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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I name this horse 'noid' or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - today my girl and i had a very good day laughs and jokes. so after i drop her off at home,she calls me and tells me that she loves me and that she had fun today, about 3 hours later she calls again and says she loves me and thanks me for everything and for me to take care of ... (162 words)

How do you know if he came inside you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know if the guy you had sex with came into you?? we only did it for bout 5 to 7 mintues at the most...and he put it in.. i just dont know if he came or not he told me he didnt but i dont know if he was just lying to me. How will I know if im pregnet with out buying a ... (91 words)

I'm not sure what to do with what I've seen on myspace!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello aunts i need your help well i have a boyfriend who i love very much and i kno he loves me but he does some things i do not approve of well he has this so called friend and when i went on myspace today i looked at her pictures and i saw comments on there from him sayin she ... (119 words)

Do people who get engaged young have lasting relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. i just got engaged to my bf of 3 years and many people have criticised this. so i want to ask you ppl do you think a relationship wer u fall in love in a young age and then get married wen they are older will last??? like we started going out when i was 14 and now ... (99 words)

Should I pay for this holiday if I don't end up going?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am considering splitting up with my boyfriend. I don’t want to go into why, but there is a slight problem if we can’t sort out our problems and do split up - we are due to go on holiday in 6 weeks and I don’t know what to do. He paid for the holiday and told me to pay him ... (167 words)

My husbands parents hate me and I'm pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husbands parents hate me. His mother accused me of being a witch because I did Tarot for fun.They even offered him money not to marry me. Well we were married on June 23rd of last year, and it was wonderful. except for his parents, who even at the reception told everyone ... (325 words)

I think about blowjobs all the time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - whenever i look at a girl, i just imagine getting a blowjob off her or shagging her mouth. it happens all the time and i dont know why. nothing else works for me but i just think about blow jobs all the time. especially when they are weraing shiny lipstick. i dont know whether ... (63 words)

I give relationships my all but always end up feeling used, should I get tougher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm the type of lady thats stick to one guy if i care about him even if we are not in a relationship. well , i don't know how to get out of this habit. i feel stupid when i put my all into someone and they just use me because they know that i will be there for them. why do i ... (98 words)

Whats the time span for having sex with someone else, after a break up with a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats the time span for having sex with someone else, after a break up with a boyfriend. im curious? thanks! ... (28 words)

I'm not really interested in him in that sort of way but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have a problem at the moment, right i recently got together with this guy and he's so sweet and kind and has a great personality and he really cares about me, but the problem is i really don't find him attractive at all! Like, I'm not really interested in him in ... (127 words)

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girl friend almost 2yrs. This has been my best relationship no arguing no fights. So far the only beef we have had has been about her going with a male friend to the mall, which I felt was bullshit, seemed like a date to me. So we moved on, maybe I did and ... (238 words)

He is ignoring me again but it seems like the logest time ever!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have the same problem that many girls seem to have on this site...my BF is ignoring me. We have been together for 3 years. It is the 4th time he has done it but it seems for the longest time this time, nearly 3 weeks. for the first few days I tried contacting him, now I ha... (152 words)

Is my guy gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i really need some good advice, Ive been dating a good friend, we have been on and off for a year, nothing serious but decided 3 months ago to make a proper go of it, we get on so well and really enjoy each others company, we split up last week for something stupid, but got ... (259 words)

My dreams are even filled with this teacher and this love is taking over my life. What should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I,m in a real situation here. I seriously need help getting over my MARRIED male teacher. It all started when I moved to this new school about two years ago. He was one of my teachers and I took an instant liking to him but then this innocent crush unknowingly develope... (337 words)

I want to tell her what she means to me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey im 16, and there is this girl that i really love at school more than anything in the world. There are a lot of things that make me think that i like her (We both play soccer, and in one of the games my toenail got ripped off and went to the E.R. for 3 hours and when i got ... (172 words)

A boy I went out with has completely bumed me out and blames it on tests... is he trying to get rid of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. A Boy That Took Me Out On A Date And That I Texted Alot Has Completely Bumed Me Out :( He Said Its Because He Has Loads Of Exams And Stuff At The Moment..But I Don't Know If He's Just Saying That To Get Rid Of Me Or Not.! And I Went To A Party He Went To With Anoth... (105 words)

My boobs become very painful around my periods... do you think anything could be wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - am 17 years old and a bit over weight as a result my boobs are quite big am a 44dd but for the past couple of moths right around my periods my boobs become very painfull a started my periods when i was nine and this has never been a problem before i was just wondering do you ... (83 words)

My mother is hanging out with this guy all the time... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age - My mother hangs out with this guy all the time and my dad doesn't relly mind a lot.But i swear they are more than just friends.Like yesterday when i walked through the door they were hugging but when i walked in they walked away like nothing happened.I told my mom already all ... (75 words)

Do all males experience pre-cum?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

27 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I'm just wondering... Do all males experience pre-cum?... (9 words)

Could I be pregnant after a negative test or am I just imagining things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I recently had a pregnancy test after experiencing signs of pregnancy for instance, sore breats, feeling sick and not being able to smell food without feeling sik etc. It Showed up negative yet these signs have not gone. Could I Still be pregnant or am i just thinking things. ... (57 words)

How do you respond to someone who likes to play the perpetual victim?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age - I finally told my boyfriend that I no longer wanted to be exclusive with him. I gave a few reasons but really didn't want to bust his chops so just wrote some of the main things that were bothering me. I have always been the one who calls, texts, emails, visits, etc. in t... (211 words)

Should I not even speak to him, and feel sorry for her for being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age - This guy has been demonstrating to be attracted to me for the past few months, yet I have reason to believe he just got a blow job from another female at work. What's this all about? Guess I'll drop out of the picture totally and not even speak to him, or feel sorry for her ... (66 words)

This lad at college has recorded a very private conversation! What can we do? He's going to stir things up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'll start from the beginning, best place to start. This all happened about a week ago. I'm currently at college. Me, and two other girls were sitting at lunch, having a big girly chat and eating. A lad we know came along and asked us to keep his jacket, as he wasn't allowe... (416 words)

Is this bachelor party a celebration of marriage or cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi so i found out my bf went for a bachelore party. he told me they had normal strippers. unfortunately i found out, that those "strippers" were fingering each other and using other stuff to please themseves infront of the guys and also giving double heads for 200 dollars/... (101 words)

He wants to meet me again, but is moving too fast, saying why wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age - Just met this guy online..... we met briefly and we kissed. Now he wants to meet me again, but is sending me texts saying he wants to make love to me. I'm not happy with moving so fast, and have told him this.... but he feels we have a great connection so why wait to have... (91 words)

We were together for 6 years, and he dumped me with no explanation! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dumped a week ago by my fiance and now i don't know what to do. We had been together for over 6 years (since school) and before we got together we were friends. He has been my whole life and i loved him so much. We weren't having problems as we weren't arguing, it was ... (255 words)

What do you think is sly, liking his mate and not breaking up with him, or breaking up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid I used to like this lad but when i started to go out with him i stoped liking him and started liking his best mate. Everyone says its sly but i think its sly not bracking up with him. What do you think Lots of love Despreat x ... (66 words)

Help!!! We've never kissed on the lips! I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,me and my boyfriend are really close and love spending time together and we sit next to eachother in class and really trust eachother. But we've never kissed on the lips and we've been going out for 4 months and we're both quite shy. So how and where should i kiss him??? T... (55 words)

Am I confused about him or scared?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are great together. We have a wonderful friendship, our sex life is amazing and he is really attentive; treats me like a queen. Having said that, I have my moments when I really don't feel like being with him. It's not because he ... (120 words)

Married and confused, I'm falling out of love with my husband and in love with my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please Help... I am 29 years old and have been married for 6 years. I have recently had 2 children and my marriage is totally boring. My husband and I do not see eye to eye on almost every issue. We were raised and grew up completely opposite of one another. To make things more ... (171 words)

I'm furious with my boyfriend for the way he broke up with me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I'm so hurt. So, so hurt. My boyfriend and i got back together yesterday. We had a faboulous time! He had broken up with me because of things from the past. But we got back together and spent most of the day together. Then, at night, he got upset again by something from th... (371 words)

I'm so sick of this! My girlfriend gives me absolutely NO privacy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm getting so sick of this!!!! my girlfriend gives me absolutely NO privacy she knows all my passwords to everything including this one. If i tell her to stay off of something like my email she either blames herself or thinks im cheating. I'm at the end of my rope and im f... (77 words)

Can I still have a baby after two abortions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - when i was 21 i had an abortion i had it want my choice my bf wanted me to have the abortion even though it was a planned prenancy anyways he flipped on me the 2nd abortion was with this guy i loved and i though that he was different than the other guy but instead he turned out ... (146 words)

What can I do to keep him coming back for more sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've had sex all sorts of ways but now can't think of anything else to do. I ONLY perfer MEN. What can i do to make him keep comming back for more. I love going DOWN, and back door sex. I let him cum in my mouth or anywhere he wants too. He gets what he wants. Do you think i'm ... (79 words)

How can I ask her out without making myself look too 'easy?'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I got to know this girl who i started texting. Over time she said she really liked me n we saw each other about. So we finally went on a date to watch a movie. We kissed n all went well. But after few weeks we was showing signs of likin someone else. So she started dating him i ... (96 words)

What if you tell your partner you'll get married, but you don't really mean it? If you've just said it to get out of child support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! What if your partner stressing you to get married but you really aren't ready but if you tell your partner that your not ready she/he will threaten to take your child away from you and take you to court for child support but you know you can't really afford child support so ... (84 words)

I'm 15 and am thinking of having sex with my bf but don't want to get caught. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months i love him more thank anything and i have been thinking about having sex with him but i dont want to get caught what do i do?... (40 words)

Should I get a tummy tuck?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a plus size lady that has big tits and ass but the only thing is my stomach is also big. i've lost weight but my stomach didn't go anywhere. i don't have any problems with the guys but i want to get rid of it. should i get a tummy tuck?... (52 words)

Why does she treat me like dirt?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age - I have been seeing a woman for 6 months, there have been good times and bad times, but overall there has been progress...and that is what keeps me in this relationship. However, I am burnt out and my heart is dying, and on the two occassions I planned to end the relationship... (587 words)

Do those in open relationships, swinging or other unconventional relationships notice the same trends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age - i have always be an advocate of open relationships all of my adult life. it was always obvious of the appeal to men of the lifestyle, but i continued to be surprised by the positive response of the women in my life. they are always very enthusiastic once they believe i ... (521 words)

He says the relationship has faded, and I want him to be happy. Should I let him be or keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - he says the relationship has faded and that he likes someone else. i dont know what to do about it i dont think its faded or gotten less but i want him to be happy with whoever he wants to be with and i love him that it will hurt so much if he leaves but if he does its to be ... (81 words)

I don't want my boyfriend to go into the military!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to go into the military! He just turned 21 and we have been dating for a year. This bothers me A LOT! I'm pretty sure my past has a lot to do with it, my dad left me and my family when I was 16 for another woman. And shortly after my dad left I dated the ... (307 words)

Is it all men or just mine?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a simple question which may have a very simple yet obvious answer. My boyfriend cares for me very much as I him but when he says he'll ring me he doesn't. He works as a carer but when says can't ring because he's busy he's kind of lying (I know this as we are on the... (98 words)

A guy asked me to watch a film with me...does this mean he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Heyy. So this guy asked me to watch a film at the same time as him. I know this sounds silly but its sounds like something out of a love story watching things at the same time. Does he like me ? hurtagen xx... (47 words)

We're both virgins and ready for sex...but don't know how to initiate it...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. Were both virgins and we are both ready for sex but I dont no how to start. I dont really no what ive got to do. Help. I want my first time to be special aswell but i just dont no what to do. ... (61 words)

Do you think I should give him some space for a while, then ask if he wants to patch things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-bf and I had been together for almost a year. I want commitment, he doesn't want commitment....thus we did the classic girl nags at guy for commitment/guy is unhappy and withdraws ...vicious cycle. Eventually he got really stressed at work and as I kept nagging him, he ... (271 words)

Going through a break up, and he hasn't responded to my texts or calls, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi..I'm a 16 year old gal..My bf recently left me..now a days I'm really heartbroken these days..but i still control my emotions..I can't tell any1 anything!!I am in my breakup pain still..recently i received 2 text msgs 4m my bf..he asked whether i'd 4gotten him??i replied ... (100 words)

Do I mean more to him than a friend? I'm starting to like him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy i like, eally notices the small things about me or about the things im wearing...we are really close friends. but culd it mean more to him...i like him and i actaully am starting to fall inlove with him. he notices things about what i wear and comments about them, i ... (81 words)

We had a big fight...and he left to stay at a friends...now he is saying that he has things to sort out..whats going on? Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I got in a fight after one of his nights of drinking and him calling me at 7 am to come pick him up.after huge fight in which I tell him to leave but not seriously he left but left all his things and went to a friends. He said he has things to sort out and ... (72 words)

I'm in love with two men and I don't know what to do! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont know what to do i am in love with two men for different reasons. one is my husband the other is my ex.... (25 words)

Itchy and red around my testicles. Is this dangerous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im 13 now the age is wrong, but around my testicles it is very itchy and red. its been like this for 1 week. i cant tell my parents. is it dangerous? thank you ... (45 words)

I'm terrified of dogs, and this is causing a problem with my sister and me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My sister is a dog lover. I am terrified of dogs. She adopts large dogs and has several at a time. She recently moved from across the country to a few miles away from me and my family. She has become pregnant for the first time. I can't stand going to her house and panic ... (202 words)

How do you get over being used and abused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

- How do you get over being used and abused? Ive had two serious relationships and both were abusive- mentally/emotionally, verbally, sexually and on the way to physical abuse, but they both ended before the physical abuse got too bad. I feel so insecure and hate myself. ... (206 words)

I think I might have an infection! Just started having sex and now have a slight stinging sensation when I pee...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I suspect iI have some sort of infection in my private part. I have recently started having pleasureble sex with a guy on campus. During and after sex I become very aroused and as a result I get dripping wet! Although we always use protection and I havent been sexually active ... (84 words)

How can I overcome my fear of approaching girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - HI, im 19 im male and live in the uk. i realy want to be able to approach girls confidently and know what to say. im a good looking lad and i cant understand why im to scared to approach. i fear the girl rejecting me coz i look to young or skinny. and i can visualise their face ... (78 words)

I don't orgasm. It's my husband's fault. What can I do about it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old and married 6 years before. I have a 5 year old daughter. My problem is that all these married life not even once I had orgasam. I am frustrated these days. We do lot of foreplay but of no use and I think he ejaculates very fast. I had sexual intercourse in ... (123 words)

What can a girl do to get a guy out of a bad mood?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I was just wondering what a girl is supposed to do to get a guy out of a bad mood and sort of comfort him. Any ideas anyone. Thanks for the answers.... (33 words)

I want to write a book. Where do I start?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I want to write a book but I am not an experienced writer. I have so many ideas and would love to become a writer for a living but do not know where to start. I got a C grade for G.C.S.E English but feel as though that is not good enough for my dream. Can anyon... (75 words)

Can circumcision be reversed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i have a girlfriend and we been together for like 6 months and were planning on having sex but i have a circumsised penis....can i asked a docter to uncircumsise is or no??... (33 words)

Would I be going too far with this cross dressing roleplay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,my boyfriend and I have got into where I transform him into my girlfriend,we both enjoy it and the sex is GREAT.I have the chance to borrow a friends house for a long weekend and wonder if I should kidnap my boyfriend/girlfriend and keep him/her as my slave and totally ... (125 words)

It started as friendship, then casual sex. Now it's more to me and I don't know how to tell her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am a 17 year old male. lately, me and this girl who I am pretty much best friends with have been sleeping together quite frequently. At first it was just casual sex, but i eventually developed a lot of other feelings for her from being around her so much and everything. ... (134 words)

Met online and I don't think he has a clue how I felt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been chatting with this guy for about 8 months on AIM who I met through a movie forum. We're both from BC but live about an hour away from each other and have never met. I like him quite a bit, but we have only chatted as friends, although I had hoped that maybe when we ... (123 words)

I want my ex back. She hasn't left my head since the breakup, but my present relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never posted on a site like this before but I feel so screwed up over this i figure any advice will help and there's nobody I can talk to about it really... Anywho 1st december last year I started going out with a girl and we had a great relationship, just perfe... (702 words)

I want sex 3-4 times a week but my wife only wants it twice a month

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married for over 10 years. My wife and I have major sex issues. She wants it a couple of times a month, and I want it 3-4 times a week. Needless to say, it is a constant struggle. The big problem, though, is (like most guys) I'm very visual. The things that ... (365 words)

What is the best way to "come out"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What's is the best way to be "OUT"? I'm afraid to tell everyone that I am a bisexual? Or worse, a gay? Anyone can help me?... (26 words)

My boyfriend hits me and calls me names. I don't know what to do.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive bin with my boyfriend now for 2 years, at first he was lovely now he hits me pushes me, calls me names fat, ugly etc, wont help with the kids if he dont get his own way. one is his. he works in the day he comes home helps a bit with the children n then when they have gone ... (122 words)

How can I deal with my sneaky scumbag ex without lashing out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there,wonder if anyone can give me some advice? i have an 11year old son by my ex. i have been with my new bf for 3yrs. my ex was a complete lowlife loser. he had affairs when i was pregnant and even let one girl he was seeing send me a death threat.he never did a days work ... (503 words)

We know what a 69 is but whats a 35?? Are there any more numbers that mean sexual acts??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my friend were wondering whats 35, we know whats a 69...and would there happen to be more of these that mean sexual acts??... (25 words)

I want to give my bf a blowjob...but I don't know how to or if he wants one...how can I tell?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to give my bf a blowjob but i dont know if he wants to or how to ask and wat if he thinks im weird?... (27 words)

Where do guys liked to be touched?? (In a non-sexual way!)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just wondering, where do guys like to be touched the most...not as a sexual way...for eg i am a girl who likes a guy to put his hands around my waist and play with my hair...so i was just wondering where do u guys like to be touched?....thx... (51 words)

What are the different bases?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just wondering, at the risk of sounding ridiculous, but here goes....what are the bases? i know the first base is kissing...are they 3 bases?? thx in advance... (31 words)

I had sex without a condom....could I be pregnant?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a terrible night after fighting with a friend and my best guy friend in the world was comforting me. Things got out of hand and we had sex without a condom. Fifteen minutes later, I ask if he is going to cum (I know, I get impatient) and he says "I just did".. inside of ... (179 words)

I've been going out with a great girl for a year...but she cheated...should I stay with her or end it?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been going out with a great girl for about a year now.at the moment it is a long distance relationship. anyways we had an aruguement about the people she hangs around with over there guys hitting on her repeatedly,and me getting angry cause she calls them friends but if ... (179 words)

Did I scare him off by being so blunt?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy friend/aquaintance who I have always really liked and had a crush on. I go to college away from home so I dont see him that much but when im home we hang out. Then he called me just to talk and that is kind of unusual for him. One night I texted him while I was ... (271 words)

Will I find love again? And will I still have feelings for her?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i dated my first love for 3 years and 2 years on and off. will i find love again? and will i always have feelings for her?... (28 words)

Why does my mouth taste like acid all the time?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Why does my taste taste like acid most of the time? i mean, i like brushing my teeth and using mouthwash..but why do i have a bad breath? even drinking a bottle beverage or beer turns my breath into hell..need help.does it have to do with me removing my tonsils or is it a sto... (57 words)

We keep arguing and she gets really hurt by this...the thing is I don't feel the same about her anymore...should I end it or carry on?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfried have been dating for a year and a half. I really love her but for a while we've been having problems. we never had a single fight for almost a year but now we fight all the time because she thinks i dont spend enough time with her. I try to make time for her ... (179 words)

Should I shave or trim my pubic hair?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I would like to know if I should shave my pubes off or just trim it and if so how often should I shave cause if its too short its itchy and if its to long it gets nasty and itchy so that's what I would like to know... (49 words)

My bf fingered me and I asked him to stop but he didn't...is this a sort of rape?!?

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27 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - my boyfreind fingered me a couple nights ago. it felt good but i didnt want to come in front of him so i told him to stop but he didnt. i started crying and ran out. he felt really bad and apologized for doing it. but is that considered some kind of rape b/cuz i told him to ... (71 words)

I moved in with my bf but I then found out he had anger problems! My ex is also back in the picture from 2004...any advice?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i only knew my boyfriend 3 months before i moved in with he and his brother. A few weeks later my ex called and needed a place to stay because his chick broke up with him and his buddy kicked him out. i wanted to move back so bad and provide him that home, but no such luck. ... (272 words)

We had an abrupt break up from a long distance relationship...we haven't talked in 3 months...should I call him? I'm confused!!

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello I used to be with this guy that I deeply loved for a year and half. then things started going downhill for the last 6 months and hung on as long as could. I hurt him a lot and then he ended up hurting me back. we finally ended it, abruptly though. we haven't talked f... (139 words)

Tears stream down my face when I orgasm! Why is this?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Any advise will be helpful. In the last 6 months or so when my boyfriend brings me to orgasim I have this rush of emotion and I can't help but cry. I don't understand what this is about. It just starts and tears are just running down my face. I do know that certain ... (107 words)

I'm 17 would it be alright for a 20 year old guy to ask me out?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am 17 years old and I am talking to a 19 year old guy who will soon be 20 in a couple of days..at first we were just talking as friends but later we both ended up having feelings towards each other...We haven't hung out or anything like that because since there is a 3 ... (118 words)

Why does he want his mistress to be fat and his wife to be thin??

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I realize most of this will not make sense logically. I am currently having an affair with my best friend (we are both married.) He pursued me for two years and i finally relented since i am now going thru a divorce; we are NOT in love. But, here's my question: He is a ... (236 words)

I really want to stop masturbating!! Any advice?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i really want to stop mastubating someone please give some advise... (13 words)

I'm scared about getting married! Any advice?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my fiance for 4 years and we are engaged to be married this summer. We have a very stable relationship and love one another very much but I am feeling very unsure about getting married. This is most likely beacuse he is the only serious boyfriend I've ever had ... (133 words)

My boyfriend wants a hand job and a blow job, but I don't know how to do it.

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants me to give him a hand job and blo job. I'm fine with this, except I never done it before. How do you do a hand job? How do you do a blo job?... (37 words)

My uncle asked me out, and we've talked about having sex, but I have some questions.

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im having trouble with a major issue in my life. My uncle asked me out and i like him a lot so I said yes. But we keep it a secret so he can spend the night. He is six years older than me. We talked about having sex, but I'm scared it will hurt and I'm afraid of getting ... (85 words)

Is it so bad to cheat on my boyfriend with my ex? My bf has not been able to satisfy me sexually...

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27 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - i cheated on my boyfriend.. w my ex................. i dnt want to be back with him but i have been dating my current bf for 5 months. He was a vifgin and has not been able to satisfy me sexually. He tries and has gotten somewhat better ... he cant stay hard or last that ... (219 words)

Is he using me for sex, but is it possible he has feelings for me too?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i love my sex partner so much. He has other plains with his son's mother. she's always in and out of his life. He suppose to married her in 3 months but he's unsure.I'm HURT! i've been ONLY with him during our 5years of sex relations. Why would he get married if he's not ... (76 words)

Am I bipolar? I've been saying mean and hurtful things to my boyfriend.

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am truely in love with him. I have recently for the past 3 months been really mean to him. I will say mean and hurtful things like call him fat and ugly. I tell him that I don't want to be with him and that he is worthless. ... (160 words)

I'm getting a little frustrated, there's nothing worse than sex with a mooshy penis! Will this get better with time?

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27 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - hello...i took my boyfriends virginity .... and he is having trouble getting a good hard on and lasting more than 3 min.. it has been abt 4 months now and it is still an issue ... i have tried everything alot of fore play, he went to the doctor and they said possible ... (295 words)

How do I move on?!?! My sex partner is about to get married and still wants me in his life!

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my sex partner is about to get married but he wants me to still be in his life. i refuse! but its hard to let go. he enjoys my sex better. i love to be with him all the time but i'm mad because he's getting married on me. I'm HURT !!! how do i get over him? why would he get ... (73 words)

Is it possible to love someone that you are sexually unattracted to?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating the same girl for almost a year and a half now. Shes great. I love her to death. She wore a promise ring until today. At first glance I wasn't that attracted to her. But a couple months after we met we started dating. We started having sex about 3 or 4 months ... (156 words)

I'm not having sex, but I've missed a period and have cramping pains and white gunk. What should I do?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 14 and i first had my period in Feb. this year. This last month in May i missed my peroid. I have been having this white gunk coming out i have also been having pains that feel like cramps but their not. I have never had sex. my mom is very protective and i don't know what ... (65 words)

How can I end this marriage making as few waves as possible?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for almost a year and a half. I am somewhat saddened to reveal that i no longer have an desire to be with her anymore. I no longer find her attractive, and have been secretly seeing someone else. I know, I know, shame on me. I got it. Thing is, ... (159 words)

Should I try to talk to him again?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was with my ex for a year. We broke up 4 months ago. It's been hard for me. I wish that I could have did things different. There was no cheating or nothing like that. We just had problems like any other couple have. I would lash out at him alot at the end because I didn't ... (165 words)

How else besides lab tests can a pregnancy be determined?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - IF a woman is suspected to be pregnant, what other means of test aside from lab tests can it be proven. like what color her vaginal secretions are? are they sticky or what?... (33 words)

Does size matter? And how do I increase the size of my penis?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - DOes the size of a man's penis really matter? And how do i increase the size of my penis?... (19 words)

I would love advice on how to get my girlfriend back. It's been about 2 weeks since the breakup.

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my g/f broke up wit me about 2 weeks ago. we started off to fast i know that. the last 2 mos. been up and down. she said that she does not want a relationship rite now but if she decides to want one she said that it would be me. she told me that i did not give her enough ... (181 words)

His ex came back into his life, and now I'm wondering if I should be there for the DNA test on my husband!

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been married for 3 yrs and now got a 2 yr old son be4 me and my husband got married he already know that i have a child of my own so its not a problem to him. me and my husband is always far from each other coz of his job he is in the military. he told me too about his ex ... (329 words)

Is it better to ignore his calls till he gets the picture or talk to him and tell him it is over?

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27 May 2008 (F)

- Hoping someone can help me here. I would appreciate it very much. My ex and I split a couple of years ago. After the split, which was painful for us both, he moved to another city, met someone else and was with her till last October. We have been back in touch of late and he ... (212 words)

Our daughter, husband and their four children are living with us. He's not working, she only works 2 days a week. It's getting tough on us!

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27 May 2008 (M)

age - Trouble at home, my daughter and her husband and four children that are well loved by myself and wife. It wasn't bad at first but going on 6 months and her husband hasn't worked a day and she only works 2 days a week. It's getting very tough on my wife and I who are trying to ... (125 words)

We haven't had sex yet, but he's such an amazing bf, he's prepared to give me a guilt-free day to explore my bi side!

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay Ive been on this site for quite a long time and I have ALWAYS gotten the advice that helped me through everything. So once again I need your help people!! Ive been with my guy for a year and a half and my life has never been better, heres the thing I am bisexual, and my ... (210 words)

Is my problem insecurity or not?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - is my problem insecurity or not. i love my boyfriend very as he loves me. at times i know that he loves me and at times i just think he's out just for the physical thing. well, he is very charming and galz do love his company... he likes making comments on how hot his female ... (220 words)

Is it possible to be pregnant if the second line is very very faint?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - is it possible to be pregnant if the second line is very very faint? i took a home pregnancy test and at first i thought it was negative but there is a VERY lightly colored blue line in the results window.i even thought maybe i was seeing things or something,its so light.the ... (116 words)

My boyfriend uses porn a lot so I tried it too and now I feel awful!

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Pleae help, I feel really terrible. I found out a few months ago that my boyfriend was fairly heavy porn user. I know it was probably naive but I really hadn't realised, and it really hurt me. I guess if I had known just that he used porn, but not seen the whole enormous... (383 words)

How can I make sure it's better this time?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm sorry this is long, but it's quite complicated. Please hear me out lol! I got back with my ex 3 days ago. We had been split up for 3 and a half weeks and had been going out for 1 year before we split. I really loved this man, I still do and I know he loved me because... (680 words)

3 days after losing my virginity I am sore, is this normal?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i lost my virginity the other day, the guy i did it with didn't use a condom. now 3 days after sex my vagina has an odour and is sore. i also bled straighy after sex. is this normal? ... (39 words)

Did I come on too strong and obvious?

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27 May 2008 (M) - Hi, so me and this college girl a couple years younger than myself did the long distance thing for the past couple of months. We texted, facebooked, phoned everynow and then, and visited eachother a few times. Things seemed to be good. Well, last week she texted me that she ... (232 words)

How can I move this on?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I'm in love. I can't stop thinking about this man, he is so sweet towards me and affectionate and calls me babes and gives me warm kisses on the face, but still I'm unsure. He is younger than me 30 but I can't help having feelings for him. He did say to me once 'you ... (134 words)

How can I get some answers out of him?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, A little over a month ago, my first boyfriend broke up with me after we spent seven weeks together. He didn't give a reason, and he's not even the one who told me that he wanted to end things (he had two of our friends do it for him). Naturally, I was DEVASTAT... (190 words)

Did she sleep with him?

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27 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, About two years ago my girlfriend cheated on with with her friend from London, over about 3 months. My g/f says it never went any further than kissing all the time they were together, but i have a feeling that sex was involved. They used to just talk on the phone a... (606 words)

Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a relationship?

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27 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship?... (14 words)