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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've been on the pill for 2 years, and came off the pill on the 8th May for me and my partner to try for a baby...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been on the pill for 2 years, and came off the pill on the 8th May for me and my partner to try for a baby. This is my period at the moment Came off the pill 8th May Period Started 11th May - 14th May Next period 13th May - 17th May I think I should be on... (194 words)

We have been together 3 and a half years and are very much in love, but how can it turn me on to imagine her with somebody else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - It really turns me on to watch my girlfriend use her rampant rabbit sex toy while I masturbate. At the time I am imagining another person with her and I think she is too! We have been together 3 and a half years and are very much in love, but how can it turn me on to imagine... (65 words)

He wants to break up--so how do I make him want me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i av this guy who is got blonde hair and blue eyes and i liked him so much the first day i saw him the next time i saw him he stole my number from his friend who talked to me first then asked me out i went and i fell for him so much that i had sex wit him dat nite now i am all ... (121 words)

Did she end our relationship to date someone else? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 24 year old male and have been dating a 21 year old girl for 3 and a half years before she decided to split up with me. The reason being she said I had made no commitment to her in all this time. I tried to explian I am one year off becoming qualified as a quantity ... (175 words)

I want to move back to where I used to live..but my partner doesn't want to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my partner we have a child together in a depressed because of where we live i wont to move back to where i lived but he wont move with me. i love his so much but im not sure if i can live wher i am. what should i do?... (58 words)

Why did he leave me for her? Is there a chance for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (?) age 41-50 - I met my ex at school and we started dating in our final year, aged 16. We were together for 9 years but have recently seperated. we have three children under 5 together. He had an affair when I was 7 months pregnant and is now dating the women he had the affair with (the ... (255 words)

Does he want to date me or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I have a crush on a man who I met through a friend at a group outing. We talked a lot during the first meeting, and since we have emailed back and forth about our common interest--computers. I suggested that he come over so we can work on a computer project together after our ... (105 words)

He's just broken up with me because we fight all the time, I don't want to fight with him so how can I resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot and we have been together for almost a year and we just broke up because he doesn't want to deal with fighting anymore. What should I do because I don't want to fight either?... (44 words)

My soul mate is about to get married and it is tearing me apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have spent a long time looking for a soul mate and now I have found them and we have been getting along great and are very close friends... but I never had the courage to take it further in case it changed the realtionship. As a result I have always been a good friend and ... (135 words)

I had a one night thing with a boy who told me he really liked me, then the next day I find out one of my friends likes him and my friends are now all threatening to beat me up as the boy admitted to it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a one night thing with a boy who told me he really liked me, then the next day I find out one of my friends likes him and my friends are now all threatening to beat me up as the boy admitted to it, He told me he really liked me and now he is completely ignoring me, I re... (74 words)

Do you think is it a commitment blunder from myself or do you think there is underlying motives on her part?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Right guys please help me out I'm confused, frustrated and upset here and need some advice. I am a 24 year old male and have been dating a 21 year old girl for 3 and a half years before she decided to split up with me. The reason being she said I had made no commitment to he... (213 words)

Basically how do I finger her to orgasm?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need help with figuring out how to finger my girlfriend properly. She's tossed me off 2 times now all the way to orgasm and I still haven't fingered her to orgasm - am I doing something wrong? Is it harder to get girls to orgasm than boys? Also, do I need to break her ... (267 words)

Should I enjoy the time I have with him and forget the other lad or shall I spend a much more stable and long lasting relationship with the other??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Well... I'm new to this, I'm an average girl really and not really the type of girl to be constantly bombarded by boys like my incredibly beautiful sister. Well anyway... for once in my life I have got people intrested in me however I'm starting to think I'm leading them on. ... (190 words)

She dumped me for someone else then calls me to say she wants to get back with me, next day I see her withher EX!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so my girlfriend is 24, I'm 16, we were going out for about three weeks and this one night she says I'm going to the club and I have a funny feeling about it, so I wait and I wasn't even looking out a window or nothing there goes her ex boy friend's car. So I call her and ... (200 words)

Am I wasting my time or will he change his mind in time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age - I was married 31 years, I met a wonderful man 9 months ago who was also married 25 years, his ex wife has moved on with someone else but he has still feelings for her. When I tell him I love him he just replies he is fond of me. He has told me he will never marry again or ... (159 words)

I feel like he's cheating on me, fantasising about having sex with another woman... is this normal????

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband looks at porn when I am gone... he knows how much this bothered me because of the first time I found porn on the comp and then just recently he downloaded a CD to have virtual sex with some porn star and the a personal plaything for himself... he did this all behind ... (115 words)

I think I'm falling for him again........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I was in love with a guy who's 5 years older than I am for 2 years... he's my neighbor and our parents are like best friends... he knows I liked him but he never told me what I meant to him. Anyway, he travelled on business 3 months ago it was like a break for me... it made ... (189 words)

I'm still scared sex will hurt, mainly because I am really tight and I can only fit like two fingers in when I'm wet.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Listen, obviously I'm a bisexual and I'm scared of sex too. I've been with a girl before but I'm not sure if I can go all the way. I'm scared that I could get pregnant even with a condom, I know I shouldn't bleed because I have used a dildo and other things to masturbate but ... (138 words)

I like him but I don't love him and I don't want to hurt him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

14 July 2007 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupids I really don't know what to do you see my boyfriend is madly in love with me and he tells me all the time he loves me and he wants to be with me forever and he will not make me do anything I don't want EVER! and he always hugs me and holds my hands in front of his m... (149 words)

He said he wrestles with things in his mind because he thinks it won't work...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy about 6 months. The first couple months were amazing. We really connected and totally fell for each other. After those 2 months I went away for week on a trip and he sent me emails telling me how much he missed me and liked me and couldn't wait for ... (316 words)

Is she messing me about? Or is she just scared of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Before I start I must warn all of you this is a very long winded problem, but please read on I could use all the advice I can lay my hands on. I have been seeing this girl who is 19 and I am 23. we were together for 1 and a half magical years, in that time we were complete... (508 words)

How do I deal with this situation, I really think we'd be great together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, I've been best friends with my friend for 12 years and recently we've got very close. He asked if there was a chance that we could become a couple, of course me being me I said yes I think that would be a great idea. He split up with his girlfriend of 2 years ... (158 words)

He tells me he doesn't know what missing someone is, he is an only child and spent years in a boarding school so he tells me he's content to be alone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

- Hi! I've been chatting on the phone and through emails with a guy from NZ.. I'm in the US.. we met on myspace, and we really hit it off... He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy, intelligent, sexy, sweet, funny, independant... the list goes on... We've gotten closer an... (345 words)

Is it wrong in looking for sex through a website?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Anyone else done joined a site like this? I've just joint a adult site purely for meet up's for sex, I'm quite embarrassed about it as I am quite a good looking girl but I don't hardly go out due to most of my mates not being single, I've had a shag buddy before but he wa... (78 words)

I'm madly in love with my ex, he was my 1st love.. but I don't think he even thinks of me anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm madly in love with my ex, he was my 1st love.. but I don't think he even thinks of me anymore... I miss him so much. I know I should move on with life, but its so difficult. What should I do? Please please help me.. thnx... (53 words)

How can I put the spark back into our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What do should I do? I'm in a relationship where my fiance is very faithful but we haven't had sex in 4 months and she said it's due to her depression that she said is on her own? She is now taking anit-depressants but I want to bring the spark back in our relatioinship. How ... (62 words)

One of my friends fancies my ex.. whom I love and he wants to use her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

- One of my friends (who I don't really like.. lol) fancies my ex.. who I love and he wants to use her, he has told me he has said she would be a quick and easy one night stand but because I really love him I wouldn't want this to happen because I think she would do things with ... (111 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago under the pretence that she just couldn't be in a relationship at the moment as it was too much pressure...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago under the pretence that she just couldn't be in a relationship at the moment as it was too much pressure and she was feeling mentally screwed up in a way that prevented her doing so. We argued about it for a while, but I ... (230 words)

What is this spot and is it dangerous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

14 July 2007 (?) age 30-35 - well hey, my question may seem a bit gross but I need to find out about it. I have this spot, it's down there, and it is soo horrid. It has been there for about a month now and it just gets bigger and bigger. I never gets spots on my face or anywhere else and I keep clean, ... (169 words)

I want to take things to the next stage with him and have sex.. but, I'm a virgin...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey. I've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He's soo gentlemanly and that's one of the many things I like about him. He can be quite shy and he always waits for me to make the first move and kiss him first. I want to take things to the next stage with him and have ... (98 words)

He is begging me to stay with him and tells me he loves me and won't ever cheat on me again... should I believe him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a long history on cheating on his girlfriends, and has never stayed faithful to anyone in his life. It took me a long time to agree to start our relationship, just because I couldn't trust him. He promised me he had changed, and that he could never do it to ... (279 words)

I am also in love with my best friend who's straight. How can I move on because I will never have him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am also in love with my best friend who's straight. How can I move on because I will never have him? Also I keep falling for straight men, how can I solve this?... (36 words)

I dont understand why he has just left saying he wants to be alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd been together with my boyfriend for three years and we have a 8 month old baby girl and we have been very happy since her birth. On Monday we were arguing via text message about why he still had his ex's number in there under a different name. He text to me to tell me ... (178 words)

Is he trying to decide between me and this other lady?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known the fellow who lives across the street from where I live for about four years now Over this span of time he has invited me in several times for coffee is very polite and entertaining yet most recently something has changed and he has over the past several months b... (298 words)

Would it be wrong of me to ask him for my gifts back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I got back together a few months ago but I have recently discovered that he never finished things properly with his girlfriend. He used the excuse that his family were upset about him finishing with her to keep things quiet with me and we had to be careful that we ... (310 words)

What can I say to him without offending him or making me sound like a pervert/stalker.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm gay and in love with a clebrity called Tom Sangstar I've left massages on his website about my love the prbblem is should I tell him I love him when he chats to his fans on Tuesday or should I not? I'm probably never going to meet him but I still love him and whant to tell ... (89 words)

I'm 19 and I think I'm in love with a woman who is 40, she is married and also happens to be my friend's mum.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 and I think I'm in love with a woman who is 40, she is married and also happens to be my friend's mum. Also to make matters worse I work with her. She is always telling me very personal things about her married life, and I get the impression she is not happy with her ... (106 words)

My husband has told me I should have sex with other men!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has told me I should have sex with other men. I've told him no way, that would be cheating and it would damage our relationship. I'm 24 and he's 26. I asked him why he wants me to do this, and he said he's lost his sex drive and doesn't want sex anymore, but ... (209 words)

How can I become more "feminine"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am magi (male) from India I am photographer basicly I am male but I wear female dresses so I want my body to change to female body, any idieas. I don't known proper english pleaze understand thank you.... (40 words)

I seem to be heavily dependent on people emotionally and whatever they believe is something to be rejected, I reject it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I seem to be heavily dependent on people emotionally and whatever they believe is something to be rejected, I reject it. Especially I have this ideal expectation from people especially elders that they are to offer me some kind of moral support to me. Whereas what I get is some ... (109 words)

He wrote his phone number on the check but hasn't answered my texts... why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a waitress at a restaurant, and I recently had a customer that I was pretty attracted to. We got along well, and when he left, he wrote his number on the check. a few days later, I decided to text message him, but he was working at the time. He never called me or texted me ... (162 words)

I am 16 and I have never had an orgasm.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, and have been sexually active for about 9 months. I am 16 and I have never had an orgasm. I feel left out because it seems I will never have one. I don't know if it is just because I'm younger, or if I should be ... (86 words)

My wife said she doesn't think she is right for me any more and I'm devastated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My Wife and I have been together for 7, coming on to 8 years. Married for nearly 6 years, we have 2 lovely boys aged 4 and 21 months. This whole thing has come as such a shock to me. About 2 weeks ago my wife said that she didn't love me anymore and was no longer attracted to ... (139 words)

Should I go to the doctor about my eye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my right eye is damaged. My sister got angry at me and she spat in my right eye. Should I go see a doctor about this? There may be diseases.... (32 words)

When I go to second base with my girlfriend, she is really rough, and I have found that my foreskin has loosened...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - When I go to second base with my girlfriend, she is really rough, and I have found that my foreskin has loosened, is there anything I can do to fix this? Scott... (35 words)

I don't know how I should get back with him. Should I even bother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have gone out for just two months, everything seemed fine until the last week where we saw less of each other. When I tried to call and talk to him he seemed uninterested to talk. We broke up with each other yesterday. But I still want to be with him. I ... (143 words)

Could you get any diseases in a shower?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Could you get any diseases in a shower? Even if it's just me and my parents and sister using it? Such as if one of them has a cut, blister, or period in the shower could there be a chance that I may have diseases? I don't think non of them have AIDS, STDS or HIVS.... (56 words)

We are both 15 and my girlfriend told me she had given someone a hand job and was fingered before.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - We are both 15 and my girlfriend told me she had given someone a hand job and was fingered before. I know she has learned that she did it too early and with someone she didn't trust. I love her too much to let it ruin it, but I feel like crap. Help?... (53 words)

Any tips on how to get out of the friend zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I asked out my friend, a little over a year ago, and she said she can't date me because she doesn't want to risk losing my friendship. We hung out as friends, and we had a few romantic moments and unofficial dates. I don't talk to her as often anymore, before it was twice or ... (85 words)

my boyfriend likes for me to give him a handjob while I sit on his lap and kiss him.. and I got the moving up and down part pretty good, but how can I make the hand job better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, my boyfriend likes for me to give him a handjob while I sit on his lap and kiss him.. and I got the moving up and down part pretty good, but how can I make the hand job better... are there certain things I can do?.. and please dont think I'm stupid for asking this...... (56 words)

I have this very strange problem - well it's hard for me to eat in front of people most of the time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this very strange problem - well it's hard for me to eat in front of people most of the time. Like I can eat in front of my mom and family members and at restaurants, but I'm kinda scared to eat in front of my boyfriend even though I've done it before!!! I don't know ... (75 words)

No matter how much I try, I can never feel pretty!!!! How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - No matter how much I try, I can never feel pretty!!!! Other people tell me I am but when I look in the mirror I don't see what is so cute about me!!! How can I feel better about myself?... (40 words)

I don't want to let her go, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with an older woman who has a boyfriend, I need some advice on what to do, I know she loves me because we have spend magical moments together, but she doesn't know what to do, they have been together over 7 years and they live together, I don't want to let her go, ... (60 words)

Guys, and possibly ladies! Do you prefer women who are attractive looking or that have a great body?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I prefer guys to answer this question. However women could answer this question too. Do you prefer a women that is attractive looking, or have a great body? What do you like in women based on what they look like/personality or how attractive they are?... (45 words)

What do you do when you thought your relationship was approaching marriage, but then it went through a dark period where he had someone else, but now you're back but he won't have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you do when you thought your relationship was approaching marriage, but then it went through a dark period where he had someone else, but now you're back but he won't have sex? Still says he's confused but says he loves me. We lay next to each other for hours in our ... (98 words)

I feel like he has crushed my dreams and it is so hard to get over.. any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay it has been 6 weeks since we have been on a "break" we have seen each other three times and just had dinner this past Monday night and had a great time, I did not bring up the relationship at all.. I am still so depressed. I just can't live like this. I am taking classes ... (206 words)

Is he losing interest? What warning signs should I look for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

14 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am Gay 35 years old and have met a 27 year old guy online. We have had a number of conversations over a 2 week period on MSN. We have also been texting on our cell phones. The first week the guy was regularly sending me texts that were really nice and he was making me feel ... (131 words)

I don't just have spotting, I seem to have it all the time. Sometimes it's blood, and sometimes it's this sort of a brown discharge thing that just won't go away. I have it every day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Sorry I know this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to go for advice! I just started taking birth control pills literally three weeks, almost a month ago. On the package it says for the first few months you can have irregular bleeding, which is fine - ... (139 words)

He has admitted to having sex with many other girls many times and will not stop, no matter what I do or say.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

14 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, my boyfriend and I have been together off and on for about 12 years. We have only lived together for about the past 3 years. We have 2 children and he is a wonderful father. He is supportive and patient and kind to our kids and is supportive of me. If I say I am tired ... (201 words)