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writes: I met a man over two years ago. I was still a student at university and he was a visiting filmmaker showing her film. I was a film student and was told a lot about him by a friend/professor of mine before meeting him. My professor thought we should meet because we had a lot in common on an artistic level. When I first saw him, it was not like meeting someone for the first time, more like recognizing a long lost friend...someone I felt I knew. I was worried immediately because of how strong me feelings were.He began to give his speech and then he saw me...same reaction. He did a triple look and got a big smile on his face. I was stunned.We couldn't be obvious about our feelings because of the setting we were in. We have exchanged emails here and there for the past 2 1/2 years. I still think about him all the time but never have told him how I felt nor has he indicated his feelings. Every email is friendly but formal and few and far between. I don't know how to forget about his guy. Do you think it is true love? Have you experienced something like this?
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (5 December 2008):
 Some people do believe in love at first sight. I think you have to know someone inside and out to love them completely. When you first see a person all you can judge on is your image of them (literally, what they look like) and the ideal you have of them in your mind. So it's hard to say.
If the two of you are near enough geographically that a relationship is feasible, I suggest you e-mail him and tell him of your feelings. It is not in your best interest to think constantly of this man if nothing can ever come of it. If you know where he stands then you can act accordingly (either get together with him, or move on.) Best of luck.
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