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female
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30-35,
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writes:Hey.im going to my homecoming dance today.so this is pretty urgent..Uhm, first off,it is lame not to party after the dance?i'm usually tired after that...and my friend "can't" have a sleepover or anything.i hate that i'm not "part" of ANY group, i get along with EVERYBODY...so everyone else just thinks im going with the other one. it sucks.so i hope its not lame.also, i want to ask a guy to dance tonight? how do i, without sounded toooo desperate or inexperienced? i'm stuck on this. Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn +, writes (24 September 2007):
 "would you care to dance"
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reader, Jamara +, writes (24 September 2007):
It may sound very hard to ask a guy out, but just be casual and friendly. Ask him if he's going to the dance, with anyone. Say something like this, " Hey, since Homecoming's tonight, if you aren't attached or anything, wanna come with me? Just as friends? I think it would be cool". Ask a guy friend or pal.
No, it's not lame to not want to party after a dance. Dances are tiring, after all. I've never wanted to party after a dance. Just politely say you're tired, and feel like heading home.
Being not part of a group isn't that bad, it's better not to be in a group! You've got more independence, and can be yourself.
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A
female
reader, Jamara +, writes (24 September 2007):
It may sound very hard to ask a guy out, but just be casual and friendly. Ask him if he's going to the dance, with anyone. Say something like this, " Hey, since Homecoming's tonight, if you aren't attached or anything, wanna come with me? Just as friends? I think it would be cool". Ask a guy friend or pal.
No, it's not lame to not want to party after a dance. Dances are tiring, after all. I've never wanted to party after a dance. Just politely say you're tired, and feel like heading home.
Being not part of a group isn't that bad, it's better not to be in a group! You've got more independence, and can be yourself.
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