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Archived questions from: 17 May, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm going to the cinema with a group of mates and a guy that I'm into-any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Tomorow I'm going to the cinema with a group of mates and a guy that im into. We're in the same school and grade, he sent me mail saying That he is into me aswell. Then he sent me another mail saying "We'll see what happens tomorow (K). I'm Guessing this means he wants... (137 words)

Do yeast infections and clamidia affect the throat ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5815 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help iv been sexual active latly, and given head to this guy without a condom. id had symtoms of thrush in the vagina, but that went away,now i have a really dry throat ? i have no idea why, iv heard that yeast infections and clamidia can be in the throat ? ... (109 words)

Should I stop having sex with him so he'll stop seeing her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for 4 years. It started off sexually then my emotions became involved about a year into it. We became friends but I wanted more.We continued having sex then three years in to it I became pregnant. He didnt want it but i had the baby anyway because of my ... (164 words)

He won't seem to make his mind up, please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, here goes..... I was in a relationship with another guy for 2 and a half years, we had a great time together, but it now turns out that over time his feelings have changed towards men and he is straight, so we broke up! I have now found a new male friend in my life and h... (124 words)

Do I need to worry about STDs even though we're both virgins?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for almost 13 months. I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend, but I give him blowjobs and handjobs. We're not going to have sex, because we've agreed that we're too young and not ready. We don't use condoms when I blow him, but I heard that we should because ... (98 words)

I'm working more at my job than my studies, am I making the right move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey dudes/dudettes! man, i need some advice-non biast advice. im in my second year of uni, i work (pretty decent job part time) and along with my current job im doing some training to help me to progress further. the thing is, this yr in uni, i havnt attended any of ... (205 words)

The situation with my married teacher has intensified, please help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago I posted a question on this site about the close relationship between myself and my married art teacher http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-he-was-not-married-would-he-see.html Since then it is becoming more serious, although he is constantly sendi... (449 words)

Pregnancy problems.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im trying to get pregnant now for quite some time. i ovulated from 5/4 to 5/7/2008 and i had sex on 5/2 and 5/5 and 5/7 im experience light stomache cramps and dark nipples are these signs of pregnancy? i did both blood and urine tests on 5/13/2008 both say neg. so maybe i ... (64 words)

How to tell the people I babysit for how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I babysit for a little boy for really nice people. I love the kid, and my family has known this family for years. My sisters babysat him from when he was a baby until he was 3 or 4 years old. The problem is his parents always call me last minute, usually only a few hours ... (322 words)

Used to always get 'wet' and now I'm always dry - why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - why can't i 'get wet' anymore? i used to and when i had orgasm you could definitely tell, but now, i'm always really dry. what could this be?... (28 words)

We 'switched' partners but weren't supposed to have sex and I did! Now my fiance can't trust me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, me and my fiancee of 2 yrs. had a wild and crazy night w/his best friend and his girl. well we were switchin partners but the deal was no sex. me and his bf didn't really stick to that. it wasn't much but i feel awful and can't beleive it happened. now my man doesn't ... (80 words)

Problems with his ex-wife, I'm not allowed to see my step-daughter and our marriage is falling apart.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for almost 2 years and have never met my 15 year old stepdaughter. Her mother won't allow it. My current husband's visitation has been reduced, by his ex, to daytime visits every other weekend as his daughter is not allowed in our home. The legal system has ... (478 words)

My friends say he took my virginity - did someone spike my drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 and i went to a party last week end and i think some body spiked my drink because i only had a shandy. my mates told me he tooked me up stairs and i think he took my virginity can some body help me through this dificult time please?... (52 words)

Am I gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - can somebody help me please? im a lad and i think im turning gay because my girlfriend doesnt turn me on. but my friend (boy)when i see him i want to rip his clothes of i am always having sexual dreams and thought about him can somebody give me advice please?... (51 words)

Strange discharge? Should I go back to the doctors?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was repllyiin in respect to d last responce i got concernin my case. am a 20yr old girl who experince discharge of blood from my vagina any time am sexually aroussd, after like 1week or 2wks after ,my period pls wot iswrong and wot do i do is it an ... (91 words)

Tiredness is ruining my life, please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hello, My question is about being tired. I am 19 and for as long as i can remember i have been tired. And i dont just mean a little bit, i am ALWAYS tired and it seriously affects my life. Half the time i dont have the energy to go out with my friends and have fun, i woul... (209 words)

I'm miserable and lonely. Do I need a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had this very odd very feeling that i dont understand. Its very vague. Everytime im very happy and keeps on laughing with friends it turns me out to be sad and lonely when im alone. I feel like crying and sometimes it ends me up into tears. I really feel sad. I can feel a ... (188 words)

Lost my virginity but why was there was no blood?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 yars old. I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. first it was very dificuld and it hurt, but than it was OK and I liked it. it didn't hurt that much anymore. but . . . there was no blood! it's suppose to bleed . . . isn't it?! and it's suppose to hurt for a for ... (112 words)

We'e split up, how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up over a week ago, we we're going our for nearlly 3 years it was his idea to break and i had no say in it, he said we can still be friend but he moved back home which is 2 hours away, hes changed his email address, and when i sudgested to him ... (134 words)

I'm 24 and can't get a girl. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 24 year old male and I really want a girlfrield. However, it seems that this isn't going to happen as I still haven't kissed a girl. The only time I have ever been intimate is by paying an escort. This was over 3 years ago now but I am thinking of doing the same again. I ... (237 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore and she doesn't want to talk about it, how do I solve this issue with her?

This question has 94 answers - newest was posted 3736 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old man who has been in a relationship with another 28 year old woman for 18 months living together for 1 year. Our relationship is pretty good except for the lack of sex. We both love each other very much. At first she wanted it all the time almost daily, bu... (388 words)

I developed an ictch patch on my genitals, What do you think it is and what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear members am in trouble and badly need your help please! I developed an ictch patch on my genital 8 weeks back and thought it was just a skin rash. But the patch has not only persisted but also expanded. It gets terrible every day am even starting to think am i might lose my ... (68 words)

I tested positive in my pregnancy test then had a preiod two days later-Am I or am I not pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey im Sue, im 20 years old and married...we've been married for almost 6 months now and fimally decided we want to have a baby...soo we've been trying i did the clear blue pregnancy test and gave me a postive...i got all excited 2 days later i got my period???:(:( that rea... (66 words)

Is there any possibility she may get back in touch with me?

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17 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ive been meeting a girl on the weekend for the last few weeks. we both really like eachother. the problem is that she and her ex are still texting and things and see eachother every now and then. he slept with someone behind her back, months ago and they tried to stay ... (483 words)

What can I do to rebuild the trust he shattered?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - There's a question here, I swear it. But, as per usual, there's a lot of back story. I'm 27 years old, not overly religious, not a femme-nazi, I don't follow fashion mags, or celebrities...I'm pierced, tattooed, experiment constantly with sex, and possibly one of the last ... (993 words)

What should I say or do to apologise to my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - heya! My birthday is comming up, and i wanted to invite some of my friends to stay over my house, but one of my friends mums doesnt like me, after an argument between me and my friend, i would still like her to stay, but her mum wont let her, as my friend even said her mum wont... (78 words)

Should I tell my family that I am Bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is quite serious and i'm desperate for help :o( I have slept with girls in the past, and i really enjoyed it, I have been attracted to girls for longer than I can remember and not thought anything of it, just thought it was hormones, in my teens, but now i feel like i'm... (228 words)

I don't want to waste my time chasing after something that'll never be! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and my boyfriend is 22. I really like him but the problem is that i am not sure he is faithful! I have been told that he has another gf who is alot like me back at his home and i am very insecure about this.We have been together for six months and i have met almost all ... (166 words)

How am I meant to stop thinking about her like this when she's my best friend and I see her all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my best friend a lot and it's really driving me mad. I keep thinking about telling her but it's pretty pointless since I'm not her type at all. But then I keep thinking 'what if...', it plays on my mind a lot and I really need to stop thinking about her. I thought about ... (174 words)

Do you reckon he is just being friendly-or does there seem to be more to it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused by his actions i don't know what is goig on, so really could do with some advice. Me and my ex were friends before we started seeing eachother, then we got together and everything was great. But he then ended it, he didn't give me a proper reason but then told ... (353 words)

I'm ready for sex. . .but not ready. . .*gulp* help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! Okay, so I'm 15, and my friend thought I needed a girlfriend so he hooked me up with this girl, and she's really sweet and all, and I really like her. But a few days after we've been dating he calls me up and says "By the way, did I mention that she puts out. . .a ... (131 words)

My boyfriend is sulking because I didn't tell him the details of my exchange trip.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HI.... I went for an exchange trip last year to europe. Three people from my class got selected and i was lucky enough to go. I used to like email my boyfriend everyday and tell him what i'd been doin and hat i saw and stuff... and i wrote a special diary for him with picture... (251 words)

I can't get my ex out of my head. Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This time last year i was with this guy. I was with him 7 months n then we broke up. I took it pretty hard but eventually managed to get back to my normal self. However the past month or so i keep thinking about him, at night i cant sleep. I get flash backs of when we were ... (210 words)

Dumped by my coworker, I need help to move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A co-worker and I started seeing each other in late January and he broke up with me in early March. We didn't sleep together, it was just too much too soon, according to him. The problem isn't the breakup; the problem is dealing with it over two months later. It still hurts a ... (141 words)

My friend did himself over me when I was sleeping -advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my mate had a sleep over at my house the other week. i woke up and my 'mate' had pulled my pants down and was masturbating over me 'with my pants down' i am scared. does any one have any advice please?... (44 words)

I have no real friends. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have just realized i have no friends. There are people i hang out with at school and stuff but they are not REAL friends. and i feel extremely lonely. Since last moth i have become detached from people...i've stopped going out at the weekend and i don't call my mates anymore,... (132 words)

Am I making him feel inadequate? Or is it something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, long story short: me and him - 3 year relationship. Love(ed) each other to bits, truly. Very passionate, but regular rows mainly due to his weed habit and mood swings. Him very "I'll show you" thru his actions eg, after a big row he went off and jumped into bed with someone ... (216 words)

Should I shave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. . .so I've got a girlfriend now (im 15) and . . .well i've noticed its pretty hairy down there and its not like Im expecting any sex for a while I just think I should shave it down anyways. . .how exactly do I go about that? Haha, this may sound dumb but haha do you use ... (73 words)

How can I be friends with this guy when my boyfriend doesn't like it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years. me and his best friend were talking one day and he grabbed my waist, pulled me over and kissed me on the lips. but this friend is one of my friends too. now my boyfriend knows and wants to kill him. even though this happened, ... (76 words)

I hate it when he pushes my head when I'm doing oral-how do I get him to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - a couple days ago i gave my boyfriend the first bj i have ever given. but he kept pushing my head down. and it's getting on my nerves. what can i do to get him to stop?... (37 words)

Hasn't he got it in him to tell me it's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there, i feel like im going mad. i had up until a couple of days ago what i thought was a normal relationship with my partner and then the other day he walked out. last night he came home and told me that he was leaving me and going back to his flat but assured me that it ... (227 words)

He moved on and married, and I'm engaged. Should I talk to him if I see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, i meet this man 9 years ago when he was my pe coach and i fell in love with him but i never told him because he left but i told him after 5 years . then he told me that he was not good for me and that iam a good girl.then he travelled we kept in contact.I told h... (219 words)

I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get hurt even more and cause alot ... (104 words)

I felt he never trusted me. Now I can't move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 8 months and I was truly in love with this man. Problem was that he would always say he loved me more and I never really felt he trusted my love for him due to some kind of insecurity...he said I was out of his league and such. Anyhow, I never felt ... (569 words)

My husband caught me having sex with my cousin

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im married with kids but not long ago my husband caught me having sex with me cousin. I realise that i love my cousin, an that i have tried to ignore my feelings an so as he, but we can't. We love each other, i'm older than he is (by 14yrs)an family will dissown us both!! (i ... (259 words)

My wife abuses, dominates and bullies me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. Hope someone can help. I am married to a controlling, dominating, mentally abusive, bullying wife and have been for 4 years. I have 2 very young children and one due in 4 weeks. I have tried everything to help her stop being Angry, even going to the Doctors behind her ... (489 words)

I slept with someone else. I don't want sex with my partner.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age - I have been with my partner for a long time and I have never been keen on sex with him from day one. I thought I wasnt sex active but last year I had an offer from a guy at work who fancied me and I slept with him and it was amazing! I know it was pure sex for him but It made ... (202 words)

Can anyone help me with boy's fashion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - This is a bit stupid, but it needs to be asked. i have no clue about fashion - clothes, hair, shoes, anything. does anyone know any good websites, or magazines for boys around because i have searched and searched and cant find anything. thanks.... (47 words)

I don't want to lose my boyfriend, what should I do?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years and we love each other a lot, but I think that we are starting to draw apart from each other. he want to take some time apart but I really don't want to because I'm afraid that one of his best friends is going to start liking ... (75 words)

I am just so quiet, shy and lost... any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

- I feel like there is something seriously wrong with me. I have been so shy, ever since I can remember. Even when I was a baby, I was very quiet, I barely cried or anything. And as I became a toddler and a kid, I was shy, never wanting to let go of my mum and always hiding ... (193 words)

I have a stabbing sort of pain in my vaginal lip area, could it be an STD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

- The inside lips of my vagina hurt a bit. Like if u touch them, even just really lightly, I get like a stabbing sort of pain in that area. Anyone had this before? Anyone know what it may be? Could it be an STD? ... (44 words)

I'm sleeping with my ex again, does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke about a year ago we both had got into new relationships, and then both of us ended single again at the same time. We agreed to have a sexual relationship with each other with no strings attached, but I didn't have any time to fulfill his needs all the time, so ... (103 words)

Any tips on how to say you're not interested in pursuing anything further after a blind date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hiya I have recently started using online dating sites and have been meeting girls off there (yes of course always make sure we are both careful in meeting at public place etc) Anyway because these are sort of blind dates, what is the best and most polite way to let a gir... (108 words)

He's grieving over a jet plane, don't know if we will get back again....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a desperate situation and need advice. My long distance boyfriend has given me an ultimatum. He moved a long way away after being with me for a year and we have been apart for 9 months. During that time I have only been able to see him once for a week. Every day he ... (506 words)

What do you think the stuff he is doing means?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well im having a problem here. my ex seems to show some signs that he likes me, but he has another gf. Idk if he does so im asking this, he gets really red around me and I catch him looking at me and he kept all his myspace comments from me and he was on today and they wer... (137 words)

Is it wrong of me to want some answers as to why he chats with other girls on his MSN?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, here's the scenario. I've posted a question before about 2 weeks ago about how I think my partner is cheating on me, to which I got some good replies. My question now is connected to this, but its been kind of bothering me. My b/f and I have been having pretty amazing ... (421 words)

He still denys the internet chatting even though I've seen the emails with my own eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - please help as i dont know if im making the right choice....i've split up with my boyfriend of 2 years because of lies about money and talking to girls online but i dont know if im making the right decision. he still denys the internet chatting even though i've seen the emails ... (138 words)

An advice please onow to cope from people who had casual encounters they later regretted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OK I feel as though I need to explain myself or apologise before I even start as I dont want people to misjudge me. My bf and I are both models and even though our world is full of superficial people, I pride the fact that neither of us are like that. I am bi and had a gf who... (1116 words)

I'm head over heels but hes just got a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really need help, I like this boy who i met on a ski trip a couple of months ago, with a couple of friends, we did games like 21 truth and then he was asked who if he had to who to go out with etc. he chose me me n another girl both said him. I still really like him. now we... (118 words)

We have dated on and off over two years, help me - I am scared of him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time I go round to my Boyfriends he always tries to have sex with me - we broke up because he found someone else but we are now back together again and the first time we met he demanded sex again. I also think hes cheating on me as he has a girl on his facebook page who ... (117 words)

Hay! This is a bit off-saddle for this site, but I need to stirrup some horse fans!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey I know this is a bit off topic for this site, but I need help on something. Does anyone on here horse ride?! Yes, it sounds weird to ask that, I know. But I started back in february and have just began to canter. Finding it awful! I just get thrown off constantly. ... (58 words)

How can I help my 11 yr old get over not having her friend in her life anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm feeling so guilty today. Last night my ex and i had a row and he grabbed me and lifted me off the ground. In front of my 13 yr old son. We have NEVER been physical before with each other. I lost my rag and keep swinging for him, and eventually got him to go, taking his 11 ... (201 words)

He's leaving for a year! Should I just end it now so as not to prolong the pain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - dear cupid, i have been in a long term relationship since i was 19 years old.i had jus finished school and he was finishing up a course at college and we met working in a summer job.i then started an intensive college degree which i am finishing soon and i qualify very soon.we ... (191 words)

People don't find me sexy any more but I'm still same person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i m a very good looking female.once there was a time guyz used to think i am very sexy.my voice, my dressing sense n the way i used to carry myself all depicted a lot of sexappeal.the only thing is that i m very chidish too.but now for last some days i m getting the feeling ... (82 words)

7 months after the break-up I still want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a 5 month relationship last year which was going really well. We talked loads about our future together. My boyfriend looked at possible building sites to build a house for us in the future! But then he changed jobs and went back to university which is the next town ... (240 words)

Are there no mature women interested in young guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

17 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I love mature women but I am young (16). Its hard when you know you probably can't have sex with an older woman at a young age. I just don't know what to do.... (34 words)

I am still talking and sexually involved with my ex boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this is my delima I am an single 20 yr old and I am still talking and sexually involved with my ex boyfriend does that make me a whore if im only sexually involved with him. I mean the head he gives is bomb and asks nothing in return. Ladies what do you suggest I do? ... (60 words)

Age Gap!-It is so hard dating him without friendship support

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I am dating a guy who is 20. I am 15. I know we should not be dating but we are in love. Some are my friends are telling me to leave him but I can't. It is so hard dating him without friendship support. I don't know what to do. I wanna be with him but I want my friends to ... (72 words)

I felt bad for not indulging his anal fantasies and that he also has erection problems

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17 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Okay, here's the thing...he has NO problems getting it up the first time. Actually, it's great sex. The second time, a while later...it's really hard to get him...well, hard. The only things that seem to turn him on is 69 or the idea of him doing me analy...And I'm ... (264 words)

She says there's no chance of her turning back but always gives me a glimpse of hope?

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17 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ok so now that we have been separated for 3-4 weeks we are talking more now i try not to call her when we do talk she is in a happy mood laughes jokes around and we often talk about sex. we have had amazing sex the last 2 weeks total of 4 times doing things we never did b4. she ... (102 words)

My ex says he has feelings for me but does not want a relationship?

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex says he has feelings for me but does not want a relationship at the moment...he gets jelous if i even talk to one of his friends. we had sex one time,and afterwards hes been cold and distant when we hang out,and we havent even made out or anything since? what could be... (65 words)

Nervous about sex. Scared to do it for the first time.

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have never had sex before and i'm kind of scared to do it for the first time. my boyfriend really wants to have sex but i don't think im ready. i really love him but i don't want to go that far. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. what should i do to get ... (65 words)

Scared of being alone. What is wrong with me?

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 25 year old female who only has had a few kisses and that has never had a boyfriend. It is becoming more and more terrifying to face loneliness and I'm really scared that I will end up my life alone without being able to form a family. I have given lots of explanat... (143 words)

My parents are strict and over protective, how can I see my boyfriend more often?

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone im 15, i am dating this boy and he is a year younger than me(14) and well he wants to see me atleast 2 or 3 times a week because he lives like 15 mins away by car but the thing is my parents are very over protected and they don't let me go out alot of places.. ... (209 words)

I finally feel ready to start dating, any advice on how to go about it?

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17 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 years-old male who've never went anywhere with a female. I've also never been shown explicit interest by one, save 2-3 times when I was a young teenager. For nearly all my life I've been passive and secluded as I was excessively fat. Now all the extra weight has... (613 words)

Do you think he was flattered by my compliment?

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17 May 2008 (F)

age - This guy and I are attracted to each other at work. We are starting to get a bit flirty thru words and actions. Today I said to him that I would miss his sexy voice over the weekend. Do you think he was flattered by my compliment? Is there any reason he wouldn't be?... (58 words)

He said he likes me, and I like him, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i meet this guy he said he like me i have feelings for him what should i do... (18 words)

My ex won't stop calling. I want to respond but it hurts too much! What do I do??

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex is moving across country for a job. He said he just wants to be friends---so I am trying to honor that request. No email, text, call, etc. He keeps doing all of that and doesn't understand that it hurts me too much to keep in contact during this time. What do I do? ... (99 words)

I lied to my ex about my past and feel awful, am I?

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17 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, a few hours ago, I posted about feeling awful because I lied to my ex and now I lost him. I had lied several times concerning my past. The thing is he was very jealous about it. For instance, if a song by a band that one of my ex crushes liked played on the radio, my no... (852 words)

Does anyone know a good conversation starter?

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok theres this guy who i see once a week at work im really into i think hes noticed me in that way but im not sure dose anyone know a good conversation starter that isnt rude or to nosey but lets him know i like him lol feel fee to help me out i need this man to ask me out ! :)... (64 words)

She refuses to give me a chance, but she's all I can think about!

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17 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I love her more than anything in the world and yet she refuses to give me a chance. I keep asking her to give me a chance but she keeps saying she's not attracted to me. But she's all I can think about and she is driving me crazy, why can't she understand me and how can I get ... (61 words)

My husband was texting another woman!

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been having some relationship issues for the last six months and at one point it got so bad that we were contemplating seperating. Just two weeks ago I found a text on his phone saying Hi Sexy Lady however he had this phone number under a mans name. I ... (221 words)

I am tired of this back-and-forth relationship! What can I say to get him to end this?

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in and out of a relationship with my daughter's dad. Things would be good and then, his actions beg to differ. I would ask him what's wrong? What's on your mind? and the list goes on. Then he'll bring up the past. To make a long story short, I took him to court ... (211 words)

Is it wrong to have a vibrator at 16?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

17 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen and I'm a virgin. I plan to stay a virgin for a long time. I'm writing this because I have simple question to ask. My mother doesn't want me to talk to boys and I've told her that I wouldn't Now the dating/sex age for my family is usually between 9/14 years of age. ... (173 words)

My girlfriend's past bothers me!

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17 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with my GF's past! I am 24 years old and have slept with about 10 people, she is 20 and has slept with 12 people before me! Should this be bothering me so much, is that alot? She told me that everyone she has slept with wasnt just for sex, she always had s... (360 words)

His confession about his feelings for me have created a problem for me!

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - One of my parent’s closest friends (we’ll call him ‘X’)and I enjoy a mutual hobby which has the blessing of his wife and my boyfriend since neither of them enjoy this hobby. (Additionally, my ex-boyfriend was their son. I severed all contact with their son since he treated me ... (801 words)

Should he have stayed, under any condition?

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17 May 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend was the one who gave me my first kiss. He lived in the neighborhood and hung out with my brother. He was the first boy that kissed me. Years later I saw him out and that was that. Then, about 2 years ago I got sick. I told him to run while he had the chance. ... (1227 words)

If he really loved me why wouldn't he come and fight for me?

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17 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have just broke up after a year and a half of being together. During that time that we were together we endured a lot. When we first got together, a couple days after we officialized our relationship, my dad and step mom start arguing and she ends up leav... (457 words)