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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for around 7 months. We have yet to have sex, but we mess around with hand jobs, oral sex, etc. I had to move in with a new guardian recently, and she is much stricter on how late I stay out, where I am, etc.With my boyfriend having a job 5 days of the week, my guardian controlling my schedule, and mounds of homework for us both, we barely have any time to so much as kissing or snuggling. It's putting sexual frusteration on us both and making us irritable to each other and others.Does anyone have any advice on how to go about getting some alone time together every now and again? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): This is the writer of the question...
Lol, I didn't mean that we were attempting to get alone enough to have sex; I meant that we just never have time to so much as fool around like we used to.
Sorry if my question was misleading.
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (22 September 2007):
 its difficult but not impossible.
maybe plan things, like days on the weekend together, do homework together, or speak to your guardian, although strict i'm sure she might understand you wanting to spend time with this guy, though don't tell her why, adults get freaked out about teenagers having sex even though they know it happens!
somehow when it's right, it'ss find a way of happening.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): Is there anyway you could go away on holiday with him? perhaps not even far but somewhere you two could spend a few days alone...would your guardian allow that?
Also just make sure you really are ready to have sex, and not that you feel you have to...take your time, why not?!theres no need to rush, i know a lot of people would say 7 months is long enough,but its different for everyone.
Good luck x
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