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I fell in love with the boy my friend had a one night stand with, and she says she loves him. What should I do?

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Question - (22 September 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *S writes:

My best friend lost her virginity in a 1 night stand after telling the boy she was'nt a virgin and has never tried to contact him since, i met him a few weeks later and fell in love with him and now shes saying she has feelings for him. what should i do?

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A female reader, carchick United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2007):

carchick agony aunti think u should tell her u feel in love with him nd tell her that it is not worth ur friendship xx if u more advice contact me

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (22 September 2007):

rcn agony auntRemember friends are forever, boys come and go. Don't let a boy come in between your friendship. That is too important. I don't know how much you read the questions on here. Someone asked a question in regards to not being able to forgive their friend still, after they dated their ex seven years before that.

In this situation, you date him, fine (she's jealous) she dates him, fine, (your jealous). What starts to happen to your relationship if you have one person jealous. It begins to fizzle out. The one who's jealous is going to avoid being in contact with the happy couple, to protect their feelings.

This would be asking for trouble, and if you value your friendship, both of you need to find boys that the other one isn't attracted to as well.

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A female reader, rose the relationship solver United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2007):

rose the relationship solver agony auntIf your friend knows your in love with this lad then of course she will say somthing. If this lad likes you as well as you like him you may just hit it off, just beware of the jelous friend of yours.

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A female reader, L.O.S.E.R. Serbia +, writes (22 September 2007):

L.O.S.E.R. agony auntBACK OFF.She's your best FRIEND and I can't understand how can you even have a dilemma about it.

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