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I'm 5 months pregnant and he's with another girl and he still comes round to sleep with me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am so hurt. My ex boyfriend is with another girl even though he knows i'm 5 months pregnant from him. He tells me he loves this girl. He phones me all the time and tells me he will be there for the baby, but he doesn't want to be with me. I feel used because occasion... (113 words

Self improvement plan.Will it work? How do I carry it through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - Here's the situation: I’m 16 overwight and painfully shy, especially of girls. I want to lose weight, shyness and get a girlfriend. This summer I plan to do intense exercise, eat more healthily and go to the mall and start talking to random girls. I’ll probably be rejected a fe... (171 words

There's ranting and there's ranting, but his ranting is a little too much! I've had my rant, now it's your turn!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been married to my new husband for 6 weeks now. When we first met, he was kind, loving and caring towards me - but now he's changed. At the wedding he ranted about everything - and about everyone at the wedding and in the wedding speech. I should also add that we have... (289 words

I honestly never touched a woman's body while I was away working, and my g/f doesn't believe me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 51-59 - I've been dating this girl for 3 months, then on the 4th month we decided to live together. On the 5th month i went to Hawaii to work for 4 months (with continous communications, sending gifts and stuff to her). 2 weeks before i finished my 4 months contract, she told me that ... (213 words

I've always had a problem with believing in true love, but I kind of still question it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I decided i'd give him a chance after 3 years, now i feel nothing could replace him. I've known him for longer than three years and he has told me his love for me ever sence the first time we met. Me and my love have been together for almost 4 months, and i feel we've becam... (127 words

Is it possible I could be pregnant even though I've had my periods?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've had my periods over the past few months although they've been a bit irregular, however recently i'm not sure if i may be pregnant as it feels as though i am, and i'm sure i can feel it move. Could i be pregnant although i've had my periods?... (50 words

When will I know she's ready to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I've been dating this girl for nearly a year, we get along very well, finish each other's sentences and all that, lovey-dovey kind of couple.I swore I would not be like that in another relationship, but.. here we are, lol. Anyway here's my question: She's a v... (406 words

He's gone back home, I really don't know what to do, all I do is cry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years went to work yesterday, he didn't come back home. So like you would, I called and texted him alot, as I was starting to panic. I then got a text from his mum saying he had gone home, his mum lives two hours away and he'd been living with my family for ... (192 words

What do guys in their 25's think, and how do they think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I need some help from the guys, girls can help too. My question is what do guys in their 25s think, and how do they think? I am very close to this guy, we talk over msn almost everynight, and everybody knows that we are very close friends. To the point that some guy told me a... (169 words

He's changed, what can I do to get him back to how he was?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Please help I am deeply crazy about my boyfriend, and i know he cares about me too. However he's very jealous and gets angry very quickly, it's the reason why we have been not together. He always comes back, i know he loves me, but why does he treat me like that? Why does... (160 words

What do I do? It hurts to let him go. I do love him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Do I stay with my husband or leave him either for my lover, or to be alone? I have been married for 4 and a half years. I stopped wanting my husband and have been having sex with him when he wants it for just over a year of that marriage. He knows i don't want him and i... (220 words

I was happy with his friendship - I never stopped loving him and gave him another chance, now this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age - This is long so please bare with me. When I was younger - I had the biggest crush on one of my sisters male friends. I never thought that I would ever stand a chance because he was older (6 years) but when you are young that's a big age gap. Finally, when I was 18 he show... (711 words

My 'perfect' man with a girlfriend....Is he giving me signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello newbie here!! I have been single for over a year now and recently been email/facebook flirting with a guy who is quite local to me. He instigated it by emailing me first off (approx 1 month ago). I originally know him from university although that was a a few years back... (300 words

Do you think I should just leave him be, and get on with my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - HEY I broke up with b/f of a year approx 2 months ago, he wanted to stay friends, that didn't work out as i was hurting too much. So we ended up having cross words. We haven't spoken in 2 weeks and i am really missing him. I want to call him as I think once i am better we could... (224 words

My lecturer's been with his wife for 15 yrs, I really like him, so I'm planning to act!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - The lecturer I fancy knows my name and i think he likes me. He's married but he's been with her for over 15 years (even though hes only 35, i'm 20) and has indicated to me he's a bit bored. He's so clever and interesting and i'm dying to spend time with him, so i try my hard... (125 words

I think he does love me but he's never got time for me. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - We're working abroad and we are both married, he has a girlfriend but i couldn't help falling in love with him, he said he love me too. I really love him so much (well i'm just a human). My problem is i feel bored with our relationship because we dont see each other, we just... (184 words

Could the patches of skin discoloration be linked to the pill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Around the same time I started taking the pill (Cilest) in December, I've also had small patches of discoloured skin, it isn't bad or anything, but i can't seem to find anywhere that suggests that the two are linked? Does anyone know if they could be? and how can I get rid ... (58 words

I really just want to let myself go with him tomorrow night, but what can I do to stop the nerves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Bit of a strange question. Recently, my best friend, who is a guy admitted he was in love with me. We have always had an amazingly intimate and close friendship and I think deep down I have always been in love with him too. He left me a letter basically explaining how h... (287 words

Will a brace put the men off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I want to meet and date other people again after getting out of a relationship. But i maybe getting a brace this year, as i want to straighten my teeth. will it put men off me? when they see it? ... (40 words

I want to be pregnant but it's not happening

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I want to be pregnant. Im 19 i had an abortion last year and had the depo provera straight after which lasts for 3 months. I feel i made the choice for all the wrong reasons and now really want a baby with my fiance. Problem is he doesn't know! i know he'll be supportive if it ... (98 words

Why don't I have an orgasm when I have sex with my partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi, i just want to ask why i did'nt feel orgasm every time i had sex with my partner? my partner is good in sex i know it. he always ask me if im finished i said not yet,if i feel that he can no longer to wait for my orgasm, im just pretending and said.."im coming". but if i ... (82 words

I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in is this normal?! :S please help ... (60 words

We keep breaking up, but I really want him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I felt in love with this guy since the first day I met him, and then we had a relationship, for more than a year, the problem now is we always break up and make up, because we do really love each other. He dumped me but I know that he still loves me because he calls me and w... (107 words

He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do... (30 words

So...I'm still really confused about whether he likes me or not! Does he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok this is sort of a repost and really hope it gets posted cuz i really need help! I wrote up yesterday and and only got one answer who said they didnt' really undrstand it so i'm reposting to make it mroe understandable so hope you can help!! Right as i said in my original... (908 words

Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for just over a year now and eig... (338 words

I wouldn't leave this teacher alone and now I want to apologize! How do I go about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am leaving school next week and before I go I want to put all my wrongs right and leave on go terms. Sounds good? Yet its going to be soo hard, there is a teacher who I used to get on with yet I had a thing for her n always have had! But she started to feelthat way too... (177 words

Where did I go wrong? Why doesn't he respond?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - where did i go wrong? should i give him time or just move on? I recently start dating this guy, we get on really well. I felt that we know each other for sometime. We went for a drink then decide to go back to mine and watch a DVD. I suggested on the way for him to ... (263 words

I know the relationship is really unhealthy but I don't have the strength to leave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - well i dont even really know where to start. me and my bf have been dating for 15 months now. i am currently ending my first year in college, and about to go home in one week. he is still in high school, a senior, and lives back home(i go to college 7 hrs away, dont see him ... (1122 words

My husband offered me to his friend. Does he just want an open relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - House party out of control. I am rather confused and upset. I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 3 with two young children. We used to have house parties all the time and my hubby would either not drink or drink very little, he was alway quiet. I have always b... (591 words

I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 26-29 - i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should i do. help!... (54 words

I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him now. It is difficult to pass ... (166 words

I see him looking at me but I don't know if he really likes me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, okay I have a problem. Theres this guy at my school who I really really like! And all my friends know I do-but he doesnt, we dont really talk, but if we see each other we smile/say hello... My friend asked him who he liked and he said its someone whos not at our ... (118 words

How can I get my husband to have sex with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am 32 and my husband is 40 we have been married nearly 10 months. Before we were married we had lots of sex, now its once a week if that. We both work hard and can be invoicing until late at night, when we do finally go to bed we are shattered. Well should I say my husband is ... (177 words

My neighbor is allowed to kill my dog because my dog "murdered"? What the hell?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone im gettin really agravated with my neighbor he lives 2 houses down from me and my dog lucy is a lab and a retriever mix n is 12 years old and is still very playfull but now shes to be confined in2 the house because of my dumb ass neighbor because he has a 15 year ... (221 words

Do I want to stop loving her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - For the past year i've been 'in love' with my female P.E! ive never been in love with members of the same sex before. i feel all funny when she talks to me, looks me in the eye or smiles at me. when i think of her my heart feels really weird and when i think of her smiling i ... (112 words

We're trying to conceive but he can't ejaculate! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I hope some of you will be able to help. This is probably going to be long but I need advice real bad. I don't know what else to do! OKay, so my partner has difficulty ejaculating for some reason. But the sex is good, at least I think so, so it wouldn't bother me so muc... (475 words

My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than I feel comfortable with... (813 words

Is he only being friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (? age 30-35 - i've known this boy since i was 7 years old. Is he flirting with me or is he just being friendly. *he tickles me and pokes me *he always teases me and have special little nicknames for me *he'll shove me after he has said something funny *he laughs at all my jokes even i... (108 words

Is it normal to have your left ball bigger than your right ball?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - is it normal 2 have ur left ball bigger than ur right ball ... (13 words

I have EXTREMELY bad PMS symptoms, what can I do to reduce their effect before they sabotage my relationship and my own personal well being??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Okay so I have EXTREMELY bad PMS symptoms. I get just about everything known to womankind of this nature. Two weeks before I start my period, my skin breaks out terribly, my stomach cramps, my back aches, I get fatigued, crave junk really badly...and the part that bothers me ... (200 words

Should I believe him after he broke the promise the first time, about visiting lap dancing bars?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, My fiance is going out tommorow night to liverpool with a load of guys who want to go to a lap dancing bar, when I first got with my fiance I explained that I do not like these kind of things and he said he didnt like them either and promised me he wouldn't go. However la... (129 words

How to make him interested in me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - how can i get him back? After being attracted to each other we passed the contact details, then we met once for dinner, he show his real interest by openning up...i was sure he liked me...we had no physical contacts at all, then i told him about my ex husband days after, h... (182 words

I have cheated on him several times but we're still together. Do I really love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi Everyone We have been dating for 2 yrs now, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, and like he does not love me. I have cheated on him several times but we're still together, and he is the first longest relationship i have ever had. The only time i feel like i am rea... (101 words

Come on aunts and uncles stop dodging your resposibilities....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - I often hear the phrase 'it's not for me to judge'. If no one offers a judgement then how is right and wrong determined in society? Someone batters an old woman, 'it's not for me to judge'....Someone molests a child, 'it's not for me to judge'. Isn't society formed by what i... (70 words

Should I leave my wife because our sex life is virtually non existent?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age - Hi i'm thinking of leaving my wife, i like her in many ways but our sex life is virtually non exsistance. I've met a wonderful woman aged 18 who is beautiful and works as a model. The sex is absolutely fantastic. Do think there is a chance for us, or is the age difference a pr... (57 words

He got caught masturbating in a shopping centre!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - My b/f often masturbates to porn, i'm o.k with this and sometimes we watch it together. Anyhow last week he got caught masterbating in a shopping centre, now i think maybe i shouldn't have encouraged him. What do you think?... (42 words

I'm meeting my ex for first time since we broke up 3 months ago. Any opinions or advice would be welcomed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - So im meeting my ex of 3 years at the weekend for a bite to eat. I havent seen her for nearly 3 months, and only communicated a couple of times through text. It was kind of a mutual agreement to meet up for as she puts it "a casual catch up". I dont know how to approach it, ... (130 words

Please give me some valuable advices on how to this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I had been going out with B right after I broke off with my ex on Feb.Thing started to be complicated and confuse because the only reason he want to be with me is because he is lonely and we both need someone to comfort at the moment.He is 31 years old and never had a girl ... (464 words

Do you think he's interested in my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I have a boyfriend (we'll call him Doug) of 10 months who's a great guy and we're very loving toward each other. We were close friends for 2 and half years before getting together. But there's something about the relationship that worries me. About a year and half ag... (693 words

What is this I feel I am unable to monitor it because the mood changes I get ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Can someone please help me work out what my husband behaviour means - I am just so confused from one hour to the next. He can be almost flirty and funny one minute the next he is picking holes in my use of words, will ignore me and say I'm interrupting him when he's watching ... (318 words

How can I tell her to return a favour in bed? She's a virgin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - how do you tell your gf to return the favor please when i please her every time but i'm left hangin or should i say stiff.. idk how to she's a virgin and just coming around to being comfortable with this kind of stuff.. can a guy get a hand job maybe?... (52 words

I want a guy just like him, except for the part he didn't like my past (that's why we argued.) I'm shattered. What if he moves on first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months broke up with me. We both loved each other very much, but we had been fighting too much lately, as there were things that we couldn't agree on. We were very much alike, and that is making this break up hard for me. I know it's nearly ... (320 words

I can barely afford a flight out there and back at the moment - just don't know how to get through this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi please help my boyfriend is emigrating in a weeks time and he's off to Australia to follow his dream. We have been going out for about a year. This has been hanging over our relationship the whole time. I didn't really think about it much until his visa came through and then ... (683 words

Would you stick it out just for the kids?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am married 11 years with 2 kids. We have been living abroad for the past year. This is our first time away from fam/friends. He has made the move as he moved from another country to mine 15 years ago. Our relationship has never been passoinate and I blame myself for this ... (256 words

How can I help my girlfriend? I'm the only one to whom she has confided she has been raped.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, my girlfriend recently confided in me that she had been raped, or molested or something of the sort not too long ago, possibly less then a few months ago, she refuses to divulge any details to me, she won't tell me who, when, where, what happened, or ANYTHING. She simply ... (198 words

My girlfriend bleeds everytime we have sex, is it unusual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - Most girls I've had sex with haven't bled during/afterwords, unless they were virgin's or hadn't had sex in quite a while, but my girlfriend at the moment, she bleeds EVERY TIME we have sex? is this unusual?... (37 words

I know that he loves me, but I can't help thinking he may prefer a thinner girl...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm a bigger girl and I'm mostly comfortable with my weight, but I know how society views women who aren't a certain size. This makes me very nervous when going about intimacy with my boyfriend. I know that he loves me, thinks I'm gorgeous and the like... but is it ... (83 words

My daughter is 19, unmarried and pregnant. Any pointers?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - My daughter is 19 and lives with her bf. I was against that decision, but she's grown. Now, she tells me that she is pregnant, I don't know how to handle the situation without alienating her. I don't approve because she is not married. It's not what I want for my children. Does ... (57 words

How to spice things up in a relationship where sex and oral sex are not an option?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost one year now and we are both in our 20s. I've chosen to remain a virgin until I am married. It is both a religious and personal choice on my end. My question is this, how do you spice things up without crossing that boundary. And ... (183 words

Can someone shed some light on my secret fantasy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

9 May 2008 (? age 36-40 - okay I am hoping someone can shed some light on my secret fantasy. I am not normally turned on by other women, and have a boyfriend, but sometimes certain women really turn me on (if they are attractive and have the right personality). I have a friend who is female. We ... (246 words

Everyone tells me to move on but I keep waiting for him. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - well i been waiting for this guy for a long time...... everybody tells me i should move on.... i ask him out and he said i cryied for him i did everthing..... he tells he loves and he aways tells to sit next to him... so i do and he tells he wants me.... but then he awys ... (139 words

I've had affairs and feel stuck in my current marriage because of my child. I want to be in a marriage where I feel loved!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am in a marriage that I am not happy in. I am still here because he is not the biological father of my son. They love eachother very much. How can I take that away from my child. I have had 2 affairs in the past and I am just sick of not being happy. I want to be in a ... (71 words

Why am I cheating on a girl who is so perfect for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl for 2 years. Everything was perfect, until I met a girl about 8 months ago who I slept with, roughly twice a month, for 6 months. I have only physical feelings for this girl and do not love her what so ever. I have been faithful for the past two... (276 words

My friend's father touched me in places he shouldn't have. Do I let him get away with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - i was about 14 years old and still in school i used to go to my friends frequently but he used to be in bed and his father would ask me to go in and he would touch me in places that he shouldnt i was real scared, i was really young at the time and didnt know what to do or who ... (125 words

He is flying back to his home town and will see an ex he has strong feelings for. Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfrend wanted to take a flight back to his hometown to meet up a group of ex collegues who were flying in from another country for work, in particular a girl he used to have strong feelings for when they were working together. they actually dated for a while, but she ... (337 words

I'm no stunner but I'm not the elephant man either - So how can I attract some female attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

9 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - How can I attract some female attention? I'm kind of shy and not good at flirting but I'm a nice guy and I'm not hideous but i'm 28 years old and I've only had sex twice, and that was 2 or 3 years ago. I was going out with a girl for two years but she was only 18 when we ... (256 words

I think about having sex with this other girl, but I'm already with someone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have a question i know you all may hear this a lot, but i need to have it answered in detail Right firstly, i'm a bi-female and i have been dating this girl got 3 years, but i do still like guys a little, but i am mostly for females. I see myself being wit... (132 words

After 3 negative results, could I still be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 12 days late and took three pregnancy tests and they all came out negative, could i be pregnant?... (19 words

My date for the prom...do I greet her with flowers, a rose or what?

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9 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm taking girl to prom. I'll be meeting her there because she's arriving with friends. Do I bring flowers? A Rose? Please explain in much detail. Thank you.... (30 words

Why does he not reply to my messages or call..Is it me?

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9 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - Ok here goes, since i've been single i've only met men that just want sex. Now i have met a man younger than me that is a sweetheart. He is not afraid of his family and friends meeting me. He lives an hour away from me which is not bad. However, lately, if i text him and he d... (134 words

My ex boyfriend who I still love moved away, and I miss him so much!!

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9 May 2008 (F age 26-29 - Okay there is this guy at my school who i really like but he moved away. We went out once but not for very long. He is sooo shy. All his friends said he liked me still, but i don't know if it's true. I really miss him. What should i do? I really really want to date him, but ... (78 words

I haven't clue about lesbian sex, but I want to try it.

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9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey i guess i am bi..and i want to try having physical relationship with a girl..but i have no clue about lesbians sex. Do they cause sexual diseases? Do we lose our virginity by lesbian sex? I am sorry if my questions are lame. Please help... (47 words

My boyfriend thinks I'm nuts...would you say I was over-reacting?

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9 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - Please help! I don't trust my own judgment because I have anxiety/depression and take meds. I have a b/f who I have been seeing for about three yrs - All my friends say he is using me - I have decorated and remodelled his house, landscaped, planted a garden, no... (431 words

He's not "small" but his male part is crooked.

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9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've already posted this but no one really replied... please give me some feed back thanks!!!! Okay, so i've been dating this guy for a while and we recently had sex, twice. Both times i was on top and both times didn't last too long. I've only slept with three people now (... (94 words

I want to know if you guys prefer curvy or skinny girls...

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9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok i'm a 17 year old girl and i'm a size 10-12. I feel sooooooo fat...I just want to be thin. I just want a guys opinion on what they really prefer, curvy or skinny. I do have a boyfriend and he thinks it's great, but i'm interested in other guys opinions...... (52 words

If he keeps saying my name that way, I'm going to give him something that guaranteed he'll never forget.

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9 May 2008 (F age - I told a guy at work today that "I love the way you say my name, you make it sound so sexy." (This guy is Spanish and he pronounces my name with an appealing accent, almost with adoration). The next time he does this, I'll tell him that if he keeps saying my name that way,... (81 words

How can I deal with my friends who are constantly bringing me down?

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9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfreind, i'm leaving school at the end of the year (I have completed grade 12 and then doing to uni) and getting engaged. It feels so right to me but, all my mates just dont understand what i feel, and always bring me down like saying, it wont last because i'm youn... (80 words

Why doesn't he care about my family's health, or is it just a 'guy thing' to have no feelings?

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9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm getting married in about a month but I have a question. I'm wondering if my fiance is just very insensitive or if it is just a guy thing. A few years ago (during the first year that we were dating) my mother was in the hospital for several months and almost died a... (478 words

He's 35 and I'm 17 and pregnant, is that really wrong?

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9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 17 he's 35, we have been living together for two months, and i'm 6 weeks pregnant. I love him so much, is this wrong we get along so good, so in love with each other? I left mad and went 7 hrs away to my sister's and he drove all night, tired without sleep to get me after st... (211 words

Why is she taking so long in deciding whether she loves me or not?

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I'm having difficulties satisfying my girlfriend due to erection problems.

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Is it possible to be with a partner and not trust them 100%, but disconnect yourself emotionally so you don't get hurt?

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Please clarify 'doggy style' for an argument's sake, thank you.

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I blew him off due to family commitments and now I haven't heard from him. What shall I do?

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9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I exchanged numbers with a guy at a party, and then we spoke over the phone everyday for about a week, making plans to meet up. He asked a few times to meet although I blew him off due to family commitments and now I have'nt heard off him. What shall I do?... (53 words

I am in big mess I don't know how to come out of it.

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9 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Iam a 28 year married woman.I am going through a bad phase in life,Iam not happy with my marrige coz i found this guy who is single and very caring.When i met him first time we just clicked,i like everything about him.There were problems in my marrige but after meeting this guy ... (210 words

Should I be willing to break up with my boyfriend for him?

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9 May 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am dating this guy and he is really special to me... but i like this guy who likes me and i told him i like him and he was happy and amazed. i have liked this guy since i met him. He has a girlfriend to but is willing to break up with her for me. should i be willing to break ... (69 words

Is it possible for a man to only be turned on by one woman?

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9 May 2008 (? age 36-40 - My man says he has never thought of cheating on me. He has many attractive female friends and I sometimes wonder if this is temptation for him. I am pretty confident he won't pursue anything more than a frienship with these women (because he respects me enough), but is he ... (225 words

I really like him but I need some space what shall I do?

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9 May 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am going out with this guy and i really like him .. we have been going out a month and he is kinda all over me. he wont leave me alone at school and if i talk to my guy friends he always asks me what i am talking to them about to make sure i am not doing anything wrong. he ... (94 words

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