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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi.This may sounds funny. I met a girl online which lives so far from here. We have been talking to each other online for few years.I fall in love with her. She does say she loves me. From talking online, we progressed to talking on phone for few months, showing each other photo.I am uncertain if that means we are couple but sometimes she seemed like cares about me so much.I never believe in long distance relationship yet I fall into the trap myself. It is not easy for me to go to her country and we have not meet in person. I trust her 100.1% because I feel that is the only way for this relationship to work.Recently, I started to suspect her. I felt there are things she hides from me. There is no use to ask her because if she lied or not, I can't tell.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): Vow, I wish I had good news for you; but unfortunately I think you need to "take stock" ; this is not a very healthy situation you are in; you have not meet in person and and this has been going on for a long time;
I suggest you either start making arrangements to meet and to really get to know each other (in person); you have a cyberrelationship; but that is it; nothing more;
If you cannot go to her; ask her to come to your country;
but unless you meet and then decide to have a relationship; I am afraid, you are wasting you life away;
If you cannot get together; I seriously suggest you "cool" off with this cyber relationship and get out there; find a real relationship in the real world; somebody that can be with you; hug you and hold you;
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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