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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am a married woman of 4 years and I have a major problem at work, The head of my department at work is a very attractive 31 year old woman and I can't get her out of my head. I pecked her on the cheek as a thank you for helping me and she was fine with it. She alters my rota so I do the jobs I enjoy and enjoys a laugh with me. She got upset with me a few weeks ago and wouldn't talk to me a friend said it was because she was worried I had feelings for her which I dennied and she has been ok eversince. The thing is when I look at her and she smiles I feel there is a spark. I do not know if she is straight or not she is single.. What can I do.
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reader, Transmitter_Girl +, writes (18 May 2008):
Thanks for the advice so far I am so confused. It isn't just a crush been there and done that, this is different. We've been quite friendly the last couple of weeks and I am struggling to cope at work. Any other advice PLEASE
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): Go for it - there are millions of jobs out there, but good sex is rare. Explore your options with this one and you might find out quite a bit about yourself. Enjoy!
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reader, purple1234  + ♥, writes (5 May 2008):
 you are married and you dont know if she is definitely gay or not. So yu get along well, thats good, but workplace dating can be very complicated, as she is the head of your department I wouldnt reveal any feelings to her or act on them, it could get very embarassing for you, esp. if she has previously thought u might like her and didnt talk to u. It sounds like a really strong crush, which is totally fine, but, to keep things smooth at work and avoid possible embarrassment i wouldnt say anything, u can always like her from a distance. Keep it to yourself, being friends and having a laugh is fine anything else i wouldnt go there. good luck
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reader, lexilou + ♥, writes (5 May 2008):
 It is a crush just like you might get on a bloke. Leave it that - you would be so embarassed if this blew up in your face so se it for what it is. And yes it is perfectly normal to get a crush on a woman!!! x
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