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I don't regularly have washes and I'm worried about how I would smell to a boyfriend.

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Question - (25 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi. this is embarrasing. but i dont regually have washes. once every two months if im lucky. and im worried if i get a boyfriend my area down below wont smell too good. if i start washing now everyday will it smell good if he was ever to go down there? if i started washing properly now. this is a serious question _ x

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (25 July 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntWhat do you mean by wash? Do you mean cleaning the inside of your vagina?

Because if you only wash your body (the outside) 6 times a year, ewh!

But if you mean clean the inside of your vagina, that should NOT be done under normal circumstances. It is self-cleaning and washing it out upsets your body.

If it smells bad (just stick a finger inside and smell it) then you might have an infection. Just clean the outside when you shower. Leave the inside to take care of itself.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (25 July 2008):

I think she's talking about douching??? If so, not everyday. And probably never, it throws off your PH Balance and you can get infections.

If it's about taking a shower aka bathing yourself, you should pretty much do that everyday.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

Well the obvious answer is to take a shower. Perhaps NOW. And if you wash down there a lot, yes it will smell good. You should take a shower everyday. At least every other day. I honestly cannot figure out for the life of me why you wouldn't shower or take a bath more than every two months. One word: YUCK! There is no way I could go that long. I played Survivor and took a shower the first minute I walked in the door. Without a shower, any guy would either run like hell in the opposite direction or faint on the spot from the awful stench. Yes, taking a shower daily (for the first week in your situation, I would suggest two or three times daily) would without a shadow of a doubt make you smell better all over...not just your...well whatever you prefer to call it (vagina, hole, pussy, etc.) So, do not hesitate, grab your shampoo, your soap and get yourself in the shower. My suggestion is right now. Take about twenty or thirty minutes in there tonight and wash every square inch of your body real well. Enough said.

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A female reader, littlesuziepie  United States +, writes (25 July 2008):

littlesuziepie  agony auntHi. I have a question for you. Why don't you have a wash regularly? Everyday is best but at least once a week would be the longest you should go. Its just not healthy to not clean your self often. Especially if your are having your period.

Now to answer your question.

Yes. You will smell much better if you shower regularly. You can make yourself smell so good and fresh. The key is freshness. Soap and smelly shampoos help when attracting a man. They like that stuff.

If your man goes down there and you haven't showered in two months he will be sick. Even if you are a clean person and don't regularly smell you will down there after that long.

Please for your health take showers often. You will feel better about yourself knowing you smell good and are clean.

Good luck and enjoy a nice hot shower. I do it every morning when I wake up.

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A female reader, redsox07 United States +, writes (25 July 2008):

why don't you regularly shower? i think if you begin showering daily, or atleast every other day, you will be okay. Though when you start having sex I would think about showering daily.

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