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writes:I want to be really dirty and do dirty things during sex w/ my husband but we're both too shy. When we first started sleeping together I was drunk, and I had him talk dirty to me, and I let loose. Now I am pregnant (again) so I feel really boring. We don't even kiss or do any kind of foreplay. We just have sex and it lasts 2 minutes. A couple months ago before I was pregnant again, we came home from a party and I must have still been drunk because I was being so dirty with him and I made him cum 7 times in like 2 hours. I want to do these kinds of things again. I even have dreams about it and I tell him about the dream and he doesn't really respond much so I feel like he's not into it. What should I do? Oh by the way, I had a babysitter the night we went to a party, my sister was happily watching my baby and I am a responsible mom. So don't even try it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): get a baby sitter again, and get him alone and start giving him some blojobs try deepthroating a banna at first, learn the art of givin head im sure hed love it.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (23 September 2007):
 Sometimes it is necessary to bite the bullet so to speak and talk to him about it. I know sometimes it is difficult to talk about together but hey, you already swap body fluids together. What is more intimate than that. I am supplying a link to an article that might help point you in the right direction. I do hope it helps. Doc
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/19589009/
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (23 September 2007):
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Well .. I am shy person too ... but in bed ? FORGET IT ... I am crazy ...
You should put up a show for your husband. Its so much fun. First you will feel little wierd .. especially before you walk in the room where he is .. dressed up in a nice corset tigh-hights ... or dress up as a naughty school girl ... do a little dance for him ... just be yourself ... but SEXY ... its so much fun .. and trust me .. he will LOVE IT and he probably will cum 8 times before he even touches you ...
Just let things go .. don't be serious .. especially when you have sex! Sex is a game - let it be fun!
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reader, rcn +, writes (22 September 2007):
 All I can offer is just do it. Get the sitter again, you plan the night. He just has to show up to the date. It only takes a bit of initiating. Be creative, give him an invitation to your party. Don't tell him what to expect, by giving hints but not giving it away like stating "I get HOT just thinking about what I'm going to do to you." That way he knows somethings going to be going on, and I'll tell you at work that day, He will have great difficulty concentrating.
I hope this helps a bit. In order to get out of a routing it has to be broken. He might just have soooooooooo much fun with you that night, he may choose to plan the next one. (at least that's the outcome you're hoping for.)
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