I really love this girl, she has become distant, she says we will get back together, I am troubled about this, what do I do?

A male age 30-35, *lay73 writes:

okay here is the situation, were both 17, we have had a relationship for 4 months but we got really serious really quick, we had sex in 8 days, but only once though, everything was going great till about a month ago i had to go to a boot camp type thing for a week( i chose to go) when i got back her parents had taken everything away from her except me, and she almost moved in with me but we had a serious thing going on but in the past month she became really distant like no touching distant but i can understand that: she was raped at 12 her dad beat her(not anymore) and shw was in a very serious relationship like last year, we both had actually talked about marrige but in the future, and then after all the distanceing she as of last week wanted a break well she says she still loves me and promised me she does and promised that we would get back together, she said at first a few weeks now she doesn't know im still in love with her very very in love with her what should i do she hates me asking questions about this i dont have a clue please help

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