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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He's all over me, what does all this attention mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I've know this guy in my 9th grade PE class, and I don't know whether he likes me or not, because everyday when we come to class he will come sit right by me and start talking to me. He's considered an annoying person to everyone because he has a missing front tooth, likes to b... (209 words)

I love my husband, but I've got my self involved with another man...a little too deep, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel completely trapped. I am 32, my husband is 38 and I have been married for 10 years now, and although my marriage is good and solid, it has survived many rough patches and there´s always been love and affection between me and my husband. I fell for another guy about a year... (611 words)

I'm in love with a teacher, and another teahcer is flirting with me. Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i feel i'm not alone anymore theres loads of people fancy's there teacher. well i'm also here so sai i do too but its really different!!!. its not jus one i love 1, i love 2!! soo anoyin but my first one was my form tutor! (charlie his name was) on my first day of year 7 (when ... (682 words)

I'm 14 and pregnant, my mum's single and disabled, please advise me what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 and i'm pregnant. The boy doesn't want me to have the baby he's only 16. My mom doesn't think i should either. My mom is a disabled single mom and we are having a hard time. She takes care of me and my 10 yr old sister by herself. Is it fair for me to want to have the ... (68 words)

How can I find out a guys email address that I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey i have been liking a guy since long now, and i am getting frustrated, and i want to take this to another level. I would like to know if there is any way i can get to know a guys email if i know his name. The university he studies, his state and country. Is there some sit... (67 words)

I've only stopped having feelings for men recently and I do not want to reveal my inclinations until I am sure, how do I go about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi there, im 19, and female. i have been having feelings for other girls for around 3 years now but ive only stopped having feelings for men recently. I just don't find them attractive anymore, but the female sex is intriging me. I don't know if this means i am becoming ... (201 words)

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. Everyone wants to be friends with ... (200 words)

Why would he take a condom with him if he didn't expect to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend went away to Seattle then to california to see his friend 2 weeks ago and he got back monday. When i went over last night i went to get the toothpaste out of his bag where he keeps all the toothpaste etc which he had taken with him, where i saw a condom. Why would ... (143 words)

Tests were negative but something is not right. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Help me Please Ive taken a total of 4 hpts two which were negative and two that were positive 1 urine test at the doc which was also negative I had sex in March a few weeks after I had sex I began to bleed after the bleeding stopped i took a test and that was negative I waited ... (156 words)

What should I do about this girl in church? I think she may have a boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - okay, iv'e met this really pretty cuban girl about 2 months ago while we were preaching. Her cousin and her kept whispering and looking at me and well im not sure but i think she likes me, but im stressing out cause i can't figure her out. In school,when we walk pass each ... (217 words)

Is he trying to make me feel that I'm not good enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - 16/f. i have self esteem issues..or had..they're pretty much gone now, ever since i got my first boyfriend. and now, i feel like i'm gonna lose him for some strange reason. here are some reasons why: -whenever he compliments me, i take them very humbly, with my head down..an... (242 words)

I love my children, but should I divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife of 14 years asked for a divorce. She is still in love with her first love. We have 2 children ages 10 and 13. After a year and long fights she wants me back and says she made a mistake and still loves me. This has happened twice before and let me tell you she has ... (181 words)

Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend- or have a crush on them? by the way i am a girl and my best friend is a girl. help!... (32 words)

I had unprotected sex. The test was negative but could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - Im under 16. i had unprotected sex around the 25th of March. its now may.. I Took the morning after pill the 2nd day after sex, i then had my period (In March) but in april i missed a period. Ive taken the pregnancy test and it said Not Pregnant. What Could Be Wrong? Please... (59 words)

Is my hubby having an affair with this woman on his myspace page?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some help I Have been with my hubby for 8 years and just got married last year. He has a myspace account and there was this girl leaving him message about how fine he was and she had him as her number on there and i asked him who this was he was like a friend i new for ... (589 words)

He wrote to his ex girlfriend. How can I trust him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not sure how to regain trust in my relationship? My fiance was writing to his ex girlfriend a couple months ago, he says she owed him 200 dollars, when I accidentally seen the letter he was wishing her a happy birthday and asking her why she was not online anymore,... (91 words)

I have become a cheater and I feel so guilty

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i have fell out with my bf of 3 years about 6 months ago and NEVER EVER cheated on him but since i fell out with him i hav slept with a few ppl and i have been with 2 different guys who have girlfriends and i know them!! i told no 1 but all my friends now know?? i dont know who ... (114 words)

Why is my friend so rude to me now he has a new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - ok so this guy who i used to talk to has a new girlfriend. now hes being mean to me. and would argue with me and then try and make up. I dont even contact him...he contacts me...I am really tired of it...he is not the same person that i knew before... (52 words)

The woman manager at my husband's work is being rude to me. Is there a real problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I called my husband's cell phone at a time when I knew he was on break to tell him a friend wanted to come over tonight and ask him what time he was getting off work. The manager of his shop where he works answered (a female) and she said "Brad's answering service" in a cond... (606 words)

Can someone please help me...Am I depressed??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I just really need some advice, i guess sometimes it's more helpful hearing advice from people i do not personally know. I'm not sure, but i think I am depressed. I know a doctor can only disgnose someone with depression, but how can one actually know when one is depresse... (310 words)

Should I just forget about the old and embrace the new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - okay so ive dated this guy for two years but we recently had a mutal brake up cause all we do is fight. i was madly in love with him but the brake up gave me a reality check. i do still care about him. but a month after we broke up i started dating a new guy who i realy like a ... (163 words)

My husband wants our marriage to work after both of us cheated but I feel numb due to the many problems!...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Maybe you can help me out. My husband was involved in many affairs in the past that I never knew about and was abusive. When he did tell me during a emotional breakdown I was already having, it threw me into a very messed up state of mind that I almost didn't survive from. I... (262 words)

He acts like he's mad at me and like he's my boyfriend or something but he is being so confusing, should I ignore him for a few days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I have this friend and we have been friends since 8th grade.Now in 9th grade we got closer and Me him and my best friend we are all like best friends. But to often he gets mad at me for no apparant reason I ask him like I always does and it's something stupid like you're ... (513 words)

Please help me, my wife wants a divorce, and I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - so my wife and i have been together for 5yrs maried for 4. i love her to death i know you shouldnt say that but i do recently she asked me what i thought if she were to tell me i wanted a divorce. i told her she was crazy that she needed help. we have been through soo much in ... (244 words)

I have been married for 2 years but have never stopped loving my son's father. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been married for almost 2 yrs now, but I have never really stop loving my sons father. We talk everyday I feel more connected to him than my husband. I have always felt very comfortable with him and to this day still can talk to him about any and everything, which is s... (187 words)

My girlfriend called me a freak! Will I ever have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - my penis is 10 inches long and when my girl saw it she left me and called me a freak will i ever have sex... (26 words)

His ex stirred up trouble, so I broke it off with him, but now I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I really don't know whatto o right now;; il start from te beginning. About 2 months ago I started dating this guy that i liked for a while, he was evrythig that you could have asked for. But.. one of his ex girlfriends starte giing him the idea that i have a boyfriend, an... (196 words)

Am I allowed to register to get married? I'm 20, and live in India...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hi am 20 years old boy staying in india(karnataka), i just wanted to know if i am allowed to register marry,for boys it is 21, but in my case if i dont marry her, her parents will get her married to someone else, so am helpless, before writing pls confirm and write, its very ... (59 words)

Should I wait for her to break up with her current boyfriend? She loves him but we have a history together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I dated a girl in college during my senior year for about 6 months. I ended it since I felt I needed to get out and have a crazy time during my last months in college and felt she would hold me back (she was underage). She didn't take it well, since I basically kicked her out ... (435 words)

I wrote the girl of my dreams a song. Is it okay that I give it to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I wrote the girl of my dreams a song and i plan on giving it to her today. I am really nervous that she is going to think its lame and think i am gay or something. She knows i am writing her one but she doesn't know it is about how great of a person she is. Do yall think it ... (84 words)

I feel horrible and ugly due to my ex cheating. How can I improve my self esteem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I know this will be silly- but it is how I feel right now! I found out that my ex-boyfriend cheated on me the whole time we were together. He cheated on all his previous girlfriends as well. I also found a mail he wrote to his friend two years ago stating how badly he wanted to ... (114 words)

Is it too soon for a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend just broke up with after 8 years, he was treating me like dirt towards the end when he felt like it. I got talking to this other guy and he seems nice. It is finished with me and my ex just 2 weeks, should i meet up with the other guy?... (54 words)

Is it wrong to kiss him at the party? I don't want to be seen as a slut!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi i am going to a party tonight, and one of my lad friends is going. we were talking of going out last week, but decided our feelings were not strong enough. Anyway, we have both agreed that if the moment is right, then we might kiss tonight, but there will bo nothing in it. i ... (119 words)

I'm 12 and I need help with feeling depressed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 55 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Heya Im 12 years old... I keep falling in and out of depression... I dont know why and i dont know what to do, ive even started self-harming... Does anyone know what to do to stop me feeling so down?... (46 words)

How do I let the past go and trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a pretty complicated situation and would love some input. Ill try to make it quick. My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other off and on for about 9 months. When i met him he had just filed for divorce and raising his 3 boys. He is a good christian guy. He is 10 yr... (1161 words)

He's older. I can't get him out of my head.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

- Hi Well i have a dilemma there's this guy and we always have a little flirt and there's a lot of chemistry between us when we talk. However it's a forbidden love thing, we're not allowed to be together and he's also considerably older than me, in 17. Im getting vibes th... (235 words)

I thought he liked me but now he avoids me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - well i really like a guy and ive heard he likes me too and he has ever since he met me, but i never gave him a chance before and now i like him but whenever i try to talk to him he doesnt want me to and his friends say that he doesnt want me to have his number or anything like ... (78 words)

My mum treats her boyfriend badly but he never does anything around the house

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Well the problem is not mine but it is a relationship problem. my mum has a new boyfriend and theyve been dating for almost a year but never seem to have a stable relationship, she is an alcoholic and treats him badly sometimes and causes him to walk out sometimes. it upsets m... (172 words)

I love my boyfriend but I've met someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) age 18-21 - well im really confused now coz ive got a boyfriend and been with him a year and most of that time hes been in prison and i love him 5 days ago i started a training course and i met some one else and he is really sweet and i could see myself with him and i want to know how he f... (120 words)

Is it okay to give your male teacher a hug and a kiss on the cheek as a way of saying thanks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hiya everybody so I was just wondering if it would be okay to give a male teacher a hug and a a kiss on the cheek. Our exam results would be coming out soon and if they are good me and my friends and classmates are going to thank all our teachers for their hard work and some... (132 words)

Was my husband only flirting with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband went up north got drunk and danced with all the ladies two weeks ago. This past weekend we were in the same bar and the 22 year old among those ladies was very unfriendly to me he had his arm around her and said something in to her ear and moments later she said to ... (110 words)

How can I convince him that we both need to get divorced and be together as one big family, and that he has just as much rights to his kids as she does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married ( for almost 11 years) to a man who I thought was my soulmate, but after about 3 years into our marriage he changed. He became lazy and as if he didn't care about me at all. He almost never initiates sex anymore, and we are only intimate about once a month. About 3 ... (184 words)

I'm VERY SAD, I'm 13 and I need help with love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - hey, here is my deal i broke up with my gf because i liked her but i love one of my best friends. so i broke up with my gf for my best friend. i told my best friend i love her and she sed she used to love me but i was to busy chasing other girls. she is currently dating s... (115 words)

I don't feel like a woman because I have a small chest!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 28 years old and am 4'10" and weigh about 95 lbs and my chest is rather small....is that a big deal for men? My husband says he doesn't care and that I'm perfect, but is he telling the truth? He's always told me that he is a "butt" man and I guess that could be true, ... (135 words)

Why am I attracted to older men? Is it because of the lack of a father figure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Does anyone have any thought as to why I'm always attracted to older men? My sister had suggested it was because of the lack of a father figure in my life, and my therapist seconded that. What do you think? Is that accurate, or could it be something else?... (49 words)

I am very inexperienced with sex and relationships, and was raped 6 years ago by a bf, now I've started dating a new guy...but I need some advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) age 22-25 - Hi I've never posted here before, and I kind of need some advice. I'm in my late 20's, and am going out on a third date with a guy I've known for a couple of months. We get along really well and really dig each other. The thing is, I know that in the next couple of weeks, ... (210 words)

Will he expect me to sleep with him? We've been sex texting and I sent him a raunchy picture of myself...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

2 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have been sex texting (quite explicit) a guy and sent him a raunchy picture of myself. He is taking me out for dinner next week. Do you think he will be expecting me to sleep with him as I've sent him these raunchy messages? I have already been ou with a few times before ... (62 words)

How do I trust my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - A few years ago I had a few things happen and it made me realise what a strong desire sex is for a man. They rape for it, they hurt for it. Its like they will do anything for it. I just got married to a really wonderful man but I am having troubles trusting him. If he is ou... (119 words)

We need to either sort it out and stay together or split, but what is he thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi i feel a bit weird doing this- have never done anything like this on line b4... i would like some independant advice as obviously friends/ family have their own agendas. sorry this is abit long; i have been with my partner for nearly 4 years. we have a 5month old, and i ha... (344 words)

My best friend's girlfriend likes me and I like her...can anyone shed some light on this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My best friends girlfriend and i like each other. My best friend has been seeing this girl for a bout 3 months. i only met her 2 months ago. when i met her she seemed nice and i was purely trying to get to know her as a friend with my friends when we went out. The pas... (335 words)

Does he mean it or is it sex talk?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok we have had sex three times the first time it was 1 min long. The next two times he put it on me! He lasted.....he's very shy but he tells me during sex that I have some good puss when guys say that do they really mean it. He always tells me how good I am.......does he mean ... (65 words)

How can one use somebody for sex and NOT feel guilty??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

- How do guys (or girls) who use someone for sex, sleep at night? I mean honestly I just dont understand how they can use someone for sex and not feel guilty at all. What makes them think its OK to use someone like that? What goes on in there mind? Even if they dont care about ... (76 words)

I am driving myself insane wondering if am I a fool to think he will not repeat his past as soon as we get into problems?!?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Really need some unbiased advice. Sorry this is long, feel you need enough information as possible. I can't stop worrying about whether or not my partner will cheat on me eventually. I am finding it so hard to trust him, but I can't break up with him cos I love him so much... (909 words)

My cousin's friend is awaiting for my answer to decide if he will travel to work overseas or stay here to love me!... What to do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - please can someone telll me what they think may be going on here. I met this guy who is a friend of my cousin. i thought he was really irritating to be honest although gorgeous but now i think i love him!!! Firstly we met and we didnt have much chat but there seemed to be som... (466 words)

I feel there are three people in this marrage: my husband, I, the wife and his ex girlfriend! Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for over a year now. my husband has become distant in our relationship. I recently found a bill with calls and texts to one number on a daily basis, ranging from one up to six times a day for the last 3 months. I confronted my husband about this and he told... (249 words)

I'm confused as to how she feels about me. Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm really confused as to where I stand with a girl I've met recently. I met her through some mutual friends, and over time we have become friends. I was immediately attracted to her, and we have always been able to talk pretty well. We are always pretty close when we talk,... (332 words)

My son was accused of attacking a family member, now my husband and I are having problems. Can you please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A year back one of my husband's sisters-in-law saaid in front of every one that my son try to attack her. She was telling lies to proove my son wrong in front of all the family members. She is a currupt person, but still all the family members believed her instead of my son. Af... (137 words)

Is he not interested, or is this a normal 'guy' thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello,, My boyfriend doesn't seem to remember much of what i say to him. I find i have to repeat things I've said before. Could this mean he's not interested in things i say? Or is this a normal guy thing? thanks.... (51 words)

Big family matters are creating problems between my husband and myself. Help me please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i have a big problem. We have a communication problem between us that's related to big family matters which cause bad fights between us. Because of this, my kids are suffering, it creates a weird atmpsphere sometimes. What should i do? My husband never ac... (70 words)

How Do I Play Hard To Get In a 6 month Relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Friends, please advise me on what I should do. I met a man 6 months ago and we fell deeply in love. Or at least I fell very hard for him and told him this right away, thanks to my vodka tonic. What I liked about him was that he is extremely introvert and shy, oppo... (446 words)

My friend is too involed with a guy who I know is no good. Help me convince her please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Stacy is my best friend. She started seeing a guy 9 months ago but i know from my personal experience that he is not a good boy. I know he will cheat on her because i know his past quite well. But even though i told her about it, she did not listen and trusts him only too much... (102 words)

How can ask out the girl who I love, but am not sure if she feels the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 but i've never been with a girl before, but over the years i have liked many girls but been too afraid to ask them out. Recently however, there has been someone who i liked and i have the impression they liked me, at the time she was going out with someone else but was ... (138 words)

Why was he masturbating over a steak and kidney pudding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I found my boyfriend masturbating over a steak and kidney pudding. As anyone else come across this odd behaviour.... (20 words)

I 19 and really, really ready to lose my "V" card but a little unsure how to make the moves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

2 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I am 19 yearl old and still a virgin,and my newest girlfriend isnt. i think that she wants to have sex with me but she knows im a virgin and its making things a little weird between us when we come close to having sex.. i dont know what i am supposed to do. will someone please ... (63 words)

He gets very secretive with his phone and his laptop, Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm living with my boyfrend. I suspect that he's cheating on me. He turns his phone off when we're at home together, or puts it on silent. He gets very secretive with his phone and his laptop, especially when he's checking his email, facebook, etc. When he does turn his phon... (80 words)

Why do I feel this way ,and miss and still love my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a tramatic and emotionally abusive relationship that i didnt realize until i was pregnant. A year and a half later i terminated the pregnancy mid February, and i thought from then on i also terminated him from my heart. See, i was with him when he had nothing, just a stru... (370 words)

Should you always persue a crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am really confused about this. I just don't know if one should always pursue a crush. I believe that since you only live once, you should most definitely go for it. The worst that can happen to you is he'll reject you. But at least then you won't wonder the rest of your life ... (145 words)

Will anyone want to date this 20 year old virgin?, I'm beginning to think not

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm nearly 21 years old and I've never been in a relationship with a guy. I've never even been kissed and it's getting thoroughly embarrassing. I feel like I'm missing out on key life experiences. I know 20 is still young, but the thing is I have no relationship prospects and I ... (199 words)

He was jealous of my past, now he's left me because of it, will he realize what he's lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) age 18-21 - He left me, again!!! I'm so angry and hurt!!!!! I don't even want to get back together with him anymore (OK, I do, but it's not a priority). He broke up with me because of his jealousy towards my past, because he got mad and insecure about every little detail, even if ... (266 words)

My husband has a list of "booty" websites, so...what exactly am I dealing with here?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a little over a year and found out my husband had made this list of "booty" websites he says some guys at work had shown him. I asked why he wrote this stuff down and he says he was just being stupid, being one of the guys and gave me a sincere ... (121 words)

I've had a life of violence and abuse and now my boyfriend cheated. I need help!!

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hya, i need all the help i can get i've had the hardest life with domestic violence n sexual abuse which left my emotions shattered. i am 16 and i had a long term bf which i truly loved he was the only this that has ever made me enjoy life...we split because he cheated with his... (137 words)

I feel rejected because my ex is with a younger woman. Is he self destructing?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello - two months ago I broke up with my 40 year old boyfriend but I hoped it would just be a separation. I haven't contacted him and was surprised that he hadn't contacted me but now I have found out that he is seeing a 26 year old girl. I am gutted! He has two children ... (168 words)

Is my girlfriend cheating or is she just selfish?

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2 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - So I've been dating a girl for more than a year, and we plan to live together soon. We live on different sides of the country and met when she was in town on a business trip, but manage to meet up quite frequently, often for several days at a time. We clicked right away, and ... (830 words)

Does my ex secretly still has feelings for me even though she has a boyfriend?

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2 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My ex girlfriend hasn't talked to me a whole lot since we broke up a few months ago, but agreed to stay friends, she found a new guy about 2 months ago and we still texted each other but very little. Starting 2 days ago she has texted me ALOT, and about little things, l... (121 words)

I had sex with him but I don't think he knows I like him, what do I do?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - A lot of guys that I am attracted to aren't really outgoing when it comes to talking to me- like for example, the boy that I'm crushing on (I know he likes me, and having sex with him proved it) won't come up to me and talk to me! I kind of have to always go up to him, and say ... (218 words)

What can we do to make it hurt less next time?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay, well yesterday i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 6 months, and well it really wasn't all what i thought it was going to be. We didn't really get that far into it because it hurt too much, so i told him to stop. He understood and he stopped, but we want to try agai... (88 words)

I'm dating her but I don't understand her!! How can I figure her out?

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2 May 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello. I've been seeing a girl for about 8 months now, and to be honest, I just don't feel like I know her very well at all. Maybe I'm just being obtuse but, there are things about her I don't understand/know how to deal with, and I'd REALLY appreciate it if someone here cou... (610 words)

Casper the friendly ghost! I scare women without wanting to.

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2 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I am very well educated, strong, hard-working, fairly wealthy and decent looking, in my 50's yet have been without sex or companionship for almost six months. I go to dances and other social events and try to connect and hookup, but I create no interest at all. Women ... (206 words)

I had oral sex with this guy I work with. I found out he has a fiance!!

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been working with this guy for a few months. When we first met we flirted quite often then it turned physical. We never slept together but had oral sex. I knew before that that he had a girlfriend. I should have never done anything with him then but now.. I know I'm ... (109 words)

I haven't seen him for a year but we email. Should I call him and what do I say?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been keeping in touch by email, but I want to call him and I'm pretty nervous, I call him the other day and I just was like chicken s**** and pretend being some else. I felt so bad I couldn't find the courage to talk to him, cuz I didn't know how he would react. I mean... (125 words)

Why won't my boyfriend introduce me to people?

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2 May 2008 (F) - My b/f frequently fails to introduce me to women we bump into, that he knows personally. This makes me feel like he's embarrassed to be with me or he's trying to play down the fact that we're involved. He says it's because some people aren't important enough for him to bother ... (257 words)

Was I having an orgasm?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Whenever my boyfriend was fingering and rubbing me my body started to twitch uncontrollably. Was I about to reach an orgasm?... (22 words)

Sometimes I wonder if I'm really in love, or if it's been so long I don't know how to do anything else!

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. There was talk of marriage after two, but we don't want to rush anything. We want to wait until our jobs are more stable, and he finishes college (in 1 year). So we are in a serious relationship. Lately I've started wonderin... (357 words)

He literally doesn't understand that any relationship takes time to develop and I feel he's rushing me and is turning me completely off...any advice?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I am really confused about this friendship I have with this guy and hope you can help me. We are both Latino, but he's 21 and I'm 23 and he's an illegal citizen. We go to the same church, but he only speaks spanish while I predominantly speak english and understand ... (258 words)

How do you flirt with a guy who's older than you?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm fifteen years old and this dude that i like this boy who's 18 years old. and i want to flirt with him but i don't know how. How do you flirt with a guy who's older than you and probably more mature than me????? i want to show him that i like him without freaking him out. ... (65 words)

I was so unhappy I thought I had no choice but to split up with him. Should I write him a letter explaining why?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I split up with my boyfriend of nearly a year on saturday. I did this because I felt we had been getting more and more distant. He would ignore me and seemed more interested in going to the pub than spending time with me. Just before we split up he explained that he has though ... (261 words)

Is honesty really the best thing?

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2 May 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - First things first, I'm not gay nor do I have anything against them. I have very a feminine outlook on things and I am sexist to my own gender. When I tell girls this, I get the feeling that they think I'm saying it just to make them attracted to me or I'm just gay. This hasn't ... (79 words)

Do you think he'll cheat? He has his cell phone off! I don't even know if it counts as cheating!

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2 May 2008 (F) age 18-21 - Me and my BF are kind of on a break... He went out of town and is returning on Saturday. Just before going away yesterday, we fought and he dumped me. I had seen him a few days before. he almost criend when he said he'd miss me. I gave him my library pass so he'd remember... (535 words)

Can there be any trust when both partners have cheated?

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2 May 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My girl friend and have been together for two years. I've never met someone like her she's sweet and caring. But she's 18yr.s old and I'm 21 I had little experience before her but I was her first kiss. I told her two things I could deal with high school drama and dishonesty. ... (654 words)

Anal sex question...any advice?

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2 May 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - This is pretty embarassing for me, but..., I want to have anal sex with my bf but I have hemhroids--is it possible to still have a good time? I've been waiting for them to go away but they've been around on and off for about 7 mo. I know, I should change my diet etc. but is i... (92 words)