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I'm married but find myself attracted to a female boss, is she straight or not? What do I do?

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Question - (4 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a married woman of 4 years and I have a major problem at work, The head of my department at work is a very attractive 31 year old woman and I can't get her out of my head. I pecked her on the cheek as a thank you for helping me and she was fine with it. She alters my rota so I do the jobs I enjoy and enjoys a laugh with me. She got upset with me a few weeks ago and wouldn't talk to me a friend said it was because she was worried I had feelings for her which I dennied and she has been ok eversince. The thing is when I look at her and she smiles I feel there is a spark. I do not know if she is straight or not she is single.. What can I do.

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A female reader, Transmitter_Girl United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2008):

Thanks for the advice so far I am so confused. It isn't just a crush been there and done that, this is different. We've been quite friendly the last couple of weeks and I am struggling to cope at work. Any other advice PLEASE

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008):

Go for it - there are millions of jobs out there, but good sex is rare. Explore your options with this one and you might find out quite a bit about yourself. Enjoy!

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2008):

lexilou agony auntIt is a crush just like you might get on a bloke. Leave it that - you would be so embarassed if this blew up in your face so se it for what it is. And yes it is perfectly normal to get a crush on a woman!!! x

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