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*ah mouw
writes: I went to a show with a friend and my other friend *D was there, and I also ran into some other friends. He was checking out my friend *C who turns out to only be 14 while *D is 17. I noticed he was checking her out but I didn't really think much of it.. (why should I? It's a guy thing). Anyway my friend *T comes over to me and whispers some nonsense in my ear saying "Don't tell *D that *C is only 14, he's into her.." And at first I questioned why it would matter, but then I remember him telling me about how he doesn't date anyone under the age of 16, which i understand. I'm caught on a fence because a guy like *D deserves to know the truth especially when he has strict rules such as not getting involved with anyone under the age of 16. My gut feeling is to eventually tell him.. like with in a week or two. He said I should tell him if anything is up, and I know he's bound to ask.. I sort of feel like his friend *E is playing him out to be a fool especially when he knows about the whole- no under 16s rule, I just think its messed up to let your friend go on thinking like something could happen. I keep telling myself that it's okay and that maybe he won't mind. But my gut gut gut feeling tells me he will mind it and he's gonna end up feeling like a fool and being mad. Ugh, this is a mess. help! Reply to this Question
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (5 May 2008):
lah mouw is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys, I also asked a couple of my friends and they all believe it would be a good idea to tell him as well, so I guess I'm gonna be telling him tonight, hopefully it'll all work out and NOT cause drama.
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (5 May 2008):
Its nice that you dont want to ruin things for the 14yr old girl but I think its best you let him know.
Not only because he has a strict rule but because he could get in allsorts of trouble with her being underage.
If he did start seeing her its most likely he would find out eventually and wonder why you didnt tell him.
I think its best to tell him now, finding out in the future could cause alot more complications.
Honesty is the best policy.
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