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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Information about the first time needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we haven't been sexually active. We are both virgins and plan on having sex together soon. My problem is, since I've never had sex, I dont know much about it. So I want to know what the female f... (71 words)

Why does my boyfriend reject my suggestions on where and when to go out and how can we resolve this issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend rejects my suggestions on where/when to go out. We’re in a long distance relationship which I feel insecure about as I’m unsure when I’m going to see him again. At first, my boyfriend was an attentive, loving and caring man (I think he’s still in there ... (720 words)

He's hurting me with his fickle behaviour!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hello. Recently I was out with friends. The boy I like was there. But that night he was acting macho and being nasty around his friends. He said some awful things to me and it hurt alot. I got in my home and began to cry over this. When we are on our own together he is fine and... (94 words)

Does she still love me, or is she looking to play around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, my ex and I broke up 4 months ago and had a really good relationship. We looked so good together and had a lot in common. When we broke up it was like we shouldn't have because there was nothing wrong, we just broke up. But now we are best friends and hang out and tal... (192 words)

I think I'm starting to be a burden on him. Am I taking things too fast?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i am a 38 year old women. i met this guy close to 3 months ago, and we are somewhat still together. in the beginning we would talk on the phone from 11pm all the way until 3 or 4 oclock in the morning. we both work long hours so in a way it is hard for us to really see each ... (452 words)

Could this long distance friendship be developing into something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy and I are being keeping in touch for quite some time now, like almost a year. We live far from each other, he's in the military and we met in a mission he was assigned while being in my state. We are both in relationships, and we are friends and talk as that. We both ... (197 words)

My boyfriend's gone distant and I don't know why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now. We were so happy at first. He came to work for my family and I was in an unhappy relationship wit my ex and we found that we just clikcked and came together. We fell in love quickly although i had known him and like him... (225 words)

I like this guy, but I can't talk to him because it makes me nervous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My question won't be the first like this to be asked. Infact it's really quite a common question. I started a new job roughly 4 months ago and I love it, but their is a guy who works with me who is the same age, and i really like him. The problem is I can't talk to him as he ... (95 words)

Please help me, I found out my fiance slept with a girl of 17! We have a child and I'm trying to keep myself together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't really know where to start, here goes! i have been in a relationship for almost 5years and myself and my fiance hit a rough patch and it had been hard for a little while and neither of us where happy. i kept it together as we have a 2year old child together. 1 week ago ... (207 words)

How do I tell if she's interested? And how do I find out the real story with her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently started a new job and have fallen for one of my new workmates. The problem is she has a boyfriend and I can't work out how serious they are and/or if she is interested in me. We only work together for an hour or so each day, but during that time, we chat loads, we ... (477 words)

Is my girlfriend interested in this guy because she talks about him a lot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is my girlfriend intersted in this guy at her work because she talks about him alot?... (16 words)

Is this email considerd cheating? please help me, I love my wife so much!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I wrote the following email to a friend, of whom was a girl, lets call her girl B, I wrote the email at the start of my first proper relationship with a beautiful girl i met, lets call her girl A, this was written within 2 weeks into our relationship: i dont have the actuall... (469 words)

Is life all about religion, or is it about being happy and feeling fulfilled?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - First off, please do not judge my situation. I am involved in a moral and emotional dilemma and am seeking whole-hearted answers, not judgments. I have been involved with a MM for over 6 months. We have known each other for over a year; we work together. I was infatuat... (1152 words)

How can I avoid getting hurt without falling out with this girl? And in future, how can I get girls to see me as a bloke, and potential boyfriend, rather than just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I hope you can help. I find it really easy to make friends with girls, but they never seem to want any more from me. I'm a pretty average kind of bloke, reasonably attractive, quite funny, I like to go out with my mates, have a drink, football etc. etc. I'm fairly confident ... (262 words)

Can anyone advise me on how to act around the guy I like, and who I think suspects I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone advise me on how to act around the guy I like, and who I think suspects I like him? I can't help flirting a bit because I'm a natural flirt and my feelings for him are so strong, but I give mixed signals to him because I am also conscious of the fact that I don't ... (120 words)

She snubbed me at the party, but I think she's was still getting over her ex. How can I recover from this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so theres this girl i met the other day and it seemed like we hit it off and stuff, but when we were at the same party and i tried to mingle with her she kinda snubbed me. her friends told me later that she was still getting over her ex and that i was being a bit too ... (79 words)

Did my bf intend to cheat and still have feelings for girl he used to fancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 2 years and I broke up, but got back together but i felt he was hiding something so i read his text messages. I found one from girl he used to fancy, asking him to play squash, he replied i have just broken up with gf, yes def play squash. I asked him serveral times ... (121 words)

Why is he so scared to finger me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend is really scared to finger me! why is he so scraed we finally kissed about a weekago sence then weve mad out and everything but why is he so scared to finger me??... (35 words)

We were dating, but now she's backed away from me, saying she didn't want to get attached! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (M) - Hi there, So I was dating this girl who is a couple years younger than me and still in college. I started dating her on her Spring break and things seemed to go well from there. We did a lot of texting, facebook messages, phonecalls here and there (I'm not much of a phone ... (571 words)

Boyfriend left me alone, never said goodbye--what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This might be a bit long, i'm sorry but I really need some help sorting out my feelings. Yesterday I went to a party. All night my boyfriend kept avoiding me. we were supposed to stay at a mates house together (we made these plans about a month ago) and he suddenly dec... (399 words)

I think my husband is chatting online often and late with a female coworker. Should I have a word with his boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, think that my husband is staying late at work to chat up with his female co-worker via online. Ive seen him change diff towards me. He's not as attentive. He is very rude to me when I ask him if he can make it home earlier, and then when h comes home he just goes straight... (216 words)

My boyfriend went out with his friend today, I had no one to hang out with, and I just realized how lonely I really am!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Well my problems has nothing to do about sex. I know a lot of people and im a pretty fun person to be around but I have a problem trusting people as friends because from multiple past experiences friends have been fake back stabbers. I have an amazing boyfrien... (284 words)

Was it his fingernails that made me bleed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so before i ask my question i want to state that i am not a virgin. ive had sex plenty of times, ive been fingered plenty of times exc. okay so last week my boy friend was stimulating me manualy. about twenty minutes after he was through i noticed blood on his hand. at ... (186 words)

I need my fun loving self back, instead of being stressed out and overworked.!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey family. I've noticed lately that I am more of an uptight person than I used to be. I have 2 kids, and it seems like I do most if not all the work in my house, including earning the bread. My partner does the minimum, and he knows and admits to it. How can I discuss this ... (100 words)

How to pleasure him without intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I want to give my boyfriend some sexual pleasure without having intercourse. However, I'm not sure what he'd like. Any ideas?... (21 words)

Advice please on how to get this teacher out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Okay well i left skl like 2 weeks ago and im in oncfe a week not to do my exams. Heres my problem tho, I am completely in love with my teacher :/ I actually sit up thinkin about him, his old daft jokes still make me laugh when i think about them and i jst feel so annoyed ... (620 words)

Please help! My boyfriend now lives thousands of miles away having moved to his dream city!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - please help! My boyfriend now lives thousands of miles away having moved to his dream city. This has been really tough on our relationship as he used to live 10 minutes away. I've never stood in anyones way but I did resent him for doing this as it kind of put an ... (286 words)

I am fourteen and haven't had a boyfriend yet

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i am ashamed even though i dont have any need to be. but i am fourteen and havnt had a boyfriend yet. I just wanted to know how would you begin the relationship without going too slow or too fast or messin it all up. Adivce needed!... (47 words)

Is once every 6 months fair for him to see his newborn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Were not together and never will be (as far as im concerned) but we have a child on the way. He said he cant be there for us from day one of my pregnancy which iv accepted, but he will be there financially for us, which im fine with. Although, he gave me his e-mail addy and ... (224 words)

I recently found out that he gave me an STD !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so many of you might remember my situation from like a month ago. my ex is my baby's dad. i just recently found out that he did cheat on me when i was pregnant and before. i feel like i love him and i hate him. i dont want to get back with him because i need someone better ... (306 words)

I fancy a boy in my class who is also one of my friends! Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunt Agony i fancy a boy in my class who is also one of my friends, he does not suspect anything and we often make fun of eachother ( in a funny way ) as i am usually too nervous to ask people out as my last relationship went completely wrong. What should i do? I know he... (68 words)

I don't feel I can move on as I keep wondering if he just panicked and will come back! I'm lost and lonely!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently broke up with me and now i feel completely lost. We were together for just over 6 years since college and before we got together we were good friends. I have no idea what went wrong as we hadn't been arguing. It was only when i questioned the feeling i ... (164 words)

Sexual life after marriage? How does it change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I'm a 29 year old male, and have been thinking about how relationships change after marriage. Maybe you can share from your experiences? I am particularly concerned with the fact the few couples that I have discussed with have told me their sexual life reduced to one contact ... (101 words)

I have been tolerant and swallowed my pride too many times with my ex, how do I move on as I am scared of being on my own again??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys my gf broke up with me several times before and I've always managed to get her back but this time she broke up with me again for no reason but only this time I don't want her back I want to get on with my life as soon as possible but I cant seem to stop thinking about ... (136 words)

When do you know you are ready for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When do you know that your ready for sex !???!... (10 words)

Does my ex mean it when she says she will give us another go when she is ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi,can anyone help me,me and my girlfriend split up at the end of january as she got depressed because of her home life and wanted a break from me as she was pushin me away and she didnt want to hurt me,we have stayed in contact mainly through txt but she sometimes doesnt reply ... (196 words)

I split up with my first love because she moved away to uni, it's been 2 months and I can't stop crying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys. basically i split up with my first love because she moved away to uni and it has been over 2 months now and i still cant stop crying. she was the one good thing in my life and now i've been left to try and rebuild myself. i gave up most of my friends for her, spent ... (188 words)

I lost the trust of my ex after revealing her personal business to one of her friends, what now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I lost trust of my girlfriend after we broke up because i told some of her personal buisness to one of her friends. What should i do?... (28 words)

Help, I do not want to be part of a love triangle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need urgent help on this question....There is this lad and he has a girlfriend how is also a friend of mine, but lately he has been flirting with me loads and some of my friends have commented and said oh I think he fancies you and im like how can he, coz he had a ... (81 words)

My boyfriend has a 45 year old female friend that he helped record erotic videos in the past. I cannot think of her without feeling repulsed and slightly threatened!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, my boyfriend has a 45 year old female friend. A lot has come out about her recently - namely that she is married with three kids, and she is seeing people behind her husband's back. She's obviously unhappily married. Not just that, she records sexually explici... (291 words)

I'm scared my friends will make fun of me/bf when they meet him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i just recently got my first ever boyfriend and we really like eachother its just my friends arent that supportive. as he lives quite far away from me we cant really go out places together but we can still meet up in school. he asked me out in the holidays so he hasnt ever ... (149 words)

I wonder if I have physically lost my virginity by practising horse riding!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - everyone says that having sex is less painful if you've broke yourself in. How does this include the sport horse-riding, I have been horse-riding for 9 years now so does this affect me!?... (33 words)

Too early to be thinking about orgasms but are these sensations usual at this stage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me have recently started out to have regular intercourse-about 7 times up to press. During sex I'm now beginning to sweat, get flushed and make a few sounds of pleasure.I know its far too early to be thinking about orgasms but are these sensatio... (60 words)

What if he asks me out and I'm not a great kisser?...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im soooo embarassed but i havnt kissed anyone before, and im fourteen! This lad really likes me but if he asks me out and im not a great kisser!? I dont even know when to start!? very confused!!! Adive needed...... (40 words)

I am not very close to my mum and don't know how to tell her about my period start.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know everyone has the problem of telling their mum that they have started their period, but i just cant bring myself to do it, me and my mum arent really close like best mates. And i dont want to tell my friends coz im a late starter at 14!!!???... (50 words)

I am bi curious and want to explore this side of my sexuality that my BF supports. How should I approach the girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I'm 20 and live in [...] with my fiance and i'm bi curious....where do I find girls that I can have a physical relationship with (not so emotional) and how do I go about approching them? My fiance supports me in being bi-curious and im still new at it so any help w... (67 words)

Help! My friends fell out with me because I'm friends with their worst enemy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - About 4 months ago 2 of my friends fell out lets call them *H and *T. Since i was friends with both of them i got stuck in the middle although T is in the year above were really close. Although H still ment a lot to me our friendship remained although her and T became enemies. ... (229 words)

She said she's not in the mood for me, does this usually happen in a relationship? I'm considering leaving her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys please help me decide what to do,today my gf simply told me thats she's not in the mood of talking to me and when I called her to ask why she simply said thats buzy she cant talk,I've done nothing wrong to upset her we having a long distance relationship as I'm studying ... (178 words)

Do I get pregnant if I finger myself?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - do i get pregnat when i finger myself.... (8 words)

How could my ex come home to me after being with other women? Could he have loved or cared for me at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question I suspect I already know the answer to but would like to ask anyway. My ex bf and I were together close to three years. He cheated on me in the beginning of the relationship. I forgave him and we moved on. I now found out that he had been lying and cheating... (150 words)

I'm 28 and dating a 20, why do people call me nasty names? I am not all that old am I?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 28 year old male (soon to be 29) from the UK. I know that it sounds shocking, but I am still a sexual virgin and have never had any sexual experience or girlfriends. Up until now, that is. Well, we haven't had sex yet...I have met this beautiful 20 year old woman. S... (269 words)

I'm married, so how do I supress the feelings for another man? Is becoming friends an option?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am happily married for nearly a year with my partner of almost 12 years and I love him lots. I am worried about the feelings I started to get for a guy at work. I am almost certain that this is just an infatuation but I feel so bad about this, as if I am cheating my husb... (231 words)

The magic has gone in my relationship, it seems. Recently I keep thinking about another guy, what should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - omg please will someone help me, i really need some advise, so please please please ! read this for me, thank you. ok so ive been going out with this guy for nearly two years (he is 21, i'm 19) and although we had a rough start in the relationship, things seemed to improv... (560 words)

We had an argument. He said he loves me. I'm worried about him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who is a little older than me who lives at the college I go to. For a while I have been in love with my art teacher, but this person started sending me messages online, telling me how much he liked me and missed talking to me (we have only spoken once before. ... (275 words)

He moved on but says he loves me. Should I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been on and off with my boyfriend for 4 years we've had are ups and downs but we've always seemed to reconnect...weve always found time to call and still tell each other how much in love we both are...He expressed to me months ago that he was tired of being alone and ... (412 words)

A cyber-affair and lies. How can I ever trust him after that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we have lived together for 2 and up until last week, he was (minus a few stupid arguments)"Mr Perfect". last weekend, for whatever reason... i had a little look on his mobile phone. i saw a message from a girl who we both know (they ... (442 words)

Is it normal after being in a relationship for a while for it not to feel so 'loved up'....?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'll keep this short and sweet. Is it natural to feel this way? I've been with my bf almost 2 years now, but our relationship isnt as wonderful as when it started out. we used to absolutely adore the time we spent together, but now we fight a little more. it seems we have jus... (102 words)

He keeps pushing me to perform sexual acts I'm not comfortable with, can you help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am engaged and have been with my fiance for just over a year. We have a loving relationship and things are mostly amazing. Recently tho he has been pushing me to perform sexual acts I am not comfortable doing. For example, right now he keeps request oral sex. I am very ... (140 words)

My co-workers rudeness is getting me down, any thoughts?

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There’s a girl at work who is around 28/29 whom I shall call “Lucy.” We share a few things in common. She can make you laugh with absurd sarcastic comments when feeling down, but most times, she makes you feel inadequate with her critical putdowns and bleak demeanour. I’m a ... (757 words)

Should I go for it and see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So let me break it sown for you.... i went away on a school trip in feb and i was or a least i taught i was madly in love with dis guy called steven nd was up until about a week ago nothing happened between us because he sed were beter friends so i tryd 2 move on and it w... (356 words)

Is his refusal to talk about things a form of abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a divorced single mom with 2 boys and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He physically abused me on a couple of occasions several months into our relationship. The second time it happened I called the police. He was arrested and court ordered to anger... (306 words)

Is there any hope that we will get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I still love and have feelings for him. He gives me signs that he still have feelings for me because he tells me that he still has feelings for me and misses me. He does little things like touch my hair, complements me on how I look, winks his eye at me and stares at me.I don't ... (138 words)

Who should I choose, Boy 1 or Boy 2?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve got myself in a big muddle and I need some advice! OK, so boy no.1 is my bf at the moment. We've been together for two years and its been great, but he just feels more like a best friend to me now. I don’t love him in a "romantic" way anymore. Boy no.2 is another boy who i ... (235 words)

I'm 17 and have an 8 inch penis!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a problem, a really big huge problem. I am 17 next month and my penis is just over 8 inches long. I realise that this is unusally big for a lad of my age and I would not mind only a rumour has started at school that I am rather well endowed and I get a few girls ... (169 words)

Can someone please give me some help with becoming more confident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, i wonder if anyone can give me some advice please. I have a problem with confidence, i always have and just don't know how to gain the confidence i need. The problem is with myself, i have a gorgeous boyfriend who loves me and is always complimenting me. But i find thi... (265 words)

This is the first time I've ever felt attached to anyone, but he wont call or talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This boy had been my friends' friend for a few months and i would always see him around. But after an event where he was one of my friend's dates, he just started being around all the time. he would im, text, call all the time to go have lunch, to study together..and i never ... (168 words)

I still want to fight for custody of the older child as well as our newborn. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5815 days ago

24 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years with this girl. We've had her son live with us for 2 of those years because i helped her get custody. We also had a child of our own almost a year ago. Now I'm moving on because of our constant fighting in front of the kids. I ... (83 words)

Do you think, he ever loved me, or was it all it was just sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I need it to placed it again, i am still confused I am 22 year old, who had or have a relationship with a 42 year old man, and a 5 months baby boy. Since we started he has been lying and cheating on me, but i always forgive him, i feel that i can't take anymore, i am so... (391 words)

Just wanted a third party's opinion to see if I was overreacting or not. Thanks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my boyfriend of 9 months is friends with his ex girlfriends, mostly from another state, but I'm insecure about that and he knows this. I've been trying to be more understanding, but I'm beginning to think that my jealousy isn't that strange. One ex in particular texts him, ... (387 words)

Since starting work he's got enough time for his friends but not enough tme for me

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for 1 year and a few months now. Things were soo good in the beginning..and i got really attached to him, i thought things were going to be like that forever. But then he got a job, so we couldnt see eachother as much. And now we never see eachother, ... (143 words)

It's been a little over two months. When will I heal?

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, A little over two months ago, my two best friends moved away. They are now living in a town that is about an hour's drive away from mine. I know that may not seem like a big deal, but to me, it's a HUGE deal. Even though it's only about sixty miles away, it see... (186 words)

She said she fell out of love with me but I still love her-please help!

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24 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles you see me and my GF broke up like 5 days ago...she said she fell out of love with me we've been together for 7 monthes i promised to see her all of a sudden i go to her pro and i see her putting heart signs on another guy!. Then she tell me that she ... (126 words)

Should I move for love?

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for almost a year...recently he's relocated to another country and he's asked me to move with him. We are still going to live separately. I am giving up a career here, but he thinks it's not a bad thing for me to be in the other country given ... (121 words)

I'm in love with a pathological liar. The twist is that he is obsessed with me. Please help...

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is long, but please, I need help. To put it simply, I found out yesterday that my boyfriend of 3 years is a pathological liar. He lied to me by telling me he had a tumor on the roof of his mouth and it was cancer, then he got surgery and it was removed (now I realize that ... (364 words)

I found very intimate letters from some girl he used to hang out with who he had claimed was just a friend!

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was going through old boxes to pack up and move into our new house, when I came upon some letters that I had written to my husband 3 years ago when he was in jail. We just got married last year, 2007. Please do not judge him for the jail time, this is not a crime against me, ... (287 words)

I really need to figure out how to be more secure about myself-help!

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need to figure out how to be more secure about myself. My b/f is a pretty hot, intelligent, fun guy to be with and says he loves me, but sometimes when we go out, I get so uncomfortable when there are so many beautiful women around us and I see him eyeing them ... (323 words)

How can I tell her how I feel without being awkward if she actually does have a boyfriend?

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24 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey Theres this girl. She's really pretty and funny and popular and all that good stuff. I know for a fact that she likes me. I've heard her and her friends saying things to that effect since our freshman year (we're rising seniors now). I like her too, but I don't know if sh... (89 words)

I tend get agitated when he hardly ever texts me or calls me -paranoid?

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year and a half now and ever since my brother and his gf broke up ive been really worried bout me and my boyfriend but i dont know why. We only see each other once a week because of our studies and needing to see our own friends and ... (171 words)

Why does he hurt me and still keep me around?

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The reason I left him was he was a liar and a cheater. The 1st time he did it I was calm about it and forgave him... The 2nd time was enough and with multiple girls. I left him and he agreed but said he still loved me. He is now with another cick and had sex with her after ... (175 words)

I still have semen leakage even 10 minutes after I have mastrubated

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24 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have an issue. Around 5-10 minutes after I cum, more cum keepes dripping out of my dick. It's really annoying because I could have my pants back on and then cum just starts leaking all over in my pants. I don't know why this is happening. I always make sure to squeeze ... (73 words)

I'm completely obsessed with this player. Help me!

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I apologise in advance for how long this may be. Theres this guy at work, and I am completely obsessed with him and have been for months. He is a complete player, however he showed interest in me. Me, being the stupid person I can be at times slept with him. Twice to... (345 words)

Did we just make things worse by sleeping together?? What's his deal?? Am I carzy or are WE crazy ?

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - BackGround Info: :We were close friends in High School I loved him , but I assumed we would never be together. I assumed he was seeing other girls and I was getting ready to graduate and go off to college. My home life wasnt the best and I didnt want to be a com... (601 words)

I'm worried about the 'woman on top position' both for my size and it being uncomfortable after a while...

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting married this upcoming November. although my fiancee and i have been sexually active in the past, we have abstained from actual intercourse for the past year and a half. i've rarely had 'woman on top' sex (one of the things i was trying to save til marriage) and am... (185 words)

There was no cheating in our relationship. We had problems just like any other couple has. I was with him for a year. Why is he so afraid of me?

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. When I see him, he act like he's holding something back that he trully wants to say to me. When I say him again, I approached him and we had a good conversation. I told him that I still had feelings for him, he said that he still had feelings ... (271 words)

I'm torn between two men..one is my partner of 2 years, the other a man from my dancing classes.

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my partner for just over two years. We live together and have both been having problems with depression and stress in the last 6 months. It was me first who started suffering and I totally lost my sex drive and ended up practically pushing him ... (260 words)

We haven't talked on line for months, I'm wondering what happened, and if I should just call him!

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24 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so about ten months ago i met this guy online. Its not creepy and he's not a pervert. Im 16 and he's 18. We became really good friends and called and talked all the time. He lives on the east coast and i live in utah. Around christmas he started getting really busy and we didnt ... (190 words)