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*nloveoutofmind
writes:me and my girlfriend have been going out for 5 months. during that time she ignored me the second week we were going out she cheated on me she has lied to me about many thing and last of all she is very aloof and rarely thinks bout peoples feelings when she says stuff. i love her and i know that it might seem weird but i believe with all my heart that i will spend the rest of my life with her. there are many problems but it all starts with her not talking to me and me not opening up to her. like today she has not talked to me all day because her family made her mad and i feel that our relationship is being strained but how can i be optimistic and open up when such a small thing can get her mad and cause her not to talk to me? i have never cheated and have no intention of doing it but the way she acts makes me thing that she wants me to mess up i dont know what to do she wont let me talk to her. what do i do when the love of my life wont even give me the time of day
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): Please know that I am not making fun of your age...but this girl is the love of your childhood...Not the love of your life. The love of your life, respects you and talks to you when the rest of the world is pooping on them. You are the one they turn to. You sound like a very sweet young man....while she sounds very bratish. You deserver so much better Sweetie. Don't let her walk on you like you have the word "Welcome," written on your forehead.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (12 July 2008):
 The sad thing here is that she doesn't think you're the love of her life. It may hurt and I think you know it but you are denying this because you love her.
In truth, you deserve better. You deserve someone who isn't self centered or spoiled and that actually cares about you. This is a truth that will be hard for you to grasp and act on, but really you should act on it NOW. This relationship will lead you no further, even when you want it to be, because she really doesn't. She's immature and so self-centered that she is jeopardizing the relationship.
Get out of this relationship quickly, because the later you do it, the more hurt you will get. It's better to rip off the pain now and let it burn for a while than tear it little by little and make you suffer like you are now. Now, this decision is yours, and if you decide to suffer to see your hopes broken when she never changes, then let it be, but make it as a lesson for you in the future
I hope whatever decision you make will be right for you. Good luck
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reader, loria  +, writes (12 July 2008):
Sorry but she sounds like a spoiled brat Just think what shed be like if you got married and had kids WOW think long and hard and ask yourself if your in love with the dream or her and RUN good luck
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