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*oftballplaya
writes:Hey everyone. Im so lost right now. i have nowhere else to turn to! Here is the story; recently I broke up with my ex because he got distant and I juss didnt trust him anymore. I found comments from other girls calling him babe n stuff on his myspace and a girl who he was talking to contacted me about how they were supposedly talking, on the 4th of july he told her he didnt want to talk to her anymore cuz he was talking to me and supposedly "fixing" our relationship. So he puts in his about me that he is dating me and he loves me. all that stuff so I get on and found comments from some girl so I was like done with him cuz he got distant also. Well I sent him the text that I was done and that hes an asshole and I know what he did. He never texted back so I had a friend text his phone (he dosent know my friends or their numbers, keep this in mind) Well he responded and my friend did not answer. This resulted in him flipping out on her for some wierd reason. Well last night Me, and all my best friends got called restricted by him. I was the only one that he wasnt mean to or who didnt recieve a message in voicemail from him. My friend sent me the voicemail she recieved and it was him, so after that I asked my friends and it was him. Now here is a funny thing I was the only girl he didnt ask for sex and I was the only one who he told "I love you" his other exes told me this. I dont understand all these wierd chain of events. Why do you think he is harassing my friends and not saying anything to me about it? Surely you would confront the person whom your mad at not their friends....What is he trying to accomplish by doing all this?
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (12 July 2008):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question idk how he got them thats the wierd part. im not his gf anymore cuz i ended it cuz he turned shady n stuff. got distant. I had one friend out of the 3 text him and that could be the only number he got. They didnt say anything to him so idk why he flipped out on them. in the voicemail he left my frien emily he called her an ugly hoe. my friend chelsea (the one who texted him) got wierd things said to her and so did my friend danielle. All chelsea said was "yo jon" and thats it, juss to see if he would text back was why she did it cuz when i ended it he never replied. He flipped. They didnt do anything so i dont see why hes doin this....
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reader, hello,you  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 Hi.
I think you should frankly talk to him.You should tell him what about you think. Otherwise,it will become more and more trouble, small problems will become bigger problems.
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reader, inloveoutofmind +, writes (12 July 2008):
well your friends should not have gotten into it it was between you and him so i think he is upset that your friends got involved. tell him that you got your friends involved and he will flip out on you
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reader, saddad  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 Sorry babe but I cant quite work out wots goin on here? U said that he didnt know any of your friends numbers but that he left them all voicemails and also "all my best friends got call restricted by him".
I think what has happened here is that your friends started all this by ringing HIM, how else did he get their numbers??
I would be well annoyed if my gf's friends were ringin me and buttin in about our relationship. You dont give any details about wot he said in voicemails, my guess is that he got annoyed wit them tryin to ring him just.
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