A
female
age
16-17,
anonymous
writes:i am ready to have sex with this boy but he has asked if a would do it without a condom, i don't think i would but whats the chances of getting pregnant first time without a condom? and am a virgin just now btw
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reader, Tigger3165  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 use protection... i'm sure if you're asking, that you shouldn't even be willing to take any risk...
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male
reader, cupidguy +, writes (13 July 2008):
Sex the first time without protection equals 100 percent chance you'll get pregnant, unless your completely understanding of your period, knowing when it stops and starts, and other things a guy wouldn't know.Condom or no sex!
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reader, Secret Teller +, writes (12 July 2008):
 hun it sounds like you don't know much about sex anyway, and it takes only 1 time to get pregnant. use a condom and be smart about sex. safe sex is the best way to have sex. if you use a condom it can prevent pregnancy and STD.
best of luck!!
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reader, LazyGuy  + ♥, writes (12 July 2008):
 Frankly if you know so little about sex, you ain't ready for it.
You get pregnant when a sperm reaches an egg. Semen contains millions of sperms and you entire body is designed to help it on its way to the egg. So if you are ovulating and a sperm enters your vagina, the chances are there.
Of course, the changes of an STD are always there no matter what part of your period you are in.
You are a virgin, you are about to have sex for the first time and all he cares about is to have it without a condom and damn the consequences?
Gee, I wonder what he will do if you end up pregnant, probably set a new record for running away.
Use a condom and if he doesn't like that, he can go screw himself. You are the one running the risk, not him.
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female
reader, marieclaire  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 the risks are HUGE. do you really think it's worth it? he shouldn't even have asked.
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male
reader, Spirit_Of_Iona +, writes (12 July 2008):
 Depends on a number of factors, time in your cycle, whether he ejaculates in you your levels of fertility etc remember though that one drop of seminal fluid may contain millions of sperm and it only takes one sperm for fertilisation.
The other thing to guard against is the thought that somehow you can control the situation ie the don't worry I'll withdraw before I cum' because take it from experience you just won't care because all rational though goes out of the window once the 'urge to mate' kicks in
The risk of STI's is also great and it is not really worth risking your fertility just to pander to a whim. Also remember that if you were to let him have unprotected sex it would be you, not him, left worrying for a month or so about whether you're pregnant
The age old motto remains 'If you can't be good be careful'
So be a smart girl and take precautions to protect yourself
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female
reader, Smiles  + ♥, writes (12 July 2008):
 If you are ready to have sex; and ready to loose your virginity make sure you practise SAFE SEX;
Unprorected sex is a very HIGH RISK for UWANTED Pregnancy, BUT also for STD'S and AIDS.
Do not let anybody convince you to have sex without a CONDOM; take good care of your HEALTH and your FUTURE;
Having UNPROTECTED sex is like playing with FIRE; DONT'T do it!
Rather alwys be safe then have lots of regrets later.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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male
reader, Uncle_Phil +, writes (12 July 2008):
 Ask him if he's like to catch a veneral disease or other infection - and tell him you wouldn't.
As for the chances of getting pregnant - better than even I would think. Ever heard of Russian Roulette? That's what you'll be playing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): you're a fool if you do it without protection.
the chances of getting pregnant by having sex without a condom are something like 97.9%, it doesn't make a difference if its your first time or not.
USE PROTECTION!
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