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How do I approach this girl?

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Question - (22 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *amuel1 writes:

This is a follow-up to a question I posted earlier this month. The girl I have fancied for a year still

has a boyfriend, but I've now realised that I LOVE HER. I'm dertermined to chat her up and tell her my feelings but when I see her, I lose my bottle. Once

I've sat down with her I'll be fine because I'm a very good conversationalist.

How can I force myself to approach her?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007):

How can you "love" someone you don't know all that well. I think you have become infatuated and obsessed with this girl and you are in danger of making a complete fool of yourself by declaring your "love". Please leave well alone unless you are sure she has split up with her boyfriend.

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A female reader, Emaz help United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2007):

Emaz help agony auntShe has a boyfriend!!

If you told her how you felt it could even make things worse for you and her as im sure that after having a boyfriend for a long time, she's not going to break up with him just because you like her too. Love is a pretty strong word though, are you sure?

Ok, im in a simlier situation myself. I've been 'in love' with a boy for over a year now, but i know nothing would ever happen because he's told me, so i'm not going to do anything about it.

Personaaly i wouldn't approach her, only because she has a bf.

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