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writes:I like my friend. I want to meet her more outside school but I can't afford to risk her finding out my feelings otherwise our friendship could be destroyed but I need to meet her more so I can judge her feelings. Places like cinema are out of the question because she may wonder why I want go with her and not all our friends. Plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008): The way I see it is you have a few choices.You can either carry on just being friends and ignore your feelings.Or you can bite the bullet and just go for it, and hope she feels the same and hope that it doesnt affect your friendship too much if she doesnt feel the same.Or get a trusted mutual friend to have a word on your behalf to her, explaining that you really like her etc, but you dont want to say anything in case it affects your friendship.I myself can speak from experience, having liked many girls in the past, and not having the bottle to talk to them in case it affected friendships etc. Only to find out years later, that they in turn liked me but didnt say anything for the same reason.
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