A
female
age
41-50,
*IERIN
writes:I have couple of fun questions on you GUYS !!!1. Why do guys loose intrest in kissing after couple of months of dating? It seems to me, that first you are all into it, beeing kissed and such, and than, you just loose intrested and its more like "Lets just get this over with, I wana go sleep"2. Why is it ok for men to have "many GF" (during their life) but if a woman has more than 5men in her life, she si all the sudden dirty slut?3. Why is it ok for you guys, to check out girls on the streets, but when we does it, its something wrong 'BAD BAD GIRL!' :)4. Why are you always soooo stubborn. You have to be always right, even when you are not just because you are guys!5. Why the heck do you always leave the toilet seat up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Have fun w my lil quiz :)
View related questions:
kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): And it was a fun quiz. You just took his advice the wrong way tis all.
You got lots of posts, it shows that a lot of people did see fun in it!
A
female
reader, LIERIN +, writes (14 July 2008):
LIERIN is verified as being by the original poster of the question Sorry than ... it was ment as a fun quiz, as posted, not as something thats bothering me !
...............................
A
female
reader, BigSis  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Gecko and Diovan's right Lierin, ease up on him, I too read it as they were the sort of things you were putting up with, with your other half.
Don't put Collaroy down, he's one of the good guys and I for one think he's got a great sense of humour, and I believe in him ~ AND he rooted for me when I put up my 'Article' about guys I've dated in the past, he came to my defence when I was bombarded with all sorts, {and I admit, I was almost reduced to tears}
BigSis
xXx
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): What the hell...
You gave no details about your background. You gave no details on what your motive behind asking the question. So he was doing what this website requires and giving advice.
I suggest you apologize. You totally took some advice, threw it in his face and empaled it and him on a weather vane...rather artistically. He was only trying to help.
...............................
A
male
reader, Collaroy  +, writes (14 July 2008):
 I think you are the one without a sense of humour my dear.
Don't ask the questions then.. how's that for some new advice.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): I must run to Collaroy's defence in this matter. He is a very fine man and he's very protective about women. He sees a lady worrying and he wants to protect and defend. That's just his nature and his wife is a lucky woman. I'm sure no offence was meant, he just a man, and a good one at that.
...............................
A
female
reader, LIERIN +, writes (14 July 2008):
LIERIN is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTO COLLAROY
Hahahahhahahaha ... lol ... u made me laugh
It was a fun quiz. This is usually what women talk about when they are all together so I put it up as few questions instead reading always some serious stuff like " He doesnt love me" ... " why am I pregnant ..." .. etc ....
The man I am with is awesome in every way ... so do not put him down! You have no idea what are you talking about ...
This only saiz that you are not a team player and that you have no sense of humor whatsoever!
This was a quiz! Not a serious problem coming out of my life!
Anyway
Have agood day
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): To start with, I'd like to apologize from myself and all the male gender from our species we call human, but I do have excuses...
1. Because we tend to feel that kissing is just a necessity to get to the good part! i.e. sex. However I haven't got to this point yet and can I just say I like kissing a lot.
2. Ermm I wouldn't say your a dirty slut. That tends to be said because we're uneasy. We show off how many we've had and as soon as you say something like that in return we're like "WHAAAAATTT!!!".
3. Because we know full well that the girls won't come after us but the guys will. We want to feel in control. We're in control if a girl does come up to us but we're not if another guy comes up to you. Just a control freak issue.
4. Because we men - sexist comment - are the dominant gender, the mroe powerful, stronger, taller and generally better gender. Because we have a stronger physical capability to you women we feel we are always right.
5. Because its easy for us to do that. We have to lift it up when we want to use it, so you have to lift it down. You can't have it both ways!!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): 1) No idea, no woman has ever even wanted to kiss me once.
2) If you mean just dating I have no problem with how many people a person has dated. It shouldn't matter. If you mean sex, I'm saving myself for marriage and I expect any woman I date to do the same. (Some will interpret that as an attack but it's not.)
3) "Checking out" can mean anything from a look to staring with Homer Simpson style drooling. No matter what sex you are looking if fine. But if you're with someone ogling others is disrespectful whether male of female.
4) No one likes to be wrong but women seem to always point out a man's mistakes in front of others. Men might accept being wrong more if women didn't involve an audience.
5) I always put both the seat and the cover down. I understand why most men don't though. More than half the time we go the the restroom it's to urinate so we have to have the seat up. When you want it down there is nothing preventing you from putting it down. You are not all demure little ladies who need big strong men to open doors, pull out chairs, and generally treat you like fragile dolls. You are women hear you...well I'd rather not hear what you do in the restroom but you get my point.
...............................
A
male
reader, oldfool +, writes (12 July 2008):
 1. Why do guys loose intrest in kissing after couple of months of dating?
Because kissing is a step on the way to seducing the girl to have sex. Once you've reached the ultimate goal, why go through all those arduous steps again. (Actually, I like to kiss, but girls always seem to want sex :( )
2. Why is it ok for men to have "many GF" (during their life) but if a woman has more than 5men in her life, she si all the sudden dirty slut?
Because, just like every woman is a "virgin" on her wedding night, even if it's her fifth marriage, every man expects his current girlfriend to be his and only his. Previous experience kind of gets in the way. I guess men are just insecure!
3. Why is it ok for you guys, to check out girls on the streets, but when we does it, its something wrong 'BAD BAD GIRL!' :)
Don't agree with this one. But it's probably related to insecurity again.
4. Why are you always soooo stubborn. You have to be always right, even when you are not just because you are guys!
Women are so much smarter on this one. By giving in to a man's need to "keep face", they end up getting what they want! So even when men feel that they're the winners in an argument, in fact they are losers big time. Any woman who panders to his foolish pride can actually take all the spoils.
5. Why the heck do you always leave the toilet seat up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Because we piss standing up. If we close the lid, it only makes more work next time.
...............................
A
male
reader, Collaroy +, writes (12 July 2008):
Hi,
I have a very simple answer for you.
Change the type of men you date. You are going out with insecure little boys who probably make themselves out to be rough tough blokes but are in reality nothing but.
I have never cared how many partners my own S.O has, in fact the more the merrier I say, it means she brought in a lot of experience into the relationship and I benifitted!
So drop these sad sacks you sit in judgement over you and don't like kissing. They are arseholes, change your radar mate, you are picking up the wrong blokes that's all.
good luck.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): Hi LIERIN, I want to play but I'm not a man.
1) Yep! why don't they like kissing. There are over 100 types of kisses in the Karma Sutra, but when you try to show them how fun it is to kiss, they always want to put their hand under your skirt and get on to the sex business. I've worked out that most guys don't have no patience and are greedy little things.
2) I've never come across this problem. But I have a rule, don't ask and don't tell. Men get touchy about this type of thing. I think they always got to be the first, thats why they go to the moon and love to climb big mountains even if it costs them their life.
3) Men look at other women because they like eye candy. To them women are like flowers, very beautifull to look at. They know we got more sense, they get angry when we look at other men, because they know we got the balls to dump their useless ass. They just look, but we make plans to leave them for somebody who treats us better. This is part of their guilt syndrome.
4) Stubbon. Yep, men are stubbon, and they also have hard heads. I've tried to knock sense into them with a large frying pan, but it dosen't work. They just get headaches and the stubboness returns. Stubboness can be melted with tears, they never know what to do with a woman's tears and it's funny to watch them try.
5)Toilet Seat Alert... I have no idea! This is a strange thing that all men do. I get so angry, that I remove the toilet seat and then they piss all over the floor.
Thanks for the quiz, sorry I'm not a man, but everything you say is true, well true for me at least.
...............................
A
male
reader, saltwater +, writes (12 July 2008):
 For the record I would just like to say that I disagree with all those statements...
...except the toilet seat bit ;)
...............................
|
