag. It's strictly from the above mentioned taste and texture. The ... (136 words)

It's only 4" when hard, what can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm 20 years old and i only had sex once when i was 18. I think it's cuz of my penis size, it's only 4 inches on hard. So someone tell me what should i, do cuz i feel embarrassed by it. ... (43 words)

We've been on and off, should I stay with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I was dating a guy for about a month when I did something very stupid and started talking to another guy on the side. This devastated him. However, he stayed with me. Then, it got to me and I just broke it off. He was so heart-broken. Then, we got back together. When we did, ... (222 words)

She's never experienced an orgasm - is there a logical explanation for this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend said, she'd before or she doesn't know if she's had one with any of her previous boyfriends. Is there something wrong with her, and is there a logical explanation for this?... (33 words)

Part of me still wants to be with him but part of me wants to let go, and be friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 65 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - He says he loves me he wants to be with me but right now is not a good idea. But he is dating another girl he says she is not important but he still wants to be with me. She knows about me. I don’t believe him. Part of me still wants to be with him but part of me wants to let ... (78 words)

How can I restore our friendship? Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 108 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I was friends with this guy since i was in Primary 1. He is a year older than me. When i started my first year of high i fell for him. Through out the year he kept giving me the impression that he liked me. In August i went on this trip which was only ment to be with the 3rd ... (185 words)

I want him back, but it's up to him. Now I have some questions:

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) age 18-21 - I've been posting about how my ex broke up with me because I lied about my past. People often reply that they have to know what I've lied about to help me. Here it goes, be prepared for it's long. Oh, something to keep in mind, I've always had low self esteem, now it's... (1593 words)

He liked me back....well I thought he did.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I really liked this boy on a school trip, he liked me back, well i thought he did. His msn broke down, and so i added him on bebo, and he blocked me from bebo. I don't know why but i can't stop thinking about him, and i know he can't stop thinking about me too, so why is he do... (64 words)

Why the sudden loss of energy to have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We get on get and have talked about moving in together and booking a holiday in August. However the past four months he has gone off sex and we have not slept together. We still kiss, hug, cuddle etc and he says he loves me. I aske... (125 words)

My mum wont let me become a vegan, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I've been a vegetarian for 5 years (I didn't eat meat or fish) because I think it's cruel to animals. A few weeks ago, I decided to become a vegan. I asked my mom and she said she would think about it because she doesn't think it's healthy. After a week, I asked her agai... (305 words)

How long do I give him if he needs time? Or do I end it...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm stuck in a difficult position with a guy I've just started dating. We dated for three weeks and it was probably one of the best starts to a relationship I've ever had. We were compatible in pretty much every way. We would see each other 2 times a week so as not to ru... (700 words)

Are they competing or were they ever pregnant at all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I dont know who to believe...its complicated, about a year back my friend(c) became pregnant, she then miscarried a few months later... H is currently 4-5 months pregnant. There's 4 of us, me, C, H and L btw. A few weeks ago, L came to me after discovering about H claiming... (133 words)

He wont be honest and I spend night after night wondering and worrying.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had an affair 3 years ago with my best friend of 30 years, I have since worked things out with him and I thought we were ok. He is now texting a women at work, has her pic on his phone hides his phone, locks his phone and keeps it glued to him. I confront him and ... (246 words)

I looked up the net history: my dad has been viewing porn sites! I'm scandalised!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - im 16 and my mum and dad have split up and im fine with that and i have a great relationship with both of them. my dad recently bought a new laptop and ive been on it every now and again but now im starting to get worried. i looked up the history on my dads internet and ... (215 words)

I'm only 10 and my friends are talking about sex. I don't understand!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I am only 10 but all my friends are talking about blow jobs. . . But i dont know what they are could someonw please help me so i know what my friends are talking about ?... (38 words)

I have frequent wet dreams, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, i face wet dreams and some times its more like twice the same night and 4 to 5 time a week i think this is bad and as i am 23 now i heard they reduce in frequency in time i have never tried intercourse with the oppsite sex is there any soultion for this ,i would reques... (90 words)

My best friend didn't want to talk to me because I was seeing other friends! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello guys! My problem isn't about relationships or sex but about friendships.I've got a best friend called C. for 2 years. She's really amazing! But she's angry with me...I've got 2 other friends Ci. and Jo. and Jo. hates Ci. For 3 days,Ci. stayed with C. and I was so jeal... (221 words)

We had sex at a party the other night, but she says she does not want a relationship... What should I say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - theres this girl im majorly falling for and i dont know what to do, we've met a few times and we had Sex at a party the other night, but she says now things are too fast and she doesn't want a relationship at the moment... but i cant get her out of my head, she's there all the ... (114 words)

She swears the break up has nothing to do with another guy. How can I know if there is a chance for us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - my x gf is 10 yrs. older than me and we were together for 6 months before she broke up with me last week. we have had trouble in the past and even broke up for a weekend, two weeks before she ended it. since we have been back together everything has been real nice, but she said... (206 words)

Should I be upset that my husband sends over 100 text mesaages a month to her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am afraid that my husband of 21 years is having an emotional affair with a women at work. I have confronted him several times only to hear shes married, its nothing quit sweating about it, however, he works 5 to 5 and he tells me hes has no time to call or text me, yet he g... (175 words)

I am having terrible dreams about my dead parent, that taint my memory of him. How can I stop them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - 3 years ago my father died. Ever since then, every so often i have horrific dreams about him. They started about a year after he died. In these dreams, he's always trying to hurt me. In one he chased after me and beat me up until i could barely move. The next, he tied me... (175 words)

I know I am better without him but it is sad to realise I invested time in a bad relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi Cupids! I've posted on here many times about my ex bf of nearly three years cheating on me the entire time with many different girls. We've been broken up for seven months now with absolutely no contact for one and a half months. But lately I've started to get really s... (114 words)

Is chatting with strangers online about sex, cheating? My ex joined a BDSM site, I cannot explain it.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i discovered that my partner had a profile on a BDSM website. As there is nothing dominant / submissive with regards to our relationship i found this very strange. To see what this was about i set up a profile myself and chatted to him/his online persona , he spoke ... (333 words)

I am a bi male, how do I tell this guy I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Im 16 male Bi. Just wanted to ask, how could i tell this guy at school that im bi and that i like him. I have a 60% feeling that he might be bi too. I was crying for him and it feels like im alone. I dont know what to do!! Please help!!... (57 words)

Am I reading between the lines too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Recently i went out on a date with a lad that my friend from work knows and he works with 2 members of my family anyway he ended it i was so shocked because we had such a lovely time. But whenever i go out on a saturday night know i have people coming up to me talki... (141 words)

I don't feel my sex life is as good as others, my orgasms don't seem as good as other girls'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have felt unhappy about my sex life for a long time. I was in a long term relationship from 16-21, sexually active from the beginning but never actually experienced an orgasm or sexual pleasure until I was 20, with my boyfriend. Neither of us was experienced enou... (208 words)

Lost my virginity, freaking out a bit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Help! i lost my virginity to a guy i had been going out with for a month. a week after we had an arguement because he never bothered using any protection and ending up splitting up. last week i saw him, and ending up kissing him and telling him i love him even tho ... (96 words)

Can you explain sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I am wondering besides humping what is sex? I am only 11 years old so, do not make your answers that detailed or gross. Thanks if you answer nicely.... (29 words)

I want to improve my bedroom performance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi everyone I've want to improve my bedroom performance as i can't last very long at all with my girlfriend I've been looking into this thing about strengthing your PC muscle and it sounds great. Problem is i have no idea where my PC muscle is. Apparently you can feel i... (78 words)

What is a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I am only 11 years old. I have a question about older people. That question is: what is a virgian? ... (20 words)

My fiance's ex has poisoned their daughters mind

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance recently brought his daughter to live with him after not seeing her for 7yrs an no contact for 5yrs,during the last 2yrs her mother has poisoned her mind against me so ive been made to stay away along with our 3yr old son whom is her stepbrother.im angry at the fact ... (168 words)

I've been told the guy I'm seeing is a playa. How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey everyone! I'm a 17 year old girl from the UK. Lately I've been hanging out at a friend's flat most nights as there is always good company, and I've developed a crush on a guy I met quite recently who is often there. About a week ago we kissed and we've been kissing and ... (159 words)

I've lied to everyone. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I am dating a boy and none of my friends know. One of my friends think I am dating him so, she told everyone at lunch. I told everyone she was lying. I lied to so many people. What do I do?... (42 words)

I'm having trouble eating in front of people who aren't my immediate family

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - for the past year i've been finding it difficult to eat in front of anyone who isn't my immediate family e.g parents. when i eat in front of anyone else i get this relly sicky feeling and when i try and eat i gag. does anyone know what might be wrong with me? any suggestions ... (70 words)

How come you don't hear stories of people who have cheated but changed and sorted it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (?) age 22-25 - how come you dont hear stories about people who have cheated in a relationship and have changed for the best and there partner accept them back as a different person? ... (30 words)

I'm feeling like a failure, I cant make her climax anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - When me and my partner first met 2 and a half years ago, we had amazing sex! As with most relationships, that 'can't keep our hands off each other' phase died down but there was still a good and passionate sex life left in its wake. However, around the start of this ye... (297 words)

Are my butterflies a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - So there is this girl i have wanted to date for a long time. She has a boyfriend but things are looking like we may go out one day. I really like her but now i am nervous to date her. I mean i want to so bad i will be sad if we don't but i guess it just kinda snuck up on me ... (120 words)

Having sex has started to hurt me and I don't know why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months and we have had a lot of sex. but for some reason, it really hurt the last time we did it. its never hurt like this before. i cant really explain the feeling, the deeper he went the more it hurt my insides. he has gone this deep ... (106 words)

Job interview: what to wear and what to say

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, I know this isnt a relationship question but i really need some advice! I have a job interview on Wednesday and its my first ever interview so i want to know what would be good things to say and what kind of clothes to wear? I really want this job and want to make a good ... (70 words)

How can I move on from my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - im so confused about my feelings at the moment. my ex broke up with me about a year and a half ago. she meant so so much to me and i was affected so much. she broke up with me when i was in year 10 and since then ive had dreams about her and i cant manage to create new ... (241 words)

An attached man I've been seeing recently ended it. I don't know what he's afraid of?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been seeing a man I work with for a few months. We both live with our partners so yes, we are cheating. But it's not just about the sex, which has only happened a couple of times and only started recently. It's more about the companionship we offer each other and the fun ... (490 words)

Could I still be pregnant, even though he was only in there 30 seconds?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - last weekend my boyfriend put his penis in me and then i got off him (as i was on top) as soon as he got in maybe 30 seconds after. could i be pregnant?... (34 words)

Why does she seem to want more than I know how to give her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I am in a troubled relationship right now of one and a half years. We fell in love with each other as soon as we met. She is very fun to be around when she is actually in a good mood and when things are going her way. Lately, she has given me the ultimatum that she wants more ... (296 words)

My parents split up and it's tearing me apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - my mam and dad had been together for 20 years, about a year ago they split up and it tore me apart, i didnt eat or anything, but i realised why should i put myself through it, about 2 months after splitting up they decided to give it another go, it was workin fine and then out ... (145 words)

What should I do now? Why did he end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi im 19 yers old this question im about to ask has been going round in my head now for about 4 weeks. the thing is 4 weeks ago i went on a date with my supervisors flat mate i didnt know thats who he was. he works in a pub and when i came in he thought i was nice. It ... (591 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to kiss me any more. Have I done something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey yeh i have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now and yes hes yonger then me im in year 9 and hes in year 7 and lately hes been sad/depressed so i asked him whats wrong he said he doesnt want to kiss me at school no more because hes big brother is in my... (102 words)

How can I cope when he leaves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (?) age 13-15 - Im really close to boy mate and I have been for 3 years now and I've recently fallen for him, although he doesn't know it. We get on so well, talk all the time and text each other everyday. I really like having him in my life but he is going to Uni (about 150 miles from where ... (136 words)

The man I met online made me feel like a princess. Now he wants to take things a bit slower. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was married for 16 years to a man who in general treated me well but ultimately chose to cheat on me throughout the marriage. We are divorced now. I went on a dating site and met a man who was very intersted in me. Everything happened very fast and we had an instant ... (180 words)

He's a manipulator. Why would someone play games like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Maybe i shouldn't even bother trying to analyse this but.. Me and my ex had a row the other night, and he grabbed me and pinned me up against a cupboard. I fought him off, and got him out the house. My children and his child were in the house at the time, and i ended up c... (418 words)

My sister is a recovering alcoholic and seeing drinkers upsets me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I need some advice. My sister is a recovering alcoholic. She hasn't had anything to drink in a long time and is doing really well. But because she went through a lot of trauma and saw negative side effects from alcohol I abstain from alcohol. My girlfriend likes to drink and ... (161 words)

I think my brother is gay, how can I know if he is?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - i think my brother is gay how can i know if he is not ... (16 words)

We've been together for more than 10 years but I'm determined not to forgive his infidelity, what do you think?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out my husband had an affair a year and a half ago. The only reason it's over now is because the other woman ended it. The whole thing lasted about a month. He was angry that she hurt him, not sure if he tried to win her back or anything, he says he did not but I don'... (203 words)

In a long distance relation but starting to develop feelings for a man at the gym, who is committed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship for over 12 months now and he is loving, attentive, caring etc...all the things women crave. BUT i have started to fancy/think a lot about a man i have recently come into contact with on a regular basis at the gym i train at. I found ... (138 words)

He is way more experienced in bed than me and I don't think I am satisfying him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey guys, i am going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now and mad about him. I lost my virginity to him and i dont regret it for one minute. The thing is that he is way more experienced in bed than me and i dont think i am satisfying him. He does it for me in every way but ... (157 words)

What's the sticky white stuff in my vagina??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend have been having sex for quite a while now. But recently this sticky white stuff has appeared in my vagina during sex and I have no idea what it is. It's never happened before but recently it's happened everytime. Do you have any idea what it... (76 words)

Is the way my ex is acting mean he might still have fellings for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Am really confused with the way my ex is acting,i still have feelings for him and have always got the feeling he feels the same way, even more so recently. Could do with some advice-please please help! We split up about year and half ago and have remained really good frie... (266 words)

I love my baby's father, but he has destroyed me emotionally, tell me what you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I am 22 year old, who had or have a relationship with a 42 year old man, and a 5 months baby boy. Since we started he has been lying and cheating on me, but i always forgive him, i feel that i can't take anymore, i am so depressed i feel i should get help, the worse think i ... (323 words)

My mum paid for his flight to join us in Spain but I think he is backing out now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - heres an update on my problem this guy iv known for two years, latly we have got really close, but then he told me he liked someone else, yet he's only know her for a week and thinks there going to become a couple! when were were close (about 2 weeks ago) everything w... (215 words)

Good memories of one night stands?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There are topics on regretting, or feeling hurt after a one night stand. This topic is about the opposite. They say having a one night stand changes you, or it stays with you. So does it stay with you in a good way? I was wondering if any of you look back on your one ni... (150 words)

I'm too scared to admit my sexuality

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi cupid,i think im gay but im too scared to admit it to anyone. I go on gay chat but i woulnd't ever tell anyone? I'm only 14 and like girls and boys but boys more what should I do? Also I had sex with a boy!And now afraid he might tell someone?... (56 words)

Why do guys lie to me about their girlfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - First of all, it seems as if, every guy I meet has a girlfriend. I dont know what to do, I try not to gain feelings for them. But, sometimes I feel as if im just by myself. Anyways, my question is, why do guys lie to me, about their girlfriends? And why, are so many guys blind? ... (69 words)

I don't trust my children's father to be with them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boy, 7 and a girl, 9. I moved in September to another state so that I could take a teaching job. At the same time, I left the father of my children. This is the source of my problem. I have left the father of my children many times. First, before we had children, ... (562 words)

My husband left and wants a divorce. Now he won't even talk to me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 15 years walked out at Xmas leaving me and the children. He had been having an affair but said it had nothing to do with her he just didn't want to be with me anymore. I was very hurt and angry. He still pays all the bills and the mortgage but wants a divorce as ... (231 words)

How do I get rid of my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I think i have a crush on this guy who is older than me, i hate having a crush on him because i dont think anything will ever happen, how do i get rid of it?... (36 words)

I said I only wanted sex, and now she only wants friendship

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I am a Mechanical Engineer (graduated) who is in love with a MBA girl. I really love her a lot. But I recently did a blunder mistake. Actually her parents are very strict and she says they hate love marriages. But I hardly care about what her parents want. I just want to have ... (367 words)

Do most teenage girls shave the bikini line? I get bumps and irritation.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) age 13-15 - do most teenage girls shave or wax down there? i try to shave around my bikini line but get red bumps and intense irritation. what do i do?... (28 words)

First love, and it's over. I still have feelings for her. Can I make her want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My ex-girlfriend. we were each others first love/sex. we were really close, but we broke up, and we were on and off. Now things are a little different, because we grew up with each other but we were broken up. so it was awkward between us and now we are understanding th... (103 words)

Married a year and we're not talking to each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - tomorrow makes 1 year for our marriage and we aren't even talking to each other. he's very loving, caring, nice but he doesn't take care of business especially with money properly.i can ask him something and he will sit there and say nothing and then if i say you're being petty ... (142 words)

Do you think there is a possibility that we might get back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - What should I do?My 7 year relationship ended 3 weeks ago. I am 24 years old and he's 27 years old. We argued because I said he only wants to be with his friends and told him he didn't care about me. He says he loves me and cares about me but he thinks that I love him more. ... (296 words)

Am I reading too much into these signs? I am too shy to ask him out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

- There is this guy in my college class and I think he may like me. Not 100% sure. The thing is, we have been in the same class for about 4 months now and he hasnt asked me out or anything. I dont know if thats cause hes shy, if hes taking his time and trying to get to knwo me ... (320 words)

Any advice on anxiety attacks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 111 days ago

18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hello, I've been having really bad anxiety attacks and all that, and its making me want to just be alone, and i dont want to really, but this anxiety's liek controlling me. I want to get on something for it, but i dont know what the side effects could be. any help wo... (64 words)

Should I suck up my feelings and let her tramp on me for a little while?

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18 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Alright, this one is going to be a long on, but I need all the help I can get fast, before I make another mistake. Me and Jamie have been in a relationship for about 4 1/2 years. To start, we started in highschool, and had a few confrontations where she would lie to me ... (963 words)

I finally came clean about everything about my past, and he broke up with me

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18 May 2008 (F) age 18-21 - My ex broke up with me a couple of days ago. It was because I had lied about some stuff from the past, several times. The other day I finally came clean about everything, and he broke up with me as I expected. Of course I was hurt, and of course he was angry. I had the feelin... (420 words)

He loves his mother and sisters and they love him...I feel jealous because he is mine

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - life is going smooth.married for two n half years.actually the problem is ...my possesiveness,may be overpossesiveness,for my husband whom i love like fish cant live without water i cant without him..its been three yrs that v r together ...i dont like anything n dont enjoy ... (126 words)

He told me he was going to ask me out but, I'm best friends with his ex...

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - So, I've been talking to this guy a lot, and I believe I like him... but here's the problem..so, I hung out with him all day today.. and he told me he was going to ask me out but, I'm best friends with his ex... so he wasn't sure how that would be for me... and now, he has a ... (96 words)

My mum get's angry when I stutter!

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - When I talk to my mom she rolls her eyes, and she looks angry. I could tell sometimes she doesn't want me to talk to her. Sometimes when I talk I stutter or cannot get the words out of my mouth. Maybe my mom doesn't like the way I talk.I can't help it though. I treat my mom ... (86 words)

Are all relationships like this?

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i got my very first boyfriend this school year...and i didnt like the relationship at all. it was very childish..sneaking around school to make out...amateur touching...cheesy and fake "iloveyous" and all that good ..stuff. we never really got to talk and i felt like he was ... (79 words)

I still have feelings for him, but I'm also scared that someone may get hurt. SOMEONE being me

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I dont want to over analyze this situation , but for some reason I cant help to. I have a guy friend whom at one point I was very close to we use to talk everyday , hang out from time to time , this eventually led to us sleeping together a few times . I loved him , but at that ... (889 words)

Pity for my ex and regret for ever even dating him-Help!

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - okay. i broke up with my boyfriend of 4.5 months last week. he had been very pushy and cheated on me all the time. i've known him for a good 5 years or so. and i know a lot about him. he's very poor. this had no effect on our relationship, of course..but it did prevent ... (367 words)

I've never really kissed before. How should I pucker my lips?

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18 May 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - This girl and I have had this thing for each other for a very long time. We both feel ready to kiss, but I've never really kissed before. How should I pucker my lips? This is the only problem I'm running into! I've read about all this other stuff like teasing and touching ... (71 words)

Personal question on labia

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear, cupid I feel really ashamed asking this! My labia is too small and my urethra sticks out. I found that a beautiful vaginal or {porno graphical} considered{ healthy } is when the outer vulva covers the inner section ofthe bladder. Please help give me some advice on t... (115 words)

My girlfriend thinks I am sexually unattractive

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18 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I just got off the phone to my girlfriend and we have been having problems lately. She said the problems were due to her not finding me sexually attractive due to me not being 'big' enough. She said big as in how i was built and that I'm too skinny for her. She sai... (109 words)

Is it a good idea for a 21 year old girl to lose her virginity with an older guy?

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, Do you guys think it is a good idea for a 21 year old girl to loose her virginity with a much experience men who's 35 years old or do you guys think that's too old or that we've got too much of a difference in experience ?... (52 words)

I was wondering if first time sex would hurt for a virgin in her early twenties who regularily masturbates?

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I was wondering if first time sex would hurt for a virgin in her early twenties who is used to masturbating. Does that mean she won't experience any pain ? Thanks.... (38 words)

Is it unusual to still be a virgin at 21?

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm just wondering if this is unusual to still be a virgin at 21. I am quite shy and haven't had yet any boyfriend or girlfriend whatsoever. I planned an appointment to the GYN since they say you should go once you reach the age of 21 but thing is I'm just really ash... (107 words)

I don't know what is going to happen between me and my husband-can anyone advise?

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18 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Quite complicated! Here it goes: I was unhappy om my marriage and after 3 years of friendship with a co-worker we started to see each other. His girlfriend of 5 years left him because she wanted to marry him, but he was confused. After she left him, he dated two more girls an... (548 words)