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Is it an offence to send text threatening to tell everyone she was sexually abused?

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Question - (4 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

One of my best friends, just 17, split with her boyfriend of the same age after he cheated on her almost a year ago, and has hardly spoken to him since, hasn't done ANYTHING to upset him, at the break-up or after, and he hadn't tried to iteract with her either until recently.

She lives an hour away but told me of how at school he and his friends have been shouting things at her friends for a couple of weeks now out of the blue. One day the friends shouted something back but nothing too offensive, just in defence really.

But this is what's really sick. Later or that day he sent her a text threatening to tell everyone about how someone in her family sexually abused her as a child, something she only ever told me, and him when they were really close.

This came from completely out of nowhere and she feels sick with fear and upset, she doesn't know if this his sick way of getting his enjoyment out of other people's pain or what the hell went through his mind when he sent it.

I was just wondering if anyone knew of anything she could do, or if this was a realy serious offence that he could get into a lot of trouble for? Any advice would me much appreciated, she doesn't deserve to suffer like this at all and I hate seeing her upset

Thanks

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A female reader, brooke5426 United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2008):

brooke5426 agony auntIts technically not a crime to go spilling secrets someone told you but there may be a loophole or a grey area in the law you could work to your advantage. There is something called "public disclosure of private facts" which may be worth looking into but as the others have said I would advise your friend to text her ex telling him she is keeping any and all texts he sends and that if he doesnt leave her alone she will report him and like Mandy said make sure you or her call the citizens advice beaureau. You can get their number in your phonebook and they basically help you out with anything legal you need advise on. Its free and confidential.

Good luck and let us know how you get on!

Brooke

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008):

Hi Hunny

This is awfull for your friend love, If she still has that text then I would take it to the police and get advise as to if they can help in anyway hunny, As this is the last thing she needs its so hurtfull when people are so cruel, You could phone the citizans advise sweetheart also to see if they can give you advise on how this stands...It needs to be stopped that for sure goodluck hunny..WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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