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He flirts with me when we're alone, but he was very quiet when his friends were near. Does he not like me?

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Question - (12 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ouLee writes:

Ok, so i like this guy called Jamie. I've liked him for.. ages really. When i see him at work, he comes across strong and i can tell he likes me. Everyday, he flirts with me, jokes around a bit.. the things a guy would do if he liked you.

He hasn't asked me out though. He did have a girlfriend about a week ago but they separated.

I met up with my mates one day after work in his village and he happened to come down with his mates so i was pretty happy as this was the first time i'd seen him outside of work. We all hung out in this park and he was really quiet? I know you're all gonna be thinking he's nice on his own, idiot around friends but he weren't even like that. I did say to him 'so are you not even gonna speak to me' and he just stared at me in the eyes, not saying anything.

Kind of worried me really. Apparantly he kept looking at me when i was talking and stuff-says my mate.. and his mate knew who i was 'cause he said 'oh is this the one you're supposed to be seeing Jamie' (once he found out where i worked.)

I wasn't really listening and didn't look to see what his reaction was, but something is definitely wrong.

Does he not like me?

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A female reader, Secret Teller United States +, writes (13 July 2008):

Secret Teller agony auntdo you really want someone thats going to treat you badly. i think you deserve better.

best of luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008):

He may like you. But why would you want to be with someone who acts one way around his friends and another way when they're not around? That's a red flag - people who act so two-facedly are bad news. They lack spine - not the kind of guy worth dating.

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