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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi I was seeing a man briefly (5 dates over 3 weeks) In February. We got along very well. He was about to go off travelling for six months when I met him. I suggested That I join him at some point along the way, The thought of six months before seeing him again was horrible. He said yeah but he didn't know his dates etc, We stayed in touch and after about two months he e-mailed and said his dates were firming up did I still want to visit him. I Did and imediatly started making plans and booking flights, I'd missed him heaps and had been really looking forward to meeting up. When we were together (In Thailand) We went back to a place I'd been before with an ex, I was quiet and a bit irritable, He tought I'd lost interest and suggested we do the rest of the trip as friends, I was confused about my feelings as I was/am really attracted to him and missed him heaps but somehow I still felt really irritated by him, Now I'm back home I miss him even more, he's now met up with a bunch of other travellers and was in last night at 4am! So I know he's having much more fun now than he did with me. Have I blown it? And how can I stop feeling so jealous and insecure about him having fun now I'm gone (probably with otherwomen too)?
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reader, sexi  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Hi, you need to tell him the reason for your actions and once you have done that i'm sure he would understand. All that has happened it because of a little misunderstanding. You need to ask yourself if you really want to have relationship with him and if the answer is yes then do everything you can do fight for him. If you just let him slip through your fingers, then it would mean that you don't really love him. Get him to understand what has happened and let him know how you really feel for him. Communication is the only way to get him back.
Good luck, let me know what has happened
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): Are you hormonal? I am and I recognise the way you are behaving. Why did you let your feelings about an ex interfere? Blowing hot and cold is another symptom. I also behave in an insecure way and am going to the doctor this very day to sort myself out.
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