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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will he ever come back? If he does can I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im nearly 20 as is my now ex boyfriend of 2 years. as far as i was aware we were very happy together, i loved him so much and he was everything to me, and i thought he felt the same. he was still saying he loved me and everything else when he broke up with me but in truth he ... (172 words)

He's messed me about but now wants to talk, should I go and talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf had been going out for 6-7 months. I got pregnant pretty quickly but everything seemed to be going good between us. Then a few months ago he started to change and seemed distant. i always foned him but he neva bothered to phone me. at the beginning he asked me to ... (264 words)

I don't know where to go from here, should I try to work it out with him or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been going through a rough time and no matter how much i tried to discuss it with him or how i was feeling he never seemed to want to talk, he just said i was being stupid. i began to think i was for a while and then one day i came home early from work ... (130 words)

Id like to date someone but the guys I meet only seem after one thing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,im 23yrs old i have been single for about four years and have been happy going out with my single mates but lately ive missed being with someone but i have found it very hard to meet genuine men the men i meet down town come up to me and talk to me as if im a slapper which ... (198 words)

Any advice on how to approach him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a guy i have been in love with for about 4 years. I have no idea how he feels about me but i catch him looking at me sometimes and hes always really nice to me.I'd really like to know him better even maybe as just a friend as we have lots in common, but i dont know how ... (84 words)

I had sex with him before I was ready, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. It was all going great, until 4 days ago. It was the first time i'd slept at his house, but not the first time we'd slept in the same bed. We were messing around, and he asked if I wanted to do it. At first I said no, and kep... (191 words)

I want to make this work, I'm ready for the commitment, but he's seems to be backing away! PS His mother is living with him now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my military boyfriend have been together for a year. I am ready to move in together and to get engaged and make a commitment in our relationship. I have a 2 year old little girl and he has a 4 year old son both from previous marriages. He moved his mother down from a ... (350 words)

I'm panicking because I'm 3 days late!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I am in an absolute panic. My period is 3 days late, I had protected sex (my partner wore a condom) but I keep going into a panic that it may have broken. I'm 21, and I have just started jogging for an hour a day (which I did not do before) could this have affected my cycl... (115 words)

I need help, my mother and grandmother are homophobic, and I am bisexual.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 13 and about to be 14 in a few weeks. I have had thoughts about sex and just really started talking to my mother about it. She thinks that because I'm 13 i shouldn't be thinking about sex. Also i am bisexual and my mother is homophobic and always says ewww or something of ... (133 words)

My son is on drugs...does love and patience really work or do I let him hit rock bottom???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

20 May 2008 (?) - I am heartsick. My teen son has always been a gentle, quiet, bright yet strong and determined young man, with high marks and good goals, for his future. We had him in sports--soccer, snowboarding and golf. He always love electronics with a a special talent for computer ... (417 words)

I've been with my bf for 3 years, then HE shows up again! I don't know a way out of this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do anymore with my life. I have a boyfriend we're 3 years together, I love him I swear is true but in my life show up the other one...He is so cold, without emocions but I fell in love with him. And i betrayed my boyfriend. We were together 6 months a... (173 words)

His high sex drive is making me feel under pressure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i'm very happy with my boyfriend but there is one thing that always causes problems between us- his sex drive is a lot higher than mine and i feel as though it is coming between us. my boyfriend of 2 years is lovely, hes thoughtful, caring and committed to me and would ... (508 words)

Obsessed with a man who is not my husband. Is my marriage going down?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Heres the deal.. i am married and obsessed with a different man i barely know think of him all the time Is there something wrong with my marriage?... (28 words)

What happened to our sex life? Seems like she is avoiding me sexually.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I have had fantastic sex. She would even brag to a couple of her close female friends how this is the first time she has such great sex. However, the past couple of months our sex life is practically nill. Not for my lack of trying either. It started with her ... (244 words)

I really like this guy, but he seem so busy and hasn't replied to my last messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been seeing this guy - called Harry - for the last week. Having been on a proper date yet due to work committments (we both work in the same field and we are super busy right now). Anyways, saw him at the weekend and we quite literally spent the whole weekend just ... (190 words)

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that someone else, and so on... ... (187 words)

Is there anything wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just want to know if theres anything wrong with me. I prefer being alone, i laugh at misfortune, i hate, really hate some people and love only family and closest friends. Im irritable, and sometimes nasty. I dont trust people. In the past, my friends have gone against things ... (92 words)

Her ex-boyfriend still has some hold. How do I break that hold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age - My girlfriend's ex-boyfriend seems to still have some hold over her, even after over a year now. He calls her about once a week and while she says she "hates when he calls", she does return his calls. She will text reply to him when we're sitting in a restaurant or just ... (261 words)

Woman I fancied and had fallen in love with now has a boyfriend.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone! Over a year ago I started speaking to a young woman on a social website in Lithuania. I eventually met her a few times in Lithuania(as I was visiting the country to see friends. We went out to bars and restaurants to chat and socialize. I found her to be beauti... (304 words)

Should I cheat or not? I'm in a long distance relationship of 5 months and won't see her for 6 more!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a student and I'm in a long distance relationship but its only been 5 months do, bad thing is that I wont be seeing her for the next 6 months,do you think I should cheat whilest I personally don't want to cheat coz I really love this girl but I just feel little insecure ... (100 words)

When is what appears to be "something" actually "nothing"??? Am I in denial, blinded by love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age - Found this text from a chat log on my PC: "Hi Sexy Man!!!!!!!!!!! Are we still on for Memorial Day weekend?" At first I thought it was my daughter to her new boyfriend (since she shares my PC) and so I asked her if he was coming down for that weekend. She said no and aske... (363 words)

I just want things to be good between us! I broke her trust, she was kissed by another guy...I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have recently had problems. She doesn't know for sure if she is in love with me. And I broke her trust on something, and so she is mad at me. But we are trying to sort things out. She has a crush on some guy. That's fine, I mean, even in relationships pe... (217 words)

I know I'm going to be criticised for this, but please! I'm VERY concerned about this pregnancy because of the family history of VERY large babies! I'm terrified!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know people are prob going to criticise me for this post but here goes. I am pregnant with my first ever child but I am terrified and am even considering if to go through with the whole pregnancy. My husband family have a history of having very very big babies. My husba... (296 words)

Should I confront these girls who I thought were my best friends about talking about me on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

20 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i need some help two girls who i thought were my best friends i heard them talking behind my back. It wasn't exactly private as they were talking about me on facebook and everything. i dont know what i should do. should i confront them or pretend i didnt see it. please h... (60 words)

When should I tell my current boyfriend that my previous invalid marriage will be annulled? He doesn't know about this previous relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - When is the best timing to tell my current boyfriend that my previous invalid marriage will be annulled? I had a short duration (3 months)of a long-distance marriage which was a disaster. My ex was impotent at the time of marriage so this marriage was never consummated. We ... (417 words)

Any tips to induce childbirth so my beloved dying grandmother can see her first great grandchild? It would mean so much to me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am pregnant with my first child. However my grandmother who is the most important person to me in my life is dying. There is nothing more in this world that I want than for my gran to see my child when it is born....but the way things are looking she may not make it till the ... (185 words)

Give me advice please and tips on how to make a success of my situation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys I'm a 20 year old guy and have a 27 year old girl,I'm currently studying my first year bcom accounting degree at a university in south africa,my girlfriend neva managed to finish school and is currently a domestic worker,3 years ago we met and became friends and since ... (289 words)

Falling out of love with my boyfriend! Should I try again or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I'm falling out of love with my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship since Oct, and its been fine up until now since we get to see each other almost every other weekend and talk/text all the time. Then he got really busy with school and was h... (237 words)

He obviously isn't into me, after seeming so interested! I'm confused!

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a situation here. I met this guy that seemed so interested in me. Gave me his number in which i did not call for a few weeks. I eventually text him asking him how his stay was here? he is not from USA. He replied promptly asking what i had planned this ... (164 words)

My online girlfriend is starting to ask for things that make me feel uncomfortable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok well I suppose it's like this I began internet dating over a while now and I found a good one I made some friends on it and got to know people well. I met a girl on there and we got to talking and everything was going fine she sent me a photo of herself which was of her and ... (326 words)

So, can anyone explain why the adults seem to talk amongst themselves and ignore jazzy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - is it just me? i live with quite a few adults and sometimes i just feel ignored! i know im walking in deep water here seeing as most of the agony aunts are adults so i dont mean any offense to any adults when i say this. i dont know, can anyone explain to me why my l... (183 words)

Why can't I make friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had much luck when it comes to keeping friends, and i kow it's all my own doing. But if i knew exactly what i was doing wrong, i would change, but i don't. Even though i have quite alott of mates, nobody seems to get close or want to get close with me. In p... (345 words)

I want to find my niece to apologize. I have no expectations, only hope. She was disowned by my sister 11 years ago, and I regret not helping her then.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age - Dear Aunts and Uncles, im not sure this is the type of relationship this site caters for but im hoping for some outside advice. My sister and myself were raised strict roman catholic, we both married into catholic families and raised our own families as strict catholic... (347 words)

What is REALLY best for us?? Can I tell him and him still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a hard time coping with the fact that I cheated on my boyfriend. Him and I have been together for 2 years now. I honestly do love him. I could never ask for anyone better than he is. Of course, he has his flaws just like everyone else...lord knows he is stubborn, ... (475 words)

I need to know how I can move on from all this and stop the cycle of bad relationships and lies.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am totally and utterly dispairing of my own behaviour. I got married very young at age 21 and was never very happy from the outset. By age 24 I had a brief affair with a married man and immediately told my husband. He was very calm (almost not bothered) and we stayed ... (746 words)

How can I break my Father's heart by telling him that my Mom is cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - HI all, This question is not directly involving me, but even though I can not control it, I reap the consequences of the problem. All of my life, I have believed that I had the "perfect homelife." My parents always told my siblings and I that they loved us, we could ach... (569 words)

I feel bad about it, as I denied all the rumors to my ex as well as my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try and keep this short! Basically i have known 'R' for over 5 years now, as a friend. We had kissed at a party years ago, which was no big deal. We have always got on very well, and meet up every once in a while to catch up. Anyway, i had been in a 4 year relatio... (377 words)

I'm interested in a new guy, but this knock to my self-confidence by the long-distance ex has me doubting things! I don't want to be hurt again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

- bit mad here, as Im usually answering the qusestions, btu here goes....Met a guy and we dated for 2 months it was a long distance relaionship, I met him through my friend who was his cousin. Well he started going on about wanted to move down with me, marry me etc, and planning ... (250 words)

We haven't seen each other or talked since he texted me saying, 'We need to talk!' What's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been on and of so much in the last year but recently have been on for 2 monts which has been lovely weve spent loads of time together and had a reali laugh but i randomyl got a text last week saynig we need to talk we both want different things. admitedly we ... (183 words)

My 3 year old is masturbating, how should I to handle this? Is it normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) age 41-50 - hi i'm a mom, i have a question if a girl 3 year old she is masturbation herself is normal? if it is what can i do for that, to me is not normal cos she just too baby please somebody help me?... (45 words)

Did I just lose my virginity over 'wild' masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i masturbate not that often but yesterday...i just broke up with my boyfren whom i thought i will have sex with. i did it with my deodorant bottle. it hurts me but at the same time it gave me pleasure. it last for 20 minutes i guess and i stop and then i did it again. thats ... (106 words)

We met via on line dating, is it too soon to ask if he has other dates in parallel? We have been intimate already.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently met a guy on an on-line dating site. We have been dating for a couple of months and sleeping together as well. Out of curiosity, I went on the site to see when he was last on-line, and it was TODAY. How do I approach him about this? I want to know if I am the ... (75 words)

We're both ready for sex, I trust him, so what do I need to know about it? Does it hurt, and if it does, how do I deal with the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys (: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years. We're both 15 and considering having sex for the first time. I know what your probably thinking "Just another teenage couple rushing to grow up" but thats not the case. We've been considering ... (160 words)

I made him give me advice about dating a boy, without knowing I referred to him. Now that he knows, I'm not sure what to do next.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I'm 15 I really really like this guy, he's 16, and I've told him. But before I told him I was asking him for help on 'How to tell the guy that I like him', he had no idea that it was him. When I did ask him for help he said 'If you're not comfortable in telling ... (166 words)

Have developed feelings for a good family friend. Problem is I'm 18 and he's 42.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for years, he's a good family friend. The problem is around 2 years ago I realized that I had very deep feelings for him that fall beyond the line of friendship. I'm 18 and he's 42. Normally, this would bother me, but given the guy, it doesn't. I really w... (297 words)

Should I cool off for a while and not make an effort to see what he does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

- Ok, I have been to this site before for advice and go some really good answers, so I am back! I have been seeing my bf for about 18 months now. When we first started out he was so into the realtionship. He bought me flowers, send random cards saying he loved me and generally... (409 words)

I need to know if he fancies me or is just being friendly...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

20 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i need to know if a guy i know fancies me or is just being friendly. he tickles me he'll talk to me loads he'll randomly text me to ask how my day was he'll laugh at my jokes he teases me he has nicknames for me this might be a sign i'm not sure but i got a new mo... (144 words)

I'm afraid that he will cheat on me. 23 years between us.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - 23 years between us, both been thru alot, and i am way way inlove, if anythings happenes to us im not afraid to say that i wud be able to live without him,we broke up for a week becuase i got drunk and kissed another bloke, i took an overdose, doctrs tell me i shudnt be here, ... (84 words)

I feel she isn't putting any effort into our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and I feel that she isn't putting as much effort into our relationship as I am, I give her plenty of attention but she only gives me a little, I don't like to seem selfish here but I don't know what to do... (55 words)

How to make sure I am satisfying my older lover? I'm afraid of losing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help!! there is 23 years between me n my boyfriend, we have been together for 5 months and only started having sex 2 months ago, he is quite experience, even thou he denies that he has been with over 10 girls, but we joke bout it, i love him so much and i am very very afraid o... (108 words)

Husband is considering divorce because I snooped and acted paranoid about his co-worker!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Few months married, and I feel that something strange is going on with my husbad. We have been fighting more frequently nowadays in our marriage. Few months ago, he msgd his female coworker nonwork related saying have a great day etc. I know that he was just being nice but I ... (646 words)

We've been together for 6 years after meeting on line. I dislike his on line activity and do not trust him, should I end it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been chatting online to strangers. I know that he has done it in the past and he promised that he wouldn't do it again. He has said that he hasnt and doesnt want to meet any of them but I feel I cant trust him. Should I try again and risk being hurt again or e... (73 words)

The more he says NO, the more I want my HOT neighbour!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I have never ever done this before! I am always a good girl who hasnt slept with many people. I never sleep around and i always make sure I am proctected. I have this neighbour who i find very attractive! I life at home with my parents and i have grown up with him living in ... (297 words)

He called another woman his "sex toy," now he is repentant and swears he hasn't cheated physically. Your advice, please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - me and this guy have been dating on and off for like 5 years i should also probally state there is a huge age differance between us about eighteen years i am in my thirtys .i recently found a message where he is calling another women baby and his "sex toy" when confronted with ... (171 words)

I've been having no strings sex with the ex, who I did not seem to be able to let go... until now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been separated almost a year and i have been having sex with the ex on and off. However, it has been almost 3 months no sex. I have met someone 3 weeks ago that i really like. My ex wanted to have sex last night and i had no desire too. Is that a sign that i'm lett... (93 words)

He said he wanted a relationship with me, it turned out after we broke up that he already had a girlfriend! Now he wants us to remain friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy said he wanted a relationship with me and was looking at a family and kids etc then somewhere along the line he decided to focus on sex- we never slept together since it felt like he was putting too much pressure. Went like this for a while. One day he told me that he ... (372 words)

WOMEN: Have you ever dated an older man? MEN: Any insight on younger women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

- Women : Have you ever dated an older man? If you have, how young were you when you first dated an older man, and what was it like? Age gap? Men: Any insight on younger women? I’m 23, she’s 19. I’ve always dated women my age or a couple of years older in one instanc... (111 words)

Had a drunken one-night stand, turns out it was the boss's daughter, but I don't want to see her again! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a stupid drunken one night stand, in the morning I felt really sick about it because i was not at all attracted to the woman...I couldnt even look at her. I was nice enough to her and left not wanting to see her again. I went to work and on my boss's table there was a ... (327 words)

I've been online chatting with this girl and found I still have feelings for her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am married with one child, i work and live away from home. married since year 2000. before this marriage i was in a relationship a lovely sweet young lady but are relationship was banned due to religious differences, now she is also married with one boy and pregnant and lives ... (152 words)

Being loving and committed is all very well but what is the value of honesty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

- I started seeing someone a couple of weeks ago. I was initially very excited, optimistic and happy. She isn't particularly outgoing though and I have noticed that I have been fantasising about an ex I was with for five and a half years, who was very energetic and outgoing. ... (186 words)

My husband thinks my vibrators are "dirty things" and he doesn't sleep with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together 3 years, married 8 months of those. We have 2 young children, my husband was very very keen to have a family hence why we had one so soon plus he is 10 years older than me. For the first 6 months, sex was wonderful, my husband couldn't... (652 words)

My boyfriend wants to become a Buddhist monk. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been together with my bf for 3 years. He is stable and nice guy. Few days back, he told me that he wants to become a monk when he is 55 years old and that was his goal in his life. I was totally speechless, besides tears i really dont know what can I say. He is a strong ... (76 words)

I'm bored and disconnected. It's as if he isn't there. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend. We've been together for well over a year now but the problem is I've been feeling sad, bored and disconnected from him. We've only had sex 3 times since december 07. I've tried talking to him but it's as if he's not really there. I feel as if something ... (185 words)

My boyfriend's dad is cheating and it's becoming my problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well the thing is me and my bf have been together for 4 years and went to the uk when i finished school now that were back were living with his parents but his dad is cheating on his mom and they never speak to each other so u can imagine the atmosphere in this house, althoug ... (137 words)

Why is she winding me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my new GF for about a couple of weeks now, everything is going well apart from one thing. She went out with her mates and met this new lad as a mate I hope...Well all she goes on about is his doing this him doing that. I ask her what she's up to tonight and she ... (183 words)

He wants naked pictures of me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months. Its a long distance relationship. To be honest Ive never met him before yet. He is a friend of mines boyfriends brother. We enjoy talking to each other everynight for more than 4 hours. We just started to have phone sex ... (119 words)

Do I ask him out? Do I wait for him to ask me out? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I really like this guy at my school. I ended up telling him (even though it was through a game of truth or dare). His Gf just broke up with him a week ago and I dont know if he likes me back. Do I ask him out? Do I wait for him to ask me out? What do I do? Help! xox... (65 words)

I am so annoyed at myself for letting this person who I never invited into my life invade my life so much!

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok - I like to think of myself as a pretty mature and intelligent person, I have a repetoire of good coping strategies and a reasonable understanding of human behaviour and the types of things that motivate people to behave in certain ways, and insight into my own ... (412 words)

How do I help my bf who is rapidly gaining weight?

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20 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - My wonderful boyfriend has gained a lot of weight over the course of a year or so (an extra 50 lbs). I find his family is quite worried about him and so am I. Now he gets hungry late at night but tonight he said he would resist eating a hamburger long after dinner was over.... (280 words)

She insists that we be friends, is she saving me as an option to be with later in life?

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20 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl that i've known since 8th grade has been one of the closet friends that I have ever had, we always talk, hang out, flirt, party together, kissed here and there, have the same group of friends etc....but we do have our share of nasty arguments and fights, and mostly ... (235 words)

Your EX stories: Did you tell your ex you have strong feelings for them yet and how did it work out?

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts, I just wanted to know if anyone has told an ex they still have strong feelings for them and have it work out? Thank you all for your answers. :)... (33 words)

Why is this happening to me? Why is my girlfriend this way???

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20 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - (background info)Me and my girlfriend met back in Sep of 07. We worked in the same town and I would often see her at her job. I fell in love with her smile and how she always made me laugh. She said she was talking to someone and that she was not really involved. It turn... (918 words)

Sex with cousin, we used the withdrawal method. What are the risks?

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with my cousin. we are 2nd cousins, and he did not use protection, but he pulled out before he came. Is there a chance i might be pregnant???... (31 words)

What will I do when and if I lose him? I cannot imagine another one in his place.

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi actually I wanted to ask what should I do when i have lost my love. Will I gain it back? How should I gain it back? i dont know the reason of him going away but i want him back I just cannot imagin anybody else in place of him. He is my childhood friend and we were dati... (93 words)

We considered breaking up before the distance would become a problem. But I find this relation worth fighting for, what do I do?

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20 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I started dating this girl(who is a year younger than me) second semester of school and after prom we started talking about what's next in our relationship. We thought of breaking up before things get further where we would get even more hurt. Since I'm leaving for school i... (97 words)

I am trying to help her fix the problem but she is not cooperative...

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20 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of a little less than 2 months had cheated on me with a number of different people. It has happened 3 times, and only once was she sober. I am trying to help her fix the problem and get through this myself, but she won't talk to me anymore. What do I do now? ... (56 words)

I was outgoing and extroverted and we were always talking, but recently I've nothing to say to him. Do we have a chance?

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So. I need some advice. I've been seeing this person for 6 months now. When we started hanging out- as friends- i was acting like myself. I was outgoing and extroverted and we were always talking, I actually dominated most of the conversation. But recently, I've noticed that... (187 words)

I don't ejaculate when my girlfriend masturbates me or by myself, what can I do?

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20 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well i am 14 almost 15 and i can't ejaculate when I masturbate or when my girlfriend masturbates me or gives me a blowjob and it is frusterating to both of us. is there anyway that i can cum either by myself or with her helping me along? thanks for the answers.... (53 words)

I don't know how to begin to move on. He was abusive but I can only remember the good side of him, that draws me back to him!

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My now ex-boyfriend and I had been dating for almost two years. I just broke up with him yesterday because his verbal abuse reached a new low. We've had an incredibly tumultuous and disastrous relationship and after trying to break up with him for a year, I finally ended ... (315 words)

My face turns red and my voice starts to shake when my crush is near me. What can I do?

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - lately I have been turning red every time that my crush gets near me...Every time he gets near me my heart feels like its going to explode and my voice gets shaky and my face turns red...is there anything that I could do to make myself stop turning because its very ... (52 words)

Any natural way to get more energy and combat depression?

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Any natural ways to get more energy???? Vitamins or shakes, anything will help, i think it's a bit of depression too. thanx... (22 words)

Could my birth control give me a false reading...?

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i started taking birth control 3 weeks ago and took two pregnancy tests today that both came out positive. could my birth control give me a false reading??... (28 words)

I'm so worried I will be cheated on due to the case of cheating in my family, although my BF is great!

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my one year anniversary is in less than a week. about 3 years ago my parents went through a rough divorce because my dad cheated on my mom. i've been so worried that that was going to happen to me. i really don't know what to do. my bf is really great but i feel as if i'm ... (164 words)

My ex said she had a one night stand, why is this cutting me up?

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20 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, here's the situation... My Ex-Girlfriend I broke up with in November was my first love and real relationship, I broke up with for treating me horribly and because I suspected she had Hypomania calls me everyday. She gets drunk then calls me and says stuff like "I lo... (283 words)

Has anyone else been engaged young?

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20 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfreind and me are engaged and im so dam happy.....But we aint gunna get marride till about 5 years...What annoys me so much is how everyone has got a opnion on it and because we are young they think it is defaintly going to fail. I was hoping for some advise on how to ... (64 words)