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reader, a husband  +, writes (8 April 2008):
Any time you allow yourself sexual pleasure form sources other than your wife, than you are stealing what belongs to her AND you. Cheating? Yes. Cheating on your wife and cheating yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Maybe not cheating, but do you have NO morals what so ever?!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Yikes buddy! You had better have a really safe hiding place for those pics and make sure the door's locked while you are pulling your pud. Your wife will definitely see it as the ultimate betrayal even if you haven't actually had contact with the sisters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): Oh boy just the thought would be a complete turn off mate, sisters will always be that..But a husband that jacks of to his wifes sister whooooooo! Straight outta love thats would be 4 me GONE!!!!! sure thing...Find a mag mate!!!!!!!
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reader, sealmire +, writes (5 April 2008):
 hahahahahaha oh man thats great. as far as i know as long as there is no sexual or otherwise contact whatsoever between the sisters then no i say its not.
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reader, Ziggy Z +, writes (5 April 2008):
You are joking, right?
If you have to ask a question like this, then you already know the answer.
What you are doing is immature, disrespectful and worrying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): No it's not cheating.....but disrespectful maybe. you don't want her catching you masturbating over pictures of her sister or anyone other than her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): Actually you kind of are. I mean porn yeah OK you could get off with that one - depending on your wife - but even kissing someone is considered cheating.
So yeah quit the unnecessary cruel habit. Find something else or do it to you wife. Stop getting turned on by the secrecy.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Cheating? Well, you get off on a technicality. No, you're not having actual SEX with anybody. However, let's try to consider how your poor wife will feel when she walks in and busts you jacking off to a snapshot of her siblings... she's not going to be very happy now, is she?
So, find a picture of Jessica Alba or something and quit playing with fire. If you were MY man, I would feel truly, truly betrayed by your actions.
xx India
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 cheating - no. but pervy, cruel and just plain weird - yeah. why are you doing this? are you not attracted to your wife anymore? you need to think about why you are doing this and why you arent masturbating over pics of YOUR wife - not her family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): or 'Bashing the Bishop' and other similar phrases.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): No - it's called 'Wanking'
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 and they say romance is dead.
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reader, BeatIt +, writes (4 April 2008):
I wouldn't say it as cheating.
Could it be that they look like your wife?
Also. Maybe its just the thought that you can mentally experiment.
Without it actually happening?
Whatever it is, it isn't cheating unless you have sexual contact with your wifes sisters.
Much Love, BeatIt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Cheating? Perhaps not. Disrespectful, utterly inappropriate and just plain gross? You betcha.
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