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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there any free software for Mac computers that you would recommend I use to block my access to porn websites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I get very turned on by porn (but wish I didn't). I will go for a long time without viewing it, but then go through a period where I will view a lot. On the one hand, I like to view it for ideas. I have seen some techniques that I hope to use with my boyfriend that really turn... (338 words)

I'm in love with a guy that's about to get married, I don't want to see him anymore, but it's hard to let go.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with a guy that's about to get married in 3 months. We've been kicking it for 5 years. He tells me that he is getting married because of his 11 year old son. I don't want to see him anymore, but it's hard to let go, what should i do?... (55 words)

He has a girlfriend, but he is still wanting to meet up and fool around with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm heading into my senior year. There is this guy and he is turning 21 in September. I'll be 17 soon. But age is not the problem. He has this girlfriend who he has been with for like 5 years now. I think he wants to break up with her, but I also think he doesn't wanna hu... (219 words)

What are the tell tale signs of pregnancy after the first few weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been sleeping with a boy without a condom for a few weeks now, stupid i know but he did tell me he's infertile. He only knows this because he's never got anyone pregnant before, including past girlfriends. He's never used a condom and his girlfriends weren't on the pill... (135 words)

Do we confront her about our uncomfortableness and leave my wife alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for quite a few years. We have a great marriage, great house, great kids, great dog and cat..... Anyway, her friend of a few years (I think they are friends about 5 years, it's way after we were married) is getting married for the 1st time. She ... (426 words)

Quick!! I want to do something fun and cute and romantic all in one, and I want it to happen tonight!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Anyone help me quick, i want to do something fun and cute and romantic all in one, and i want it to happen tonight. Any advice please help me. Thanks so much. ... (32 words)

What happens to your vagina if you don't have sex for years. Does it tighten back up??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know what happens to your vagina if you dont have sex for years. Does it tighten back up?? Does it hurt when you finally do do it again?... (31 words)

How much longer do I have to wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

- I met my b/f when I was 22 (after I finished university). He's my first boyfriend. We have been dating for 3 years now. We started having sex during our first year of dating. It's now bothering me that maybe if I didn't have sex with him, he will hurry to marry me. I know he w... (102 words)

He hugged me tight before he let me go..and cried.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with the same guy for 9 months. Sunday, he decided to break up with me out of the blue. I was and still am in love with him. He said he loved me and cared for me but something didn't feel right. He hugged me tight before he let me go..and cried. He says he need... (87 words)

I'm running a family business and he's running his own business, but we live 2 hours drive from eachother.

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21 May 2008 (F)

- I don't know what I want. I might sound a bit greedy. I love my boyfriend dearly, and I really want to start living with him. He lives 2 hrs drive away from me. We both have a career where we live; I'm running a family business and he's running his own business. Financially,... (202 words)

Should I let go of all the feeling I have for her? It's very difficult and I don't think I can.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Hello im 16 years old and i am in love with this girl. i cannot stop thinking about her and she literally means everything to me. we are good close friends, and i want to go out with her. however there is one problem; she is 18! a two year gap...is it unacceptable to attempt ... (182 words)

Does he have feelings for me but is just confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex boyfriend broke up a couple months ago...i asked him if he wanted his things back that he gave me and he told me to keep them then he told me that maybe there is a chance of us getting back together but he has a girlfriend and is still saying that..do u think he ... (69 words)

I get turned on my female sex... is there something wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i get easily turned on by watching 2 girls have sex. but i'm not a lesbian!!! is there something wrong with me or is this normal?... (26 words)

Should I stop getting involved with this new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - at the moment i am getting divorced from my nasty husband who i have been with on and off for 20 years. im not at all used to the dating scene but i have been getting involved with a guy who is ten years younger than myself. the only thing i like about him is that he is nice ... (128 words)

Should I feel guilty for wanting to sleep with him before marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i would like some advice.Im a 25 year old catholic virgin and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now-we are both in love and plan to marry.I have always wanted to wait i was married before having sex and my boyfriend is so loving and understanding and is happy to wait.... (114 words)

My friend found a condom wrapper. Did he cheat when she was in the hospital having his son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend is dating a guy and they just had a baby a couple weeks ago. He cheated on her with her "best friend" last summer, they were all drinking at her house, and her 6 year old daughter woke her up and asked why was Jeremy and laci naked ? So my friend got up and ... (366 words)

He uses a wedding ring... is he married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Started seeing a guy lately and whilst we have been flirting with each other I have noticed he has a wedding ring. I asked him if he was married, and he said he was separated - why then would still wear a ring?... (44 words)

Should I tell them the truth about who the father of my unborn child is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think that i might be pregnant i have my boyfriend of a year that is not the father we just simply dont have sex anymore but am very much in love with, and i have another friend that i have been seeing for 2 months just for sex since my long term boyfriend wont give me any on ... (107 words)

If he loves me, shouldn't he talk to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a relationship with a 47 year old man and everything was going well at first. I did things wrong and so did he. There was no cheating at all. I brought past relationships into ours and he did to because our communications with each other was not good. He broke it off ... (125 words)

Should I try again with my ex or should I give the new guy a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex boyfriend for a little over two years in a semi long distance relationship (he lives about a four hour trip away from me). During that time, we broke up once for several months because of several reasons we constantly struggled with throughout the relationship. ... (500 words)

I can't get over my ex-boyfriend but I don't want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I officially broke up with my boyfriend in December. Reasons: i didnt feel like i loved him anymore. I never felt like doing anything with him and was completely disinterested. i dreaded him touching me for some reason. He bored me. All he would talk abou... (506 words)

It's bugging me that he never listens!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy since last October and I really like him, but he never listens to me! I'm expected to listen to him talking about silly random facts. But whenever I tell him anything in a few days, he doesn't seem to remember or gets it wrong. It's really bugging me a... (64 words)

Thinking of all three of them together makes me ill. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My child's father left me for my best friend. I can't seem to move on from it. It's been 6 months and it still hurts really bad. And the fact that I still have to be in contact with him because of our son makes it even harder to cope with this. Thinking of all three of them... (106 words)

Is my penis a problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 22 years old and still a virgin. One of the reasons for this is that I have a complex about my penis. It's slightly twisted and has a small curve in it. I was wondering if this would be something that would put girls off or that they would find weird or unattractive.... (108 words)

Should I let him be or keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help on this one.. me and my bf split up 2weeks ago and yet i still dont know what to do!!i was with my bf for 7months and ive fell for him big time.. he got into abit of trouble in the past is due up in court soon and this was part of his reason for getting up and g... (192 words)

At what point do you stop 'just seeing someone' and become officially a couple?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi just wondering, at what point do you stop 'just seeing someone' and become officially girlfriend and boyfriend? ... (18 words)

I met him on holiday and miss him so much. Any advice out there for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i met this guy on holiday about 4 years ago, only for a week and really liked him, he made me feel special and i have never felt more myself and confident and alive. He was about 3-4 years younger. I was kind of in a relationship, and i knew he liked me but obviously i wasn... (331 words)

I want so much to be more than just friends with her! Help me out please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all i'm back again thanks all for the help on my last Q but that is not why im here i have a new problem. I have known a girl just over 2 years now, she is younger than me and we met through a friend, we get on a like a house on fire. She could easily be the female oposi... (222 words)

I'm finding it extremely hard fullfilling his pissing fetishes!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my b/f I'd do every single one of his fantasies at least once, but it's hard. He has a urine fetish, and I'm finding it really hard to go through with! He wanted me to drink it, to pee myself, to let him pee inside me...basically lots of stuff dealing with piss. I love... (66 words)

It isn't until now that I've pieced all of this together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I needed some advice on how to respond to the message that this guy who's interested in me sent me recently. (sorry so long) A little background: I met him about a year ago and he was sooo into me. He called everyday (which I told him was excessive and to calm down) and ... (442 words)

Just a couple of questions about a guy at school that I need answering please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, ok you may remember me, i wrote up about this last, that i thought he liked me and so did a mate, because he showed loads of strong signs and everything, and then i found out he doesn't...and that he wants to stay single. But anyway thankfully he's been fine with me at coll... (596 words)

Please help me to cheer myself up again, I feel so down and nothing's going right for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Its hard to explain this but recently i have felt down about things and nothing seems to be going right. . .it's like having pernament bad luck! I feel like have a constant worry about nothing at all. . . Well basically i want to know if you have any ideas to cheer myself bac... (69 words)

Is he being honest and true about me, and the possibility of a relationship between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there! I've been seeing this guy by now 4 times in three months and talking on the phone many times. The last time we spent together was last saturday from 9:30am till 11:30pm. He wanted me to go to his place and meet his cats, after he showed me his whole apartment, we ... (328 words)

Do you think he will ever marry me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out I am pregnant and me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. One month shy of a year. I want some kind of committment from him or else, I am moving at the end of our lease term in December of this year. He said he wants to marry me but just not... (104 words)

Split up - what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me a few days ago. We recently got engaged (8 weeks ago)and now i don't know what to do. We have been together since school and i always put him first and now i feel i have nothing? I still love him and don't know what to do - any advice?... (59 words)

My girl told me she was raped. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What should you do if your girlfriend tells you she was raped by her x boyfriend but neva said or done anything about it and I'm the first person she told,to make it worse this guy is a good friend of mine but I don't like him anymore for what he has done to her,she also said ... (193 words)

We have an age gap. Will it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 23 and i am living with a man who is 46. we have been living together 3 1/2 months. He and i share similar opinions, leisure time preferences, ideas, jokes, hobbies etc, even though unlike the usual "older man younger woman" scenario he is in catering/security/etc "b... (369 words)

My husband walked out, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay I just need some advice/pick me ups...I am 4 months preg with a 2 yr old and a 1yr old and the man if thats what u would call him thier Dad, my Sign.Other, supposed to be my Best Friend walked out the door to work one day and never came back...Everytime I went to get ... (219 words)

Broken up - what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I need advice towards when a person falls out of love with the significant other.You see me and my GF broke up my friends tell me that it can be the change i went thru b4 the breakup in other words i have to be back to the same way i was when we 1st started going out.My friends ... (227 words)

Can I win back my Ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for a while now, but I've always still had strong feelings for him, back in February he started flirting with me even though he's had a girlfriend, telling me the feelings have come up, almost kissed me etc, and I didn't tell him how I felt, he ... (81 words)

How can I get closure from my Ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. It's been hard for me. I still love him, have feelings for him, and I think about him constantly. I'm o.k. when I don't see him. We attend the same church. He stares at me constantly. He's 47 years old and just completely shut down when I ... (157 words)

33 weeks pregnant with genital warts and SCARED

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was so excited when I first found out that I was pregnant on Nov. 5 of '07. Me and my boyfriend were just so amazed and happy! During my 1st trimester I had a somewhat normal pregnancy everything except the negative RH factor which in the long run is rare all in itself. ... (472 words)

Is every day too much sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys Id just like to know whether its wrong to have sex with your girlfriend each and every day,we are having a long distance relationship and sometimes I don't see her 4 months and when I dont see her I don't think about sex oftenly and I never cheated her so this means ... (165 words)

My job is to chat to other men online - but my Bf dumped me for it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Another question.... Can someone please inform me of why my BF of almost 6 yrs all of a sudden thinks I have an addiction to being a X rated chathost, when he has known from day one what I do for $$. I also have been working in his office for almost a yr, so now I only have thi... (243 words)

Confused Mother and Wife...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I am a married 24 year old with 2 very young children. I got married at 21 and had my first child at 21. I made the decision to have children early because of medical problems and my doctor saying if I do not have children now I will probably never be able ... (435 words)

Can't get my Ex out of my head...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I thought i was over her. My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago now (dated almost 3 yrs). At first all i could think was getting her back but i knew i had to give it time Get my life in order and give each other some space. WE never ended on bad terms, she found so... (208 words)

Why do I have these feelings? Will I ever have them with my boyfriend or any other man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hi there i'm in a bit of a mess, any advice would be greatly appreciated. Okay I will start from the beginning... There's this guy at work, and i slept with him (my boss) and yes he's married, and yes i have a boyfriend. So please, I know it was bad, and the decision i made,... (419 words)

This boy slapped my bum, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Today i was walking up the stairs in my school when suddenly a boy slapped me on the bum! I turned round to see it was a year seven (i'm in year eight) who also happens to be my cousin's best friend! My cousin is also in year 7, and he is really protective of me, even thou... (164 words)

Is this feeling called love or something....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this facilitator or can also be regarded as my teacher. Usually from what I know and read, people said that your heart will beat faster when you like someone. But for me, having him near me or when HE’s talking to me (just asking questions of no feelings related), I ... (155 words)

I was married, but now I'm alone in this world, and I've done nothing wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age - I have tried in many ways to find love but can't seem to find it anywhere. Is it because I'm 48? Is it because I have a heart problem? Is it because I'm not that good looking? (don't get me wrong I'm not that bad) Or is that I don't have much money? The last reason I can thi... (150 words)

Please take a minute to pray for me...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My heart cant take much more! Well i've still been sticking it out with my boyfriend who is still talking and kissing his ex's behind, just so he can have a calm relationship with his kids. I need a prayer request please!!! I want to be strong enough to handle all this and pra... (116 words)

Can I ever forget him or is this a silly phase I'm going though?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I worked with a much older guy (30 years older than me). A few months back, he admitted that he fell in love with me the day he met me, he said he never got this before, it was like electricity in the air. I didn't feel it at the time. However, (before he admit... (349 words)

Is he confused and don't know what to say because he feels that he made a mistake, or does he not know what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my boyfriend started having problems. I asked for some closure because he told me that the relationship has been damaged and it can't work. It's been three months since we been together. So why does he continue to stare at me when we are in church? Why does he make it h... (96 words)

Sex tips please for a first timer.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

21 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I want to give my boyfriend the best bj anyone has ever had. May I have some tips please. We are also going have sex for the first time, so can have some tips for that too. Thanks xxx... (46 words)

Please help me, I'm so desperate to save my marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I made the biggest mistake of my life last march. I met some guy on the internet. We ended up having sex and now my marriage is on the verge of getting divorced. I want to know how i can fix it. I have two kids in this mess as well. I still love my husband with all of my hear... (97 words)

Can a relationship without affection last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm asking this because my girlfriend told me she's not a very affectionate person and maybe never will be. Is this a cause for concern? I give her plenty of affection and I know she likes me but it's hard to tell sometimes. Please help... (47 words)

All I did was ask her if she cheated on me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Why would my girlfriend brake up with me?! All I did was ask her a question to see if she had cheated on me.... (25 words)

A poem I wrote...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A hundred causes is between people But for us truly neither To live like we live one without other A hundred causes is separating us But is one of them worth To let us live,like we living? Tonight I lose my breath And I scream in the sky "come back again" Because we... (130 words)

I've been swinging for the past 2 years...should I take it further even though I'm married??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am nat i have been swinging for the last 2 years really in joy it looking to go a bit further in to orgys looking to have sex with 20 guys or more do u think this is a wise move as i am married??????... (47 words)

I had sex two weeks ago, and I've been experiencing pain in my lower stomach...what could it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - thank you for the answers you were a great help,now i have a small problem,i made love with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago and since then i experience pain on my lower stomach and when i urinate cupid might i be infected or what,also i noticed some spottings 4 days later,am usind ... (59 words)

I dreamt that I made out with my best girl friend!! What does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a really bad dream..but before that let me tell u that i think i am bi..i want to have sex with a woman although i havent yet done it!!!comimg back to my dream..i dreamt of making out with my best girl friend..it totally grossed me out..i would never ever make out with ... (76 words)

I've never kissed. So, just in case I get lucky some day...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, how are ya? hope your well, just as a note, this is my first question on this website.. to be completely honest, its the first time i'm asking a question to complete strangers lol. umm.. i'll get started i guess. i'm an 18 year old male freshman in college. i ... (185 words)

I let the love of my life slip through my hands.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I regret not moving out to South Africa to be with my girlfriend. I dithered so much that she eventually got fed up of waiting for me and met someone else. I'm totally devastated. I pray that she will forgive me and take me back as now I would sell my house and quit my job ... (119 words)

How do I leave the past in the past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ok, i am new to this site. i am at logger heads with myself. me and my ex were together for 5 years, we met on the net, chatted a few weeks before i saw a pic and then i panicked cos he wasn't what i hoped for..by this time we were already getting on great. he asked if he c... (357 words)

Does having a child bring you closer to your partner?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - if you hav a child from your partner do you become closer.... (12 words)

Am I confusing girls by being "That Nice Guy"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - When I read your article, it really hit me hard. I am that nice guy that you discribed. The only thing is that I am not afraid to approach females. In my life, I have appoach many women in bars, clubs, book stores etc. My problem is that for one, I have trouble showing interest ... (161 words)

I cannot feel the threads on the IUS!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A girly topic here.. Has anybody had any probs with their IUS? This weak I cannot feel the threads, I know it is still there because I felt the very tip of one thread. I know there is no perforation, as I am not in agony. I do feel a bit of discomfor on the right side ... (114 words)

Will he ever be able to have another relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A good friend of mine, who I have known for 10 years, took our relationship to the next level back in November. It was totally unexpected, but I went with the flow, and quickly fell in love with him. We have been spending evey weekend together, hanging out and having a goo... (212 words)

I'm not in love with him anymore, but I can't bring myself to break up with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going out with this boy but I don't know what to do, I don't love him anymore I love this other boy. Ever since me and my boyfriend met people have said that we should date so I gave it a go. He says that he loves me but lately I've met a boy which I like I feel guilty b... (125 words)

He's pretty possessive or controlling, I'm just wondering if I should worry about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 18 years old and my boyfriend is almost 19. My boyfriend and I started dating online about a year ago, and we finally met this month and it was great. He's an amazing person and we're very very much alike, and very very much in love. However, he limps due to birth ... (202 words)

He's still in love with his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. just needing a little bit of advice. I've been getting close to this guy who is two years younger than me. We get on brilliantly and we've both told each other we like each other loads etc. we've had sex a few times. which i am fine with. my main concern is that h... (157 words)

He's bashful! How do I get him to open up?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, does anyone have any tips to make a bashful guy open up? Ive known him since high school, and he's so sweet, and funny when he actually says something, but he is so quiet and bashful. Ive been hanging around with him a lot, and a little flirty with him. Im going to ask ... (77 words)

Anoher man fancies me and I can't keep away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need advice, a few years ago I met a man that was a good friend of my partner's family and I really liked him, and my partner jokingly(although he meant it) said this guy fancied me. I thought nothing of it, but I found everytime there was a family event I would look ... (166 words)

I'm having dreams of other guys, what does it mean?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I am having some strange dreams lately, I have a boyfriend whom I am very happy with, but I keep having dreams that I am with other men. They are not sexual, but I have dreamt of being with my ex (I was sitting on his lap and he had his arms around me) I hav... (109 words)

I'm her long distance ex, can I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - We been for 3 years together. Last Year , we apart to long distant relationship due to working. In this 8 month , our relationship become worse and getting break up. She started a relationship with other guy. The break up reason is that i didnt beside her when she need me... (104 words)

Does he want me for real or was he just playing?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - heres a story. im 24 never been in a single realtionship before. i liked this one guy 2years ago though online chatting. he is from another state (my hometown) while im in another state curently studying. he asked me to be his gf on february. i said yes because i liked him. we ... (370 words)

How can I get over my hang-ups and be friendly with new guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been single for about six months, and am having a really hard time getting over my ex. I'm finally to the point where I'd like to meet and date new guys, but I have some mental blocks to this. Some of them are post-break-up and some of them are older problems I've had ... (529 words)

Tell me everything I need to know (and already know) about married men who cheat?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm married too...He's nearly 20 years older than me. We've been attracted to each other for months after we met professionally, but I didn't think it was anything more than flirting. I perceived him as someone who had set limits for himself and did not want to cross the line ... (229 words)

He has agreed to a meeting, what should I do/say to him to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago. Without talking to me in person. He blocked me on different networking services like myspace, aim, and facebook. He got tired of me because he lost interest in me. I know for a fact that, I write too many letters, I call too ... (174 words)

We've been dating three years yet his ex is still living in his house!

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21 May 2008 (F)

age - I've been dating this man for almost 3 months now. His ex is still living in his house. He says she won't leave, she pays no rent, no bills, yet has a decent job. They have no kids together. He keeps saying she will be leaving soon, but the other night, he asked me how I ... (288 words)

I don't have a bf and also don't have much privacy to self-explore-advice?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I have a couple questions. I'm 12 and in 6th grade, and I don't have a boyfriend, and I'm not sure who my real friends are. since I go to a small school, if one person hates me, they spread a rumor, and everyone hates me...That's kind of how its been for a few years. The ... (214 words)

Slept with another girl but still in love with my ex. Any way I can get the ex to trust me and to love me again?

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21 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a big problem. I broke up with my girlfriend whilst in switzerland in February this year while we were travelling together. We've been broken up for three months now, but still see eachother regularly and still love eachother... Until this past weekend. Shes no... (210 words)

She is in canada and I'm from UK I plan to one day visit any help from people who have experience of long distance love?

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21 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well i met a girl a short tiem ago and to make it short we fell in love at first we though it was just puppy love but after we spoke more and more we found that it was the real deal i am only 15 and some may say im much to young to think of love but i love her with all y ... (165 words)

It rips me apart inside that he told me one thing but does another. Now he insists that I tell him what upset me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating the most wonderful man since December. I can feel and see just how much he truly loves me. When we first started dating, he told me he had gotten rid of all his porn because he didnt want to hurt me by looking at other women. A month ago, I found a stash of ... (238 words)

Should I continue to call her or just wait? Is there a chance that feelings will come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hello, my g/f from 6 mos. broke up wit me last week bc she said she wasnt happy n the relationship anymore bc she just likes her freedom and wants to be single rite now. she said i am the only one she would want to be wit if she would want a relationship, but its not the rite ... (191 words)

Should I give a try or should I move on? What if it is meant to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok. Here we go. I worked with this guy for more than a year. Nothing ever happened. We used to flirt but just as a joke. I always knew he was married and never thought he could feel something for me. After a party we kissed and it was really unexpectable. He said he always ... (127 words)

Every time we pass a girl he has slept with he makes disturbing comments - should I take it as a sign of his own insecurities? Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going to be a sophomore in college, and i am currently dating a guy who is going to be a senior. Although our relationship is pretty new, i can honestly see myself with him for a really long time, if not forever. Things are going great, but there are a few pet pieves that ... (330 words)

I'm attracted to my first cousin; I need advice in order to forget him!

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.. i know this is so wrong.. but im attracted to my first cousin.. but it looks like he's not into me coz there are no signs.. he's very formal and strict looking.. but he's cool.. definitely confusing; I still like him though.. i cant consider my feelings as "in love" coz i ... (79 words)

I made some mistakes which made him break up with me, and now he's been mean and very hurtful

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21 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - How can I hate someone who clearly doesn't love me anymore? I made some mistakes which made him break up with me, and now he's been mean and very hurtful, often disregarding my hurt when he says ulgy things or calls me names. It all was because he judged me for my past... (308 words)

I need advice from a male or male teacher about a male teacher! Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i have a question. yes this is one of many of those teacher student relationship questions, but this time i was wondering if there were any males or actual teachers out there that could give advice rather than women. not that girls dont give good advice, i just need some ... (452 words)

Did my calling him have any effect on him? Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My crush send me a message that he's going deployed next thursday to Asia. So, I called him on the phone to wish him good luck. He was very surprised mainly cuz he's stationed in NC and I'm in Fla. so we keep contact by email. In his message he did said he was going to keep ... (144 words)

He doesn't trust me because I'm a chat host and love to talk naughty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Try to make this short for you. I am a chathost on an internet service, my boyfriend of almost 6 yrs knows what I do and the reason being the money I make? He recently intercepted an email from a friend that implied that I was emailing/texting/talking on the phone to another ... (186 words)

Should we go on break because she doesn't trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

21 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have known each other many years, as friends for the most part. I recently decided to be open with her, about something I kept from her 3 years ago, when we were just friends. Naturally, this made her lose trust in me, as if I had been lying to her for 3 ... (447 words)

Pubic Hairstyles: A vote for all guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I want to hear a vote from all of the guys! (Please tell me your age too) What would you prefer your gf to do with her pubes? a) Shave it all off b) Trim it c) Leave it hairy d) Do a hairstyle (eg. hearts, stars, arrows, w/e) And if d) what hairstyle... (78 words)

I want to marry him but we don't have a plan! Should I move?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting married this fall but my fiancee lives in another city 5 hours away. It doesn't seem like he can find a job in the city I'm living in. I am planning to move to his city, but I don't want to stay there long term, especially if we have kids. I told him I am scared ... (442 words)

Should I pretend our kiss never happened?

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21 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple of weeks ago, i was catching up with my ex girlfriend sally about her life. Apparently she needed me as a friend so i gave her a hug...just to comfort her. She began telling me "you shouldn't bother with me, i'm not worth it, look your friends are waiting for you,... (226 words)

I am obsessed and jealous of his ex! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i hate my boyfriend's ex's and not for a serious reason! i think im obsessily jealouse or something. you see, what happens with me is that we live both in france but we come from different countries. i come from greece and he comes from argentina. we met here in france so ... (337 words)

How do I tell my mother I want to move with my bf without making her feel excluded from my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18, my mom and I do not get along most of the time. How do I tell her that I want to move in with my boyfriend wthout hurting her feelings, and making her think I want her out of my life?... (46 words)

My boyfriend's female friend walked around in a towel in front of him and thinks I over-reacted, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - While visiting one of my boyfriend’s long time female friends, she decided to take a shower and began walking around in nothing but a towel. At the time, I did not say anything to her but I was very upset and later spoke to him and banned him from seeing her with out me. My... (94 words)

I moved in with my boyfriend and now my parents hate me!

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. He seriously means everything, and this past year we both moved away to college. The good thing is that our colleges are only 15 minutes away from each other, however we still drive to see each other almost every day, if not ... (259 words)

He's acting different, what is going on?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he is talking of marrying me. ... (256 words)

Am I being unreasonable to expect more from him?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - We had been going out for 13 months. During that time he has gained about 40 pounds and I know his self-esteem was low. He was invited to a friend's 40th birthday. He constrantly aske if I was going, I declined because I thought it was a boy's night out. His friend tells him to ... (437 words)

I'm not attracted to him anymore, what can I do?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have dated for almost two years now. He is still very attracted to me, but I am not very attracted to him anymore. I feel awful, and it has affected our sex life. I love him, but getting to know him well, I find his lack of responsiblity and his sloppiness ... (93 words)

Please help me ask this girl out!

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21 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have knowen this girl since 2005 we was good m8s in may-2007 i think she liked me and i like her but was to shy to ask her out then i left my school in the summer holidays(august). and saw her stil but not as much but as time whent on i saw less and less of her we used to ... (148 words)

Was I right to break if off with my fiance because of his maunipulative family?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently ended my engagement to a most wonderful man for one reason: his family was rude and manipulative, and he would not stand up for me. It was such a painful process; everything else about our relationship seemed so perfect. The family was nice to my face, took me out ... (287 words)

Can anyone give me different ways for a girl to masturbate?

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21 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Can anyone give me diffrent ways for a girl to masturbate.... nothing I do is doing anything for me ..... ... (27 words)

Which of the two girls should I choose?

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21 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 12 and turning 13 in june, i need 2 choose between 2 girls 1 turns me on the other i am good friends with, which 1 do i chose... (30 words)

My boyfriend wants me to go on top but I don't know what to do!

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and my boyfriend is turning 18 in less than a month. we've been having sex for about a year, and i'm always on the bottom. he's getting mad that i'm scared to go on top, but i don't know what to do! can someone explain to me what a girl is supposed to do when she's on ... (69 words)

Is my teacher in love with me?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it sounds crazy but our relationship is different then the usual student teacher relationship..first of all shes also a female and shes 34 years old..im not sure if she is gay or not.. we cant go a day without talking to eachother we talk on the phone for hours we text ... (99 words)

Is my boyfriend lying?

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21 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I will try to make this as short as possible. I've been with my boyfriend for just under a year now and he is my first love. He has been engaged before me, and says that he didn't have sex with his ex; and I believed him. Until I found a photograph of him lying on his back ... (213 words)

Will he give me another chance or not? What do you think?

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21 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, it's me again. I'm a girl who's been posting about how I lied to my ex about my past, repeatedly, and how he got fed up and dumped me. I'm in a very confusing place now... he's contacted me throughout these days. We broke up on Thursday. Well, he broke up with me. I was v... (1068 words)