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I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend and all I do is nag at him all the time. What should I do?

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26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend and all I do is nag at him all the time. What should I do?... (22 words

How can I make friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 16-17 - Hello. I have a problem, I'm not the most attractive guy, and I can't get in touch with other people, guy or girl, so I'm getting pretty lonely, I never had a girlfriend because I already had to many failures and disappointments in my life, so I rather not begin a relation... (78 words


   

I still have feelings for my husband who I'm seperated from, how can I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi there i am new to this my question is how do i get over my husband. we have been together for 19 years and have 2 girls. We seperated last september and he has been seeing someone for the past 8-10 weeks. He has caused problems during our seperation due to him taking drugs ... (167 words

Any ideas on what to get my girlfriend of 6 months for her birthday?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - Hey .. im just asking .. what should i get my girlfriend of 6 months for ther birthday .. i want to gfet her somthing nice .. and i need some ideas .. thank you .. very much... (39 words

My boyfriend says there's no problem but he never orgasms during sex

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26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid, i have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 mths now. and each time we make love he never has an orgasm. he does enjoy the sex and he always has an erection when are making love. i am worried is this normal not to have an orgasm?.. i have asked him severall... (65 words

   

My husband doesn't care for sex much and when we do make love, he finishes too fast and gets annoyed at himself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - my husband and i have been married for 5 years,and he says he loves me but he don't care for sex too much is there a problem with that? and also when we have sex he cums to quick then he gets mad because he can't give me what i want. please help!... (53 words

I really like him but he doesn't seem interested in me that way; could the age gap be the reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I have a huge crush on a male friend that I met a few weeks ago. We have spent quite a bit of time hanging out together and we have great conversations, but it's never really flirty. He shows a lot of interested in me as a person, but never in the context of physical ... (123 words

Are girls only interested in a man with money?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 22-25 - are there people out who find it as hard as i do to understand what ladies really want? coz it seems very clear to me that all that girls consider in relationships is money.. unfortunately i dont seem to be that lucky coz am still a university student without who has failed to ... (68 words

Worried I might be pregnant and people will think I'm a slut

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - please help me ive had sex about 3 weeks ago it really scared me as im really young but i wanted to do it, he has been with me much more then 6 months hes really good to me but ive got scared when we was in the middle of it he goes 'is it still on' as there was cum but i realis... (182 words

If his semen comes out of me after sex, is my chance of conceiving reduced?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i have been sexually active for a year with my partner,as it is both our first times we are unsure if the semen is supposed to come back out of my vagina after intercourse?it appears to be all of his semen and we are trying for a baby at the moment,is this reducing our chances?... (55 words

I've been hurt so many times, I'm having trouble trusting my new beau

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm scared! i've been single for 4.5 years now, I've had flings and dates etc nothing more than a few weeks. My last boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me and got the other girl pregnant. I took it very badly at the time the break up was slow and prolonged (8 months)and I'm ... (219 words

My 15 year son, says I am way too over-protective! Any advice from other parents of teenagers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F - I have 3 kids. They 28, 26 and 15. The older two have their own lives, jobs and homes. My concrn is with my 15 year old who still lives at home and in high school. He's a great kid, honor roll student, polite, very respectful to others. Generally a well-balanced good guy. We ... (211 words

Am I allergic to this dandelion tea, I have been drinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi, just wondering if any of you have been through this and can help before i visit my G.P. About 2 months ago I drank dandelion tea everyday for a week because I was sick of my body retaining water. I got no result and so stopped, until 2 days ago when I started again, but ... (122 words

I'm embarassed that my boyfriend is a year younger than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i really like the guy i am involved with i have a great time with him and i love him but he's a year yonger and i don't know why i just fell inmbaressed so i won't tell my friends and i don't know if i really like him cuz i feel imbareassed to tell my friends and it's just ... (69 words

I'm married-he's married. I am having his baby..should I allow him in the baby's life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm married, he's married, and now i'm having his baby should I allow him to be in his baby's life? We met at work and I thing lead to another that we starting seeing each other and having a sexaul relationship in May of 2006 We are both married i have a two older step-kids ... (178 words

Did I blow it on our holiday together? Now that I'm home, I miss him so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi I was seeing a man briefly (5 dates over 3 weeks) In February. We got along very well. He was about to go off travelling for six months when I met him. I suggested That I join him at some point along the way, The thought of six months before seeing him again was horrible. He ... (254 words

Because of her past, i'm insecure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - I've been seeing a girl for 2 years now and my friends found out that she dated a guy in our year at school (he was a bit of a loner at school) and they made fun of me.... I don't like to think of her and him, especialy as she says they didn't have sex but i was talking ... (281 words

He had me drop him off a block from his jobsite --is he embarrassed to be seen with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - Is he embarassed by me? I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks now, we aren't exclusive and really just mess around. He calls me while he is at the bar, but never invites me out. That I can understand we don't have to be around each other all the time. But the other ... (136 words

Tips please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - rite im going out with this boy n i hv snogged him but i havent got off with any 1 .. im 14 n i need help n i want 2 no does any 1 have like any tips or anything 2 help me please thanks prinstion girl xxx... (53 words

Is it just because i'm working to hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - I'm 23, female, and in a commited relationship for about 4 yrs now. My boyfriend and I have lived together for about the last 2yrs. I really love him alot, and believe that he will someday be my husband (which I kind of wish was sooner then later) My problem is that I have ... (276 words

I'm having feelings for someone else and i don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hi, I'll try and keep this as brief as possible, but I would sincerely appreciate any advice anyone could offer. I am 24 years old and have been in a relationship with an absolutely wonderful guy for 5 years. He is the type of person you would describe as a 'catch', ver... (416 words

Conversation's through text.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - ok..my friends and i went to a show where two bands we knew were playing along with 4 other bands. The second band was amazing and they were from miss. and im from ga. well, i glace up at the band as i walk in the room and instantly turned on by one of the band members. af... (193 words

Why does he keep the pictures of his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - So I ran across some pictures of my current fiancee's ex-girlfriend. She cheated on him, broke his heart -- you know the story. The breakup was big. These pictures were, how do I say, 'clothing optional'. We've been together for quite some time and she's been out of the pict... (240 words

I have developed a need to be with my husband all the time. I miss him even when he goes to work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok some of you may think this isn't a problem but really it is. I'm missing my husband even when i'm just at work and its getting worse and worse. It all started when i went on a school trip to this activites place which was for 5 days(i'm a teacher by the way) i normally go ... (415 words

How long before my feelings for him wear off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F - Just been dumped. Okay it was like 2 almost 3 weeks ago. But i still love him which i hate. I see him everyday coz my mates are his mates and so we're out together everyday. It breaks my heart, bcoz i love him still so much and its taking me so long to get over him. Help - Do... (96 words

My ex is being mistreated and I dont know how to help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend from 3 years ago has been dating a bi sexual girl for a year and a half. Hes 27, shes 36. He is completely smitten with her and admits he always wants to be like her. Anyway numerous times she has cheated on him with other guys, has picture messages on her ... (288 words

Should i teach my friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 16-17 - I have a friend that i like. He is 12 and i am 16. is it ok to teach him how to have sex and give blowjobs and have sex and how to make out and how to drink pee and other stuff? Also, I have not gone through puberty yet. Should i be worried?... (61 words

I want to still be friends, but i don't know how to approach it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi all, so I have broken up with my boyfriend for just about 2-3 weeks. Although I still miss him at times and or wish maybe we did something different, I am trying to move on. However, we both kind of hang around the same group of friends so we have seen each other I beli... (196 words

What are the chances that i will bleed the first time we have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - Hey, me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex. I wanted to know how much of a chance there is that I will bleed? I've never had sex or done anything sexual with anyone else before. I've heard that the hymen can be broken by exercise... well I'm quite a sporty girl. I ... (90 words

I was not old enough to be looking at porn.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 10-12 - Hi, at one time i looked at porn not out of pervertness but out of curiousity of the girls body and i felt guilty every time. I had started an addiction to it and broke it and then about a month ago i found out about having to be 18 and its done past now and im wandering ther... (97 words

I can't seem to orgasm anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hey For the last couple of months no matter what my boyfriend does and how long he does it for I just can't seem to orgasm!! I really enjoy it when he gives me oral and for ages he used to be able to satisfy me in every way but at the moment I just can't seem to get there! w... (95 words

I feel this amazing attraction to this guy, like a lightning bolt

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 33 and attached. I recently met a man who is also attached. It was clear we were very strongy attracted to each other immediately, but being "attached" we kept a certain amount of distance between each other. Then one night we happened to be both at the same party. ... (243 words

I want this guy but the girl he likes...is in the way! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - lets just say this guy.. well where suppose to be best friends.. but he has a twin.. and i dont know if i like tehe twin we talk and talk and i get the feeling he likes but but then he mentions sex and that he wants me. and then my mind thinks in the sexual way. you know?! i ... (145 words

What is wrong with me?, all i want is to find true love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - Will i ever find true love?! What is wrong with me?, i'm begening to feel as if i'm not physically atractive..but i have a nice personality and when it comes to love i give it all my best.. but what is wrong with me?! is it because i become to attached with my ex's? beca... (83 words

My daughter was seduced by her female college professor

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - My 18 year old daughter has been seduced by a 33 year od female member of staff at her college. My daughter denied that anything had gone on between them until she was 18. I do not believe this is true. The college sacked the member of staff but the police could not do anything ... (138 words

I seem to like the pain.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - Can't get over my ex?! It's been exactly 7 or 8 months since the break up but it seems like yesterday. I keep his emails and the letters he wrote, i re-read them and listen 2 sad music, i keep telling myself that it's wrong that i'm just hurting my self.. but i almost kind ... (209 words

He always makes me smile and laugh.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - The other day i was with my friends cousin.. i dont know if i like him, help me?! I don't know if this is considered flirting, he asks me stuff and he's always making me smile and laugh. Yesterday he called me cute because of the way my hair was, and we talk on myspace about... (101 words

She never emailed me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 10-12 - hi last year i met a girl that was really nice, attractive, funny and everything! i really like her and we were very close friends. when the summer break came i wouldnt be seeing her for all summer, so i gave her my email out of like a sign that i like her and just so we can ... (98 words

I like a girl in my bowling league

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 10-12 - hi im 11 and i know a girl that i really like in my bowling leag. we are already close friends. im wandering is there anyway to tell her i like her without destroying the friendship if she doesnt like me as a boyfriend girl friend type of way? i'd like to get advice from girls ... (84 words

We are going to go to therapy, but I worry it could be a landmine

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

26 July 2007 (F - I confronted my boy yesterday on some major issues. Surprisingly, he agreed to go to a couples counselor/therapist with me soon. However, one of my married friends said that spelled disaster for her, because anything at all half-way critical she said, her husband rememb... (382 words

Its been 4 months since I had my period.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - I'm 16, about to turn 17 in a month, and I've had my period since I was 13. The last time I had it was about 4 months ago. I'm a virgin, but I've done oral on only one guy and gotten oral from 2, and both of their penises almost went in me. Not at the same time!! But I kno... (96 words

My boyfriend broke up with me, but I think he still loves me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend has ended it with me we split 5 weeks ago. he said he needed space and he couldnt give me what i wanted. he said i put to much pressure on him and to be honest i did at times. i asked him to marry me, but i later said i was sorry. ive been texting him and went to ... (122 words

I love my husband but not the sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi i am a 32 year old woman married for 12 year to the only man i have ever been with we have 2 children. All my friends fancy him and probably think we have a excellent sex life but the truth is i think its not. I went out with some friends a couple of months ago we all were... (218 words

My boyfriend tells me to shut up, that only his opinion counts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend usually treats me very good, but I feel I am a possession instead of a partner, what can I do? Most times he treats me great but there are times when we are out or something and he gets done with his food or drink and expects me to hurry up and be done too. I a... (211 words

I like a boy in my class

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26 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - There's a boy in my class and i really like him but i just say to friends that he is a close friend. he gives me eye contact and always trying to start a coversation with me. but out of class he treats me as if i was invisible and hugs other girls and i have a friend that went ... (107 words

When is the right time to bring the word 'Love' into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - So, I've been going out with this girl for about a month now, but we talked a month before we started actually officialy dating and everything so we felt like we weren't rushing into things. We both have the same views on a lot of things even down to the nitty gritty it seems ... (115 words

His excuse was, he was drunk.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - I'm having a realtionship for 10 months(committed), and recently my boyfriend admitted that he cheated on me twice, and both the times he was very drunk, he said he was really sorry and asking me for a second chance?? i do love him alot.. but i dont know what to do?? help??... (52 words

When you have to pee why do you get an erection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 36-40 - when you have to urinate why does your penis get hard... (11 words

Should i ask her about her past sexual experiences?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 22-25 - I started dating this girl about 5 weeks ago. We just met this summer and we started dating about a month after we met. The relationship has been great so far and she's the first girl I have ever loved and she says I am the first guy she has loved too. We have been having s... (294 words

I slept with my boyfriends best friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi There About 6 months ago i went to a party with my bf and my boyfriends best friend, after my boyfriend fell to sleep i started talking to his best friend and he told me that he had always liked me and we ended up kissing. Then about a week later we ended up sleeping tog... (131 words

We're only second cousins.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - Wen my cousin came back from a year away i started having feelings for him but didn't know how he felt back. We had always been really close and always messed around like kids do. One day i went round to see my family and when we were close to each other he started touchin me..... (217 words

I like my best friends cousin...what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - AHH. I like this guy but the problem is hes 21.. and im 16 i dont know what to do.. hes always making me laugh.. and we're always flirting...today during quince practice he told me i looked cute since my hair was braided into pig tails and i dont know what to do.. His cous... (76 words

Should I send my ex a birthday card?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - I split up with my boyfriend 15 months ago. He was the love of my life. We slept together twice after we broke up. He then met someone else in Jan and she moved into his house for four months. They split up after she began going through his phone and calling me. When they ... (339 words

I am having trouble trusting my boyfriend not to cheat

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend has history of being a serious player. He has cheated on every one of his previous girlfriends but he says everything is different with me, its been a while and he's been faithful but I still can't completely trust him. I've told him of my issues and he says he ... (65 words

My fiancee wants me to move to where he is and I want him to move to where I am

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i am 21 in august. i am pregnant and due in oct. my problem is, my fiance wants me to move to where he stays which is a wee bit away from all my family and friends. i dont know what to do. i know we would be better off staying with my family financially, but he is insistant in ... (73 words

He dumped me and says he needs to be on his own for a bit

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26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - i have been dumped by my boyfriend of 18months. he said he couldnt give me what i wanted. i have been to see him and he cries. i want him back as i love him, but he says he needs to be on his own for a bit. i realised my mistakes. is it to late? Note from moderator: Please u... (77 words

My fiancee keeps threatening to break up with me

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26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - My fiancee keeps threatening to end the relationship if he doesnt have things his way. We have been together for 4 yrs. Recently, he found out about that his job has an opening in a diff country, and Im not in favor for this because just 6mths ago i left everything behin... (151 words

I had unprotected sex with another man and worry I could be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I always have unprotected sex with my boyfriend. Two days before my cycle was to begin, I had unprotected sex with another man. I did not receive my period. Is it likely for the other man to have gotten me pregnant?... (41 words

I want to move in with my boyfriend, but my parents dont approve of him

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26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi, Im 20 years old and im going to be in my final year at uni in september.i am wanting to move in with my boyfriend but dont know how to tell my parents. i know my parents aren't really keen on my current boyfriend as i dated him about 3 years ago for a short while before i ... (175 words

I am 14 and just broke up with my 22 year old boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - hey, i've just broke up with my guy. he is 22 and i'm 14. after we've broke up, we totally lost contact till today. i know that he's still mad at me for the reason i gave him for the break up thingy. i told him that i'm not his miss right but he disagreed with me and there wa... (145 words

How do I fill the void after being dumped?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - What does someone do to fill the void after being left,I don't want to fall into the addiction trap and where besides a bar can someone meet refreshing happy people? This must sound so lame but I feel completely lost.... (40 words

Although I am on the pill, could I be pregnant anyway?

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26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - I was wondering if there is any chance that I could get pregnant? I have been on the birth control pill for a couple months now and my guy and I had sex last night and he came inside me without a condom. Now I am all worried that I might get pregnant. So is there any chance ... (86 words

My fiancee asked me to move out saying she needed space

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26 July 2007 (M age 41-50 - I am 47 I have a 27 year old woman who I was engaged too and living with til a week ago than I was told to stay away she needed space. What does one do when a woman needs space and you are what seems hopelessly in love with her. Do you move on? sit it out and hope you're not ... (97 words

He needs time to get over his ex, but then he says he wants to be with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - hey ive recently just changed part-time jobs to Matalan and there is a 19 year old lad that i really like there. I told him about 2 weeks ago that i really liked him, but i found out that he had a girlfriend so i left it until he asked for my advice! He then said for the 2 out ... (269 words

I cheated once years ago, but I am afraid my ex mother in law will tell him now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my partner for 5 years i have a 4 year old daughter with him. i love him to bits but 2 years ago i cheated on him with my ex husband. my ex mother in law knows this. last week we fell out. i am scared that she will tell my partner as she is a very spitefull ... (129 words

I changed the way I speak for him, but he said my effort didnt count

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Pls help!.........? i used to be a charming girl. by charming i mean i used to use words like darling, baby, cutie etc very casually in my conversation with my male friends and female frends. one day i starting seeing this man and soon he asked me to stop using such words wh... (167 words

After a week of no contact she texted me! Now I feel I have a little control, but how do I handle it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

26 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - Hi, only me again. Just wanted to repost my recent update as a question, because there has been some development with my situation: (Also, quickly for those of you who don't know me: I was in a long distance relationship of 240 miles for 2 years. We would meet up every co... (534 words

I want the perfect relationship.

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26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - hi evry body; im 19 and i have never have a relationship with somone , now there is a guy who ask me to have a proper relationship with him and he told me that he loves me . but i dont now if he realy love me or not, and im afraid to accept im confused i want to get an e... (129 words

We are married and both bisexual and want to pursue others.

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26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - I am a married bisexual woman to another bisexual man. Recently, we spent some time with a girlfriend of mine (non-sexual girlfriend); we have a few drinks, and then next thing I know, we are playing strip poker and her and I are making out. The three of us have sex (oral, no ... (280 words

My boyfriend is going out with my best friend as revenge on me

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26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - i have found out that my boyfriend is going out with my best friend and they have now two weeks.i asked him why. he said he want to revenge because i once go out with his best friend first but he was the first one to ask me out. i realize it later that i was not in love with ... (146 words

How do i tell him i want him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago, but i still really do love him. and i want him back. How do i tell him? ... (26 words

I added him to my hotmail, but I lied to him and said I was from a foreign country and had put him on by accident

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - Hi guys I posted this question about 2 weeks ago. The situation has developed further so I'm asking for assistance again. here is the original question: ------------------------------------- Ok this is kind of complicated so please read through the whole thing. I'm ... (604 words

I am getting such mixed signals! Does he like me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi all I am a in a true predicament, I am a lawyer and about a year ago i met this guy who was a client of mine, after his legal matters were sorted, we became really close telling each other our secrets etc. WE SPOKE EVERYDAY THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN HE STARTED MAKING COMMENTS ... (369 words

I want to know how to please them.

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26 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - HELP!! i am 13 and getting really sexual feeling when ever i talk to any guy! i am not ready to have sex or anything but i really am curious on how to give a head job, hand job, blow job and other things! PLEASE my curiosity is really starting to bug me!... (53 words

She does not call me.

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26 July 2007 (M age 22-25 - I'm not enjoyin my 1yr 5months relationship. Cos she does not call me and show care, and if i complain to her about it she said no call card also threaten not to pick my call if i complian again. I don't know maybe she love me or playin games on me, cheatin. We don't see each ... (85 words

I'm 17, bisexual but I like older women.

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26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi, my problem is I am bisexual, but prefer older women, (I am 17). I really like my friends mum(50) the other day I went round to my friends house when I knew she wasn't in, but her mum was. I invited myself in, and we had a chat and a coffee. I went outside for a ciga... (104 words

I am 25 and really scared of sex due to a painful past

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26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Im 25 and i am really scared of sex, i was abused when i was a teenager by a family member and physically and mentally abused by an ex boyfriend. it has always affected my relationships with men past and presant. I ve recently meet a lovely guy and we ve been casually going ... (163 words

I want a baby, but my husband doesn't.

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26 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hi I'm married and want a baby but my husband doesn't want it so how will i convince him to have a baby... (24 words

My jealousy and pettyness ruined one wonderful relationship, and now is threatening another! How do I stop this?

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26 July 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi there,, Ive read many of the posts and can relate to many of the tales of horrible all consuming jealousy, and Im amazed and ashamed that I actually feel a little bit better reading these posts and in some way feel close to you all, just today I had a cry in my room and felt ... (920 words

My mum does not approve.

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26 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I have a boyfriend but my mother doesn't approve with our relationship she told me to leave my boyfriend sooner or later and she even swear that we couldnt work out knowing that he has two kids and an ex-wife. ... (40 words

I love him, but i want to be on my own.

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26 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I love him, but I don't want to be in love right now. Up until last year, my boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. When we broke up, despite how much I love him, I wasn't sure that he was "the one" and because of that, I broke it off. During the year, both him and ... (341 words

My best friend/lover and I have a pseudo relationship. I want to make it real, but he doesnt

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26 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi New Friends! Im desperate for advice...Its a sticky situation with a lot of history, and if you need more info from me before responding, feel free to ask. I have been best friends/lovers with a man on and off for about 17 years. He is the greatest in many ways, esp. with ... (462 words

He say's i'm just a friend.

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26 July 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, am single , 36 yrs and have being very friendly with this guy of 30 for the last 1 1/2 yrs.we get along on well, like a house on fire and we have being physical also,,,But he says that am just a frd only, and want us to continue like that...I just cannot as i love this guy ... (136 words

I feel stupid for saying goodbye.

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26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Okay, this is a strange question. I had a crush for many years, and just recently I said good-bye to this man who gave me such joy and insight. I said good-bye because I know that we cannot be together, and it was just the right thing to do. I love this man so much that I am w... (92 words

I really like my older cousin and dont know what to do!

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26 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - i have a crush on my 2nd cousin. he is 20 and i am 13. the problem is i really try to forget about him, but i'm constantly thinking about him. and even when i have a crush on other guys i still think about him. it's driving me mad , but on the other side i don't wanna forg... (172 words

What does I am afraid of getting in over my head mean?

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26 July 2007 (F - Hey Guys, What does I am afraid of getting in over my head mean? I have known this guy who is quite a bit younger than myself for going on 6 months, he pursued me until I got the nerve to ask him to dinner and then he continued to pursue me, we had sex one time, and since ... (203 words

I don't want to have sex until I'm married, but i want to get birth control.

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26 July 2007 (F age 13-15 - i really want to have sex with my boyfriend but i want to wait until im married and im scared that i may get pregnant. and im afraid to tell my mom that i want birth control because i have assured her that i wont be having sex until im married. But i have been with him for a ... (105 words

How can you make a hickie disappear?

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26 July 2007 (F age 16-17 - Hi i just have some simple questions, how long does it take a hickie to disappear? And can you make it go away faster? How?... (25 words

I forgave her for cheating, I love her so much, but I fear the relationship is dying, please help!

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26 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - i really feel that my relationship is dying. weve been dating for one year and 8 months so far..i love her very much, and she is/was the love of my life so far. im only 20, but unlike most people my age, im only interested in long term relationships with real love, not just s... (421 words

I want to be with my boyfriend, But cant cut all ties with my (ex)husband!

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26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - I have been married for 6 yrs. I had intimacy problems with my husband, I felt guilty after having sex and never wanted to recollect those moments. I met this guy after my third anniversary and became friends, eventually i started loving him, he is single. SInce i didnt have ... (306 words

She didnt tell me about being in contact with her ex's should I trust her?

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26 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - I'm 20, with a girlfriend (lets call her K). We've been dating for 7 months and a month ago began a long distance relationship. I love her to death and she acts the same way towards me. If anything I think she cares more. Never would I assume she would do anything wrong to me, ... (151 words

How can I best find out the level of intimacy my girl is ready for ?

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26 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - hi, I just wanted suggestions on how best to find out what level of intimacy my girlfriend requires as we progress through our relationship. I know that asking her seems to be the obvious answer. But i'm afraid that she might say "ok" to me whatever i ask just cos she doesn't ... (258 words

How do I know if someone likes me, when our contact is all online?

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26 July 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hello, all! My question is simple. How do I know if someones intrested in me if all the conversations are online? I mean how do i know if they really want to get to know me cuz they are intrested in me (g.f..material) or are just beeing friendly? Sorry i cant give much more ... (63 words

Does race matter?

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26 July 2007 (M age 10-12 - Hi im wandering about a year ago i got into girls but its really hard for me to get even close to starting something. i know a girl luran thats really nice but i dont have a chance as she is black and im white so that may not go but were good friends so anywho im wandering what ... (124 words

Shes says she needs to know me better before dating me ? What Am I doing wrong?

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26 July 2007 (M age 16-17 - okay im 15 and i like one of my co-workers and i even asked her out but that was like a month ago all she keeps saying is maybe shes said she liked me but idk y she doesnt want to go out i asked her and she was like i want to get to know u better but heres the thing weve bee... (85 words

Why does this break up hurt so much so long after!? How can I make it stop?

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26 July 2007 (F age 22-25 - I was in a relationship for almost two years. Over the course of those two years we went through a lot of very difficult time (he was diagnosed with cancer and went through chemo). A few months after his treatment was over, we were cruising along smoothly but then he started ... (211 words

She wants me to change.

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26 July 2007 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. My personality is that I am laid back and have fun, don't always show it (i.e. my body language.) This is just me and when I meet people I talk and have fun, but my stoicism offsets others by telling my girlfriend, "Oh ... (107 words

All my friends make fun of me for being a virgin!

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26 July 2007 (F - i have just turned sixteen in june. all my friends are a few months older than me but all lost their virginity when they just turned 15. so i have now turned into their virgin friend. when were are all out together and the subject of sex turns into conversation i am not totally ... (424 words

He cheated and now I have forgiven him, but I dont want it to be too easy for him

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26 July 2007 (F - well. . . for like a good few months this guy i know really liked me. we used to make out like every weekend but i didnt really want anything serious so it never really went in that direction. after a few months just making out, he asked me out. i was kind of uncertain at the ... (449 words

He ended it and now he's just being plain nasty to me.

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26 July 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi again, If you're not already posted in on what my ex boyfriend is like then read my other questions if you can. Thankfully I have moved on from my ex. Who I could only describe with a word I can't use on here. He's in a relationship now with the girl he dumped me for. B... (318 words

All i want is a proper relationship, surely thats not asking too much.

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26 July 2007 (M age 18-21 - Hi all, Another Q from me, yep. So I'm 19 and have never been in a "proper" relationship before. I'm ready to get into a serious relationship and settle down so to speak but it just isn't happening. I'm pretty laid back and will get on well wit