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anonymous
writes:I really don’t know what to do….. recently (in the past week) I had ‘relations’ with my boss…. Today, I got promoted to his ‘personal assistant’, and that means that I’m in his office 24/7, running errands for him and in contact at all times… hes a genuine guy, and is not in a relationship. Does this mean that he wants more?? Or was it a sympathy act??
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reader, brow  +, writes (4 April 2008):
Baby he wants more. I would start looking for a new job, get a great reference out of him, and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): He is a sneaky little thing. What do you think he wants? I'm sure he'd rather have a blow job than a coffee love.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Yes it was a sympathy act, sympathy for his johnson. You best be very careful because if he tires of you, you may be looking for a new job. Office romances are full of pitfalls. Beware.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): You're a smart girl.....NOT! What do you think he wants?Little girl, you got promoted so it will be easier for him to be able to get what he wants without further scrutiny.As his personal assistance, it would not be unusual for the two of you to be behind closed doors on a regular basisWhen he wants some head or ass at 11:30 am, you're already there and he can get it. If at 4:30 he wants a strip teasehe can get it from you. I'm sure you will benefit more in this manner, because he will obviously shower you with 'perks', but it is not rocket science on why you were promoted.
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (4 April 2008):
It could be unrelated, however having a relationship however short with your boss or an employee is not a good idea and can lead to all sorts of complications.
If I were you I would have a conversation with him to try and find out if your promotion was related in any way to your previous involvement together. If it was, then you should probably consider changing jobs and if you are still interested in him continuing your personal relationship after you no longer work for him.
The absolute last thing you want is a reputation for getting ahead by using sex and people will not stop to think who started anything or any other factors that might have influenced things. They will not even consider that you might be suited to each other and will just get the gossip mills rolling to your and his detriment. Unfortunately that is the way many people are.
First though you really need to find out for yourself if the two events are related in any way. Then consider everything else and decide what you should do next.
Good luck.
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