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36-40,
*andada14
writes:hey ppl out there ive been in a relationship for a year and some months and i used to ask my gf if i was the best at sex she used to tell me yes and i was the first person to make her to cum alot and when having sex now i ask her again recently who was the best she eva had cause i could see it in her eyes and her face that she wasnt telling me the truth. i keep asking her that night and she gave in and told me it was another guy she had a long time ago now she says that i was the best when making love and alot of other things she says im the love of her life and she really likes me i know this but what she told me really hurts me inside like really bad i really love her but cant find myself making love with her anytime soon i neeeed HELP!!!!12345 -- Rate this Article Reply to this Question
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reader, dandada14 +, writes (26 July 2008):
dandada14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks but its not something that i always used to ask just the issue came up and i asked her once so the same thing i saw it wasnt the truth form her face and voice
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): I can understand that it hurts, but it can become really tiring if a guy constantly needs reassurance. She kept telling you that you were the best and you did not believe her, so she lost it!!!
You know what, so what if you were not the best! The reality is that she is with you now, and she prefers you above mr pornstar from the past, because guess what? Girls prefer sweet and comfortable love making over hard core straight to the point sex. So as difficult as it is, put this out of your mind, and continue being a passionate partner... Oh and stop asking annoying questions, especially if you are scared of honest answers!
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