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How can I effectively ignore his efforts to hurt me, as to not let my self esteem get hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5809 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, here's the thing. My ex broke up with me a week ago. He was very controlling and hurtful, during most of the relationship, although it probably was more of my fault as I lied. But he intimidated me, as he's always been so aggressive, and he sometimes got upset over litt... (505 words

Can a gynacologist tell if you are a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering if a GYN could guess whether or not you are a virgin by looking at your hymen ? I'm 22 and a virgin BTW.... (31 words

Is he just being friendly or is it more ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 26-29 - i have a thing for my teacher... well it all started off when i started my new school. i spotted a teacher that a few people liked, well 1 or 2 to be honest + me at 1st, he was just a normal teacher i used to get into touble with him, but he used to let me off and keep my ... (343 words

More than half a year and she won't tell me how she feeels. Should I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am in need of desperate help, I've been with my girlfriend for more than half a year and she has yet to tell me how she feels, she keeps telling me she'll tell me soon and needs more time to think. She doesn't seem to talk much to me and isn't affectionate towards me yet I do ... (78 words

How can I make my boyfriend fall in love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 26-29 - i have a bf but dont understand how to make him like me even more i dont see him often except for everyother weekend maybe you could tell me how to make him fall in LOVE with me. any spells or potions? lol jk p.s he already likes me bunches... (57 words

My parents won't let me go out. I feel like running away.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

23 May 2008 (F - I feel depressed and I believe its because my parents wont let me do anything. I now feel like running away to give myself a better future (it will be hard on my own) and to be happy again but is it worth risking being disowned by my family? and bringing shame on them? I've... (97 words

My boyfriend keeps hinting me that we should have sex... how do I get more into the idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am really worried because my boyfriend keeps hinting that we should hav sex but although i am a little scared i really want too, what can i do to help myself get more ammune to the idea???... (38 words

Is this my period?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been having a small white dicharge for some time now, and then just recently a brown/black substance came. I think its my period but im not sure, its not runny or gooey just kind of inbetween, i havnt spoke to my mum about it, I dont really know what to say!? help....... (54 words

Is it possible to get her off my mind without having sex with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age - I've been attracted to this woman at work for quite awhile, and things have escalated between us but we haven't even kissed yet; we're both married. Is it possible to get her off my mind without having sex with her? We both want to but so far we are keeping our marriage vows. ... (58 words

My husband is unaffectionate and cold, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - we have been married for 2 years. before we got married, it took me a while to accept my partner as the one. he now seems to be very bitter about the rough time i gave him. before we got married, he used to be this nice guy but nowadys he is very cold and unaffectionate. i have ... (167 words

Do you think she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi i need some advice i have knowen this girl since 2005, fom school we was good m8s in may-2007 i think she liked me and i like her but was to shy to ask her out then i left my school in the summer holidays(august). and saw her stil but not as much but as time whent on i saw... (178 words

He said he liked me, then broke it off... please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi its me again i know i go on about this i forgot to say an extra detail the bloke said to me on the first night, that he really liked me that i was his girl now and he didnt want me going out with any other men. THEN 2 DAYS LATER FINISHED WITH ME IT REALLY ... (95 words

Why does he keep hanging around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - My ex never told me it was over, he just distant himself.In the beginning it was good. He did things wrong just like I did. There was no cheating and I felt that the only way to get his attention was to lash out at him or leave him silly voice messages. I felt that he wasn't a ... (330 words

I broke up and now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I need help ! I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago.. he was such a great person but things between me and his mom went wrong and i couldnt take it anymore.. He kept begging for me back but I just couldn't stand his mom and I kept refusing.. now after all these beggings h... (143 words

How do I prove to my Ex that were still ment to be together?

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23 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - How do i prove to her that we shoudl get back together?! Me and my ex girlfriend had a long bumpy road but we always made it through, with love. We are now broken up but we both still have feelings for eachother and are still seeing eachother almost every day and "fooling" ... (208 words

What can I do to keep on having this great relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone ok here it goes me n my bf love each other very much n 4 the past couple days theyve been amazing hes been living w/me n we usually fite alot but i believe that what weve fought abt has been eliminated n things have been great im just wondering if these things have ... (161 words

I feel like I'm being used, whenever I'm around my ex he wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey me and my bf are split up now but we are still friends which i like but theres a prob... whenever we are around each other he always wants sex and i dont want to because i feel like im being use,am i?? i always so no for a while but then i give in because he gets... (139 words

Please, somebody put my mind to rest! I found out my ex was using heroin, died, now I'm paranoid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hey guys, this sounds dreadful, but i have to share my worry with somebody. I just found out that my ex died of a suspected heroin o'd, and my emotions are mixed since i found out what it was. I'm totally shocked. Part of me thinks i can't believe what it was, but part of me ... (439 words

He says it will work between us this time. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - welll me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7months now .. and we had a massive fall out on sunday there . well we actually split up for a couple of days .. because i was getting to jelous .. i cant help it but ? everytime i see him looking at someone i always accuse him ... (363 words

Was she really meeting her father? Am I just being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - Last week my girlfriend of about one year arranged to meet her father last night. She seemed very excited, its not often they get together despite living in the same city. She came by to see me after work, and went off to get a shower. The hot water was out, so she had to go ... (387 words

My parents can't communicate with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F - My parents seems to claim they don't know my boyfriend well enough. We have been dating for 3 years (I'm 25 and he's 27). He comes over and stay every 2nd weekends at my parent's house. My parents don't speak English very well, and my boyfriend is British. Communication is of ... (207 words

I'm having a baby. I feel my lover is neglecting me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Sometimes I feel extremely unhappy with my lover mostly because I feel that he is neglecting me on an emotional level. Physically he cares for me superbly and I could't ask for someone better. He buys me everything I could want and/or need. He has bought everything that we ... (732 words

I'm flirting with disaster. How do I deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have had a crush on a man who is off limits for about 2 1/2 years. I'm in a relationship thats been going on for almost 10 years and I have never had a crush like this. This guy is in our group of friends and a good friend of my boyfriend. (He's single but not like tha... (278 words

How can I stop him being so stuck on me. I've never encouraged him at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F - Okay so... I need some advice..I have NEVER delt with someone like this before. I have a cousin, Dina. She's pregnant, (again) and she's a total leech. She's my family, but I have very little respect for her. Anyways recently she left her boyfriend and the father of her un... (460 words

She's expecting our child, and left me, I want to be involved with my new baby, but how can I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - Can any body give me some advice on how to cope and manage only seeing my baby 1 day a week. My ex girlfriend has left me and is expecting our first baby. Basically i have been left out of everything, the ultrasound, midwife you name it i have not been included. I so very much ... (152 words

Is four and a half inches normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (? age 26-29 - hi im 12 and in realy concernd about my size down stairs.is 4 and a half inchs normal? please help.... (21 words

My boyfriend has Asperger's Syndrome, and now I think I might have it as well. How do I talk with him about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend (let's say J) has Asperger's, and recently, I've been starting to question myself, as a lot of our similarities lie within his AS traits. It's easy to talk to him about most things as he seems to be able to relate to them. For example, our love of having the sa... (544 words

He doesn't want a girlfriend right now, but wants me in his life! Should I stop seeing him altogether? I do love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am divorced. I started sleeping with a co-worker. He and I are really great friends. He tells me all the time that I am his best friend. We do so much together. He does not want a girl friend. I understand that, I myself am getting out of a marriage. We have been ... (427 words

How do I get him to kiss me more???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok... my boyfriend and i have been going out for 6 months and we used to kiss during school but now school's out we don't get to anymore... and once he kissed me and pinned me against the wall and he kissed me once and kept doin it and i pushed him away kinda... and i really ... (101 words

I'm scared my unreliable boyfriend will break up with me again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 9 months, is extremly unreliable. he was supposed to cme to my house after school one day but we fell out becoz he didnt come. We ended up splitting up becoz he said all we do is argue and he's un happy and he cant see it going anywhere. Staying on the same pho... (137 words

Our time together is getting boring, we're not living together or married, what will it be like if we were?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F - My bf and I have been dating for 3 years. We do not live together but we spend every weekends together (I go over to his house or he comes over to mine). During the weekdays, he'll call me at night and talk to me. I know I'm lucky he is still doing this at the 3rd years. Lots ... (173 words

We split up but can't seem to leave each other alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am in yet another dilemma. me and my bf split about a week ago now. I went over to his last night for the swapping back of personal items, as you do. However, when i got there we were talking for a while then we ended up sleeping with each other! I know this is wrong, b... (137 words

I like her sooo much, but I'm confused by this!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - Okay, im now a junior in highschool, and ive liked this certain girl since my freshman year, i dont know why, but i do soooo much. I got a job at a grocery store, and then she started working there, but the twist is that she started talking to one of my good friends, they ... (144 words

He's working so much and is so tired and depressed, I don't know how to help him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - My husband is constantly depressed and there is nothing I can do to help him. He works 6 days a week, 12 hr days and is always tired. By the time he gets home at 8pm he just wants to have his dinner and go to sleep. We rarely even make love...maybe once a month a quick 5 min ... (690 words

Is there a way to win back my cousin's friendship and respect? He found out I'm in a relationship with another cousin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Can anyone help? I have had a flirty relationship with my 1st cousin since we were kids, an i really think a lot of him an enjoy his company. We have often joked that if he wasn't my cousin then we might be together as a couple, because thats how flirty we were together? ... (335 words

I'm upset all the time. Is there any reason for it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, ive been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, at the beginning we had a few problems but the last two years has been the best ever. the problem is, im not happy and i dont know why. My BF spoils me rotten and makes me laugh soo much and i really love him. Were going on ... (194 words

I thought he wanted me back, but he seems to be with this married woman. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age - I have been with my partner 14 years he is 44 I am 57. we lived together for 9 years then went through problems and decided to part. he got his own place and I stayed in mine. after a month or so we decided that we couldnt live with eachother or without each other, so we ... (489 words

He couldn't get enough of me, but now he's gone AWOL.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello, Yes, I recently had 3 month fling with a guy who I met online. All good fun but we decided to cool off due to distance. We then kept in touch by email, text etc. However, in the past 2 months I haven't heard from him! I've emailed a few times etc but no reply whatsoe... (140 words

My girlfriend told me to "grow a pair fo balls". She is leaps ahead of me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years and lived with her for 6 of those years. I suffer from depression and am known to cut off from the world and lately she has been getting on with her university and making friends and I have just been a bit of a hermit. Nearly two ... (622 words

A two-year marriage with big problems. Advice please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm married and have a 1 year old kid, I've been married for 2 years and already their are problems, I'll make it quick and straight to the point. We moved to a new area, and got to know everyone they all seemed nice, I had the baby and then couple of months later people on my ... (740 words

When a new relationship falters, is it helpful or harmful to express our doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M - I met a lovely girl three weeks ago and we've been dating. We have slept together a number of times too. At first it was exciting and full of possibilities. After a week I even felt like telling her I loved her, but didn't. I'm increasingly having doubts about the ... (310 words

Should I get my lip pierced?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

23 May 2008 (? age 30-35 - Okay so this has nothing to do with AR but I really need help. On June 2nd, my grade is going to Quebec and in the information packet it said in the province of Quebec, minors can legally get tattoos and piercings with out their parents permission. seriously, that is awesome. ... (86 words

My husband just plays computer games. Is he letting me down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - i have been with my husband coming up 5 years and married 2, i have a 9 year old son from a previous relationship, this is where one of my problems lies. my husband appears to always be on his case, puting him down, and i hate the wat e talks to him. i obviously defend my son ... (247 words

Can I date my child's teacher?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - This isn't a totally serious question, and is somewhat tongue in cheek ;o) buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut... Went to my childs parents evening last night and quite liked one of his teachers! I picked up a bit of chemistry. Funnily enough, when me and my child got in the car to go home, to... (118 words

They seem to think I would make a bad mother, but I wasn't in the wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello im 18 years old and have been with my fiance for nearly 3 years. During the beginning of our relationship i found out he had a brother and sister. His sister had 1 child a boy aged 2 and his brother had a girlfriend already with a child of 10 years old. My partn... (328 words

More porn on his computer and it's getting me down

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, i have a bit of an issue, i am with a guy who is 3 yrs older than me, we've been going for 9 months, i stay at his flat on the weekends nd i use his laptop for internet access while im there, everytime i type an address in the address bar, it will come up with the history ... (193 words

Both married, and it cannot be. What happens to the feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age - Man meets woman at work.There is serious attraction on both sides. It cannot be. Both married, age difference, etc. The friendship is ended on good terms.Both look to their marriages. What happens to those feelings in time? Those of you who have been there please let u... (55 words

Why is my body failing to respond to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi all I am a 25 year old guy and i have always considered myself pretty horny and having a good healthy sexual appetite, I have just recently become involved with a good friend who i have known for about 5 years but its only in the last couple of months our circumstances ha... (311 words

Is he just playing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - well its sort of a long story, theres this guy who i was quite close to a while back, he's suddenly got back in touch 2 days ago texting me and stuff. general convo but askin if i still like him etc nd said that he "loves me, simple as"... but yesterday i heard nothing from him ... (137 words

I'm feel like I am living in a lie because I want to be with some one else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am very troubled. Everyday I pretend to be happy, I feel like I am living a lie. I've been with this man for 5 years and we have 2 kids together. I was 16 when I had my first child and 19 when I had my second. We only knew e/o for 3 months and then we found out we were ... (164 words

I've got her number (I think!)... Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - Last night while out with a couple of friends, I met a girl. I remember we seemed to get on quite well. I don't really remember what we were talking about, but we must have got on okay, because I eventually asked for her number. As far as I know she has given me it, but I've ... (150 words

Do you think he didnt reply to my invite because he doesn't like me like that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F - Theres this guy who I thought liked me alot. But now I'm not so sure. We both have a college class together, thats how I know him, and he has been helping me with alot of my work (he offered!!!). He is always making excuses to talk to me and see me, and always sits with me in ... (382 words

Can a 21 year old virgin could still have an hymen even though she masturbates ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering if a 21 year old virgin could still have an hymen even though she masturbates ? I noticed that there was a membrane cut in half covering the entrance of my vagina, I don't see a hole...could it be an hymen ? and can a guy know im a virgin because of that ... (61 words

I am somewhat confused because if there is a problem living together she might not want marriage or long term commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age - I have dated my girlfriend feor 11 years. I am 46 and she is 57. She has 3 adult children. Her 31 year old Daug currently lives with her with a 5 year old. She relocated from New York to Atlanta to help her Daug. I followed one year later and moved in with her. After 8 months ... (205 words

She dumped me because the timing is bad??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - Well i went out with this girl for four dates which went awsome. She kept saying how much she fancied me and liked me for two years, she works in my local gym.We arranged to go out again the following weekend and i asked her the next day when i seen her if we was still ok to go ... (287 words

How do I get my lost love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am a 16 year old girl ...i don't wanna lose my love...it seems like I'm losing everything... I have a very touching love story so anyone please help me... I'll be broken without him...from 2 years i loved this guy...he had someone before but that girl didn't love him..he told ... (196 words

Is he lusting after bigger girls? Am I too thin for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 110lbs 5'6 and very thin!!! I'm not anorexic/bulimic just born this way. I don't look sickly either. I've been dating a guy for three 1/2 months. I just saw some of his porn (he doesn't know! Yes! I was wrong for looking) and its mostly of bigger girls! As in 175lbs+ ... (153 words

Has he really got issues, or am I just trying to believe he has?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me a week ago. During the relationship he was controlling, extremely jealous and insecure... but I still don't know if he's normally like that or if it's actually because I made him that way. He's a bit mean with his family wheh he gets upset, but never to ... (544 words

I've tried everything, and so far failed, to get her to reach orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm hoping you can help! I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a few months now, and I've tried everything, and so far failed, to get her to reach orgasm. She's quite inexperienced, she's only had one sexual partner before me, with whom sex wasn't very ... (268 words

He got a new girlfriend but still told me that we could maybe go back out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and my ex boyfriend broke up because i was gonna do home schooling but tells me when i go back to my regular school where he is now he said we maybe have a chance of getting back together...after we broke up i had alot of his stuff he had given me when we were going out like ... (199 words

My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his bag for nearly 30 hours, alth... (842 words

Why won't he call me, we were so close, its been a month!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi I posted my scenario earlier. I recently met a guy about 3 months ago, and we started dating. We got extremely serious within a week, we started living together, eating together, sleeping together, going to school together, going to his friends house together, etc. About a ... (165 words

He's a millionaire but won't give me money for a deposit, how can I make him regret this?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old female who has been involved with a married man for 3 years. We have an okay relationship, I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, money was never the isssue ... (210 words

I have this teacher. I am 17, & he just turned 29..........

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have this teacher. I am 17, and he just turned 29. Anyway, the attention I began to receive were, in my opinion, just regular expressions of favoritism but then my friends are telling me otherwise. I will list them in order. He picks me too frequently over the other studen... (666 words

Is it normal being turned on by incest?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am easily turned on by incest!! watching it, not doing it!! is normal or weird?... (16 words

How can I know if this guy is interested and if he's gay or bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - I met this guy at my old workplace who I REALLY like. I can't stop thinking about him. The only problem is that I don't know if he's gay or bisexual, or even if he's interested in me. I've summed up what's been happening below: We first met when I was talking to my ex-mana... (320 words

My BF has anxiety and depression... how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Basically my boyfriend is suffering from anxiety and depression, I have been with him for nearly two years now and i love him, But things are starting to get to me. He blames all our relationship problems on me saying im the moody one, and i never listen etc. I cant talk to him ... (142 words

He doesn't answer my messages... should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - i havent seen my boyfriend in a week.he doesnt answer calls or texts or get bk to me when he says he will.is he cheating and should i get rid off him ?... (33 words

I think I'm being used.. how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

23 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm so confused. I have a friend that I was once intimately involved with, however that aspect of our realtionship ended months ago and we still continue to be online friends. We see each other on Messenger everyday but he rarely speaks to me. He only talks to me if he needs me ... (117 words

How can I tell her she's pretty without leting her know I like her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - If a girl says she looks bad in her picture what can I say positive to make her feel good without being corny or giving signs that I like her???... (30 words

Any ideas for asking her without making it obvious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

23 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - I think I like my friend. She used to be in my lessons 2yrs ago than we went different schools. We meet often randomly walking past. Recently. Think I like her. I don't know if she does. She smiles alot, laughs n likes my personality but she is a friendly person so I don't ... (102 words

Is my mind set affecting my probabilities of getting a gf?

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23 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - im 17 yet i cannot get a girlfriend even though i dont really understand why. i used to be really shy but in the past few months i've started to become less heldback but i dont interest girls which is why i've given up and plan to go through life alone. what makes me feel ... (186 words

First love feelings came back with his email... is this normal?

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23 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well i have a little problem. You know that first love you have when your younger and never forget well mine was when i was 15-16 we finished because he moved somewhere else with his parents and decided it wouldnt work... after we split up we had a hard time argued alot a... (325 words

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