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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get my boyfriend to show me more attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I make my boyfriend realise that I'm the kind of person who likes to get attention because the thing is it's kinda weird if I go tell him could you be more sweet or could you give me more attention than you usually do ..... so any idea?... (51 words)

I'm 12. Is kissing and feelings that I've fallen in love with a boy a bad thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cubid! please help me iv bin going out wiv this boy weve only bin going out for a day now and already weve kissed 3 times on the lips! im only 12...is that rong? i actually once in my life feel like i love this boy but im scared if he will go off me because i dont n... (94 words)

Why has my partner turned hostile towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner have been together for 2 years and everything was great till a fortnight ago, he's turned very hostile towards me, he won't make any contact at all and I feel as if I've done something wrong.... (40 words)

What should I do? Should I sleep with his friend or not before the wedding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My wedding is in September 2007 and I have been engaged for 4 years. Two years ago when my son was born I started being attracted to my fiancee's best friend. Keep in mind he will be the best man at our wedding. As the days go by and we hang out more and more, the attraction ... (193 words)

This is my first ever second base and now I am not sure how far she is wanting to go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, My girlfriend and I are both 17 and we have been going out for about one month. Last night when we were making out on my bed she guided my hand to her breast. This is my first ever second base and now I am not sure how far she is wanting to go, but judging from ... (105 words)

What's the best thing my friend can do here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 July 2007 (F) - A girl just got kicked out of her uncles's house and her car repossessed this morning. She's due to report to work and her uncle and ex hubby just cashed the checks she post dated to them. She's staying with me for the time being, but I have no clues on how she should get he... (81 words)

Having a real bad year and not getting anywhere.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 July 2007 (F) - Having a real bad year and not getting anywhere! Here's the issue, Home Foreclosured, Stop it with Chap 13 paying court costs thru paychek and wondering if I just sign my vehicle to a relative once the Chap 13 doesn't go through and turn to Chap 7 with the risk of losing m... (101 words)

I love him and we have done things together in the past. Now he won't even hug me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

- A boy who i really love ive done things with him in the past and now he has said he doesn't fancy me anymore and he doesnt like me hugging him or anything. Whats this all about ??... (38 words)

Is it ok to pay for sex as long as you're very careful?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am male, who is mssing sex. is it okay to pay for a shag, as long s you are very careful..... (23 words)

I'm worried about her and so upset and I can't help thinking I could have done something to make her stay.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - It's my last day of year 9 today and 1st thing in the morning one of my closest friends announced that she was leaving school next school year. She couldn't tell us until it was definite apparently. As you can imagine me and others spent most of the day crying. She was leaving ... (166 words)

I'm so confused by my ex's behaviour!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex is back on the scene. we split up a few years back, over what i cant even remember. ive always had a soft spot for him he knows this cause stupidly i texted him saying how i wanted to get back together, he didnt bother replying so i left it at that, last week i went to ... (207 words)

I would like to have much wider and complete sex experiences with her, one which involves much more than penetration

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am going out with this girl with whom sex is great, however she doesn't like me going down on her. She says it is nothing she has never enjoyed with me or anyone else. I, on the other side, take much pride in my cunnilingus skills and I have been told, by several women, to be ... (126 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to get a good nights sleep?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

- I'm really scared and I need help here. My boyfriend has been having problems sleeping. Maybe it's the temperature of my room, but I tried my best to open all the windows. He was awake the whole time during the night. It has been a week since he told me he wasn't sleeping... (102 words)

Why is he being so horrible to me when all I do is like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Well I have this massive crush on this lad at my school and I told him but he's totally grossed out by it and is being really Horrible about it and now he won't even talk to me and dodges me in the hallway and says stuff about my appearance behind my back... I don't see ... (99 words)

Do you think she will eventually get out of control and this will cause us more problems in the long run?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey my name is Andrew.I am currently in a Long distance relationship my girlfreind is in Canada and I am in Portugal.We have been 9 months apart so far and i will be back Oct1st 2007.We were recently talking about fights that we were having because we always get into fights ... (231 words)

Can someone explain to me what love can do to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 July 2007 (M) - Can someone explain to me what love can do to you? I've been reading many things on the internet about love and how seretin or somthing can decrease and how men don't have as much testosterone as normal. Is this true or just false? I have been with my girlfriend for a... (185 words)

How can I give a great blow job? And what about phone sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I have 2 questions how can i give a great blow job? And how can i make fone sex be more real? I... (24 words)

I'll prob never see him again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I love this guy....and have for a LONG time. we go to a club together and next tuesday, is his last day and i'll prob never see him again!!! I am almost possitive that he loves me back....should i kiss him on the last day? Or should i right him a letter saying my feelings? ... (105 words)

How can you tell if he likes you back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently discovered that I fancy a boy I have known for three years. I thought that he liked me, but now I'm not too sure. One day he'll talk to me for ages and we'll get on really well, then another day he might completely ignore me. I want to know how I can tell if he ... (62 words)

I love him so much! But we're doomed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - He is so sweet to me, and I love him with my whole heart. But I just fear that we're not meant to be together. While we enjoy each others' company very much, our life goals are so far apart! I'm from the west coast, and he moved here from New York. Now he wants to move back and ... (240 words)

Why is he with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up 3 months ago. We were together a long time and were very close. We have known each other as friends for even longer. His reason was that we had just grown apart (although I still don't think we had). I recently found out that he started seeing someone else ... (342 words)

My sister and i got into a huge fight over something i don't think i am to be blamed for.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi can anyone help me? My sister and i got into a huge fight over something i dont think i am to be blamed for. Its driving me mad and i ve been completelt stressed out about trying to come a a conclusion as to waht i should do in this dilema. this is how it goes ill try to be ... (511 words)

My vagina hurts, what's wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well my question is...... I been having this feeling on my vagina for about two weeks....... it feels like something is hurting me inside.... it hurts when I sit down and when I laid down also when I'm walking.... is a feeling like I have craps but is not cramps cause my ... (76 words)

I noticed that she has been Googling romantic getaways and has also logged onto free Online Email Greeting cards with "Love" and "Missing You" titles. Do I have something to worry about?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 40 year old married man. Recently I discovered that my wife has a hidden HotMail account that I am not suppose to know of. I have not confronted her yet and don't want to as I would like to see if there is a way I can tap into her email account to see what and to whom ... (190 words)

I can't seem to stop thinking about her at home or at work and am starting to think I need to quit my job to stop me feeling so low.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've worked for a mobile phone company for 5 years and from the day I started I have always got on with a woman in my team who is 20 years older than me... I have always had feelings for her and found her very attractive, she has now left the team and I am finding it very hard ... (103 words)

I also think he's not telling the truth about his ex because he's only mixing up the story. I really love him and I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 well I'll be 16 soon and my boyfriend is 24 going on 25. Thing is we have never met in person! I was trying to contact a friend and I mixed up a digit in the number which made me send the text to him instead. After a while I found out that he was one of my best friends ... (237 words)

I was wondering how I could talk to my boyfriend about being more clean and organized.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I was wondering how I could talk to my boyfriend about being more clean and organized. The two of us live together and whenever he comes home he takes his shirt, shoes and socks off and puts them in a pile on the floor next to his computer (it will stay there ... (218 words)

Why does he never show me any affection?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him, and he loves me. The thing is he doesn't tell me this, we don't cuddle or hold hands, or kiss, unless it's just me and him alone. He doesn't compliment me, he flirts with me still, but like I said before, only when we're ... (124 words)

I'm 12 and I kissed my boyfriend after one day; what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i am only 12yrs old and i have a boyfriend we have already kissed and weve only bin going out for a day what shall i do??? do i kiss him again?? please help me!! ... (35 words)

I fancy my teacher, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. i am 14 and i really like this teacher .. hes gorgeous and i like him so much . and i no its wrong but i cant help it . i don't no what to do? any advice?... (44 words)

I have very pronounced nipples that are always noticeable; how noticeable is a padded bra?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Can people tell when you're wearing a bra with padding? I have pronounced nipples and need some padding to keep people from staring all the time and the bra is also supposed to "lift and shape" your bust but I'm wondering if it looks very unnatural. I've tried wearing regu... (70 words)

Would sex help relax my girlfriend who is stressed? What else can I do for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - just curious here. This is probably mainly for the girls than the guys. Would you say that sex is a good stress reliever and that it relaxes you when your stressed? If so are there any tips that you can give me that helps you relax more and that can calm you down when your ... (119 words)

I think I love her but I keep falling in and out of this love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i got to know this girl when i was going out with her best friend, we became friends but nothing special i then broke up with her friend and we didnt talk any more but i was not bothered, i then went out with her other best mate and we had a long relationship together during ... (183 words)

I'm 13; how big should my penis be and how much should I ejaculate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - how big shold a 13 yr old penis be. and how much should i eject/cum... (15 words)

He thinks I'm the One but he doesn't want to date me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been seeing a guy for over 4 months. i fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. he had just come out of a long term relationship which he lived with her. he got his own flat and everything was great until 5 weeks ago he said that he needs some space to be able ... (261 words)

What do girls think of guys who are relationship virgins?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What to girls think of guys who has'nt had a relationship before?... (12 words)

My girlfriend and I broke up; is it going to be easier in time to entertain the idea of being with somebody else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so it looks like my ex-Girlfriend and me are going through a pretty ok break up, which surprises and (only in SOME, and not many ways) delights me. I know it's early but, I really don't feel like I want to be with anyone else, and it hurts me to even think of her being with ... (142 words)

My wife cheated repeatedly; I gave her another chance but she still sees the men she was unfaithful with

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age - My wife has had sex with more then a few guys on the side. A few were her coworkers. Our marriage was falling apart rapidly because of her infidelity and deciet. One day I had enough of her abuse and threats of divorce so I told her I was looking foward to the divorce and ... (288 words)

Shaved my eyebrows! How long does it take for them to grow back in?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i shaved my eyebrows now they are really thin and short, how long will it take for them to grow back. thankyu xxx... (23 words)

What are the safe days during your menstrual cycle for having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - what is the safest days 2 have sex during ur menstuational cycle?... (12 words)

She told me she was a virgin but when we had sex she didn't bleed; is it true your hymen can break in other ways?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i have a question my gf told me that she was a virgin when we first did it she didnt bleed she said that it can break at anytime not only when sex she had done Karate and other sports could this be true?she also said that you can even break it from falling off your bike i do ... (67 words)

My 20 year old friend just got engaged to a man who's nearly 70; she wants to know about problems the gap could cause

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old girl and my friend is 20 years old. She told me she has recently got engaged to a 68-year-old man she met in a pub at a karaoke contest - he is the owner of it, and that he is a decent person, was what she told me. She asked me what problems would she would ... (97 words)

I don't feel much when I'm being stimulated by hand; is it them, or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and have been fingered three times now, the first time i had no reaction, i bearly could feel that he was there, that was when i was 13, the second time i was 14, not comfortable with the guy atall and asked him to stop but he persisted and i was very cold and just ... (224 words)

We argue when she goes out with her friends; now she says she'll see them less but I don't want her to say that because of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey my name is Andrew. I am currently in a Long distance relationship my girlfreind is in Canada and I am in Portugal. We have been 9 months apart so far and i will be back Oct 1st 2007. We were recently talking about fights that we were having because we always get into fights ... (239 words)

I want this marriage to work but hubby ignores me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I dont know y I'm doing this, but my heart just lead me to do this. I've been very edgy on and off about issues relating to my husband. Ours was a love marriage and we just celebrated (was no talking to each other for 2days till the anniversary aternoon)our 1st... (355 words)

He's dating another girl so why is he still contacting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

- My ex and I broke up almost 3 months ago now but occasionally we have been still keeping in contact. I've told him 3 times already that we can't keep in contact anymore but this last time I got in touch with him again because I was feeling down because its been a year since my ... (212 words)

I'm not sure...Do I really love this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well i have been going out with this guy for a year and a half and i love him but i keep on thinking about another guy and how it would be it we date. i cheated on him 2 times and i told him b/c i just feel really bad and he took me back i don't know why he did but he did ... (94 words)

Is it normal for a period to be late after starting on the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i started the pill at the beginning of this week as this was the week my doctor highlighted in my planner. i was due to get my period about the 10th/11th of this week and now its like 2-3 days later and there is no sign of it at all. is this normal for my period to skip right ... (130 words)

He feels bad he doesn't work so he won't get back together with me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.i really need your help. there is this guy that i have been with for three months but now we broke up , because he kissed another girl and because he has just not matured enough,but i am head over heels for this guy and i think he is the one. i have not felt this way ab... (168 words)

Any tips on how I set up a special romantic night for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, my bf and i have a 3 year annyversary and we both happen to be broke. He will get a hotel room for us to have a romantic night, but i would want to make it special.... I would also like to kind of set up a table, little dinner, but i dont know what food or anything ... (85 words)

He said he likes me just 'as a friend'. Any views?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - wat does it mean when u like someone and u ask if they like u n they say only as a friend?... (22 words)

What's wrong with us fat girls?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats wrong with fat gals? Im a fat gal. I take good care of myself. Better than a lot of skinny gals. Why dont i get noticed? My best friend is skinny and she smells ,always have dog hair all over her cloths ,her handr are dirty ,whx do guys like her more? ... (53 words)

I want more of a commitment from him before having sex. How should I proceed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

- My bf has had sex with two of his ex gf's and I've never had sex at all, not even with him. He wants to have sex with me and I want to have it with him too but the fact that hes been with someon else before me unsettles me a lot. I don't like the idea of him sharing such a ... (246 words)

I am not interested in anyone else I only have eyes for him, I adore him and know we are brilliant together when it is good.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age - Hi there. Nearly 4 years ago I had an affair which consequently broke my marriage up. At the time I had been with my husband for 21 years. We had worked hard and had a beautiful house in the countryside. We had a son who at the time of breakup was nearly 16, so he was sitting ... (753 words)

How can I lose weight easily and quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hey. I am a 16 year old girl. I am overweight and would like to lose weight. But it's hard. And I'm in the hostel, my home is about 80km from my scool. Any one have advice on this? How can I lose weight easy. I'm shy to do sport and stuff. I use to love ht. Now you're ... (161 words)

Should my boyfriend be supportive of me? I feel hes not being supportive enough from what he has said.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

- For the past month I've been really down and depressed for a mixture of reasons. It can be debated about whether or not I have real reasons to be feeling like this or if it's just me being depressed for no good reasons. A few reasons why I have been down is due to stress of... (386 words)

Do you think I should go see him regardless of the fact he doesn't want that or I should go on with my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been in a relationship for about a year now and we hardly see each other. We stay about 8 hours apart and I've been trying to get him to travel down or for me to go see him. He thinks it is a bad idea since we promised each other to avoid sex and all he talks about is ... (162 words)

Should I be worried that he's cut down on his text/calls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've asked questions before, but I'm still confused. I've been with a guy for 6 months. Due to circumstances in his life, he said he can't give me the time I deserve. He said that his feelings for me haven't changed. He needs some time to sort things out in his head. Unf... (266 words)

He upsets me so easily, I've never cried so much since I've got with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been going out with my boyfriend almost a year and I do love him very much but recently I have been doing a lot of soul searching and am wondering if 'he's the one' etc. We get on great most of the time, but he has the ability to upset me so easily, and I have cried more ... (104 words)

I slept with him and now I'm confused, what shall I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have cheated on my partner of 3 years. I was raped 4 years ago and me and my partner have been through a lot. I'm 24 years old and when I was 18 I fell in love with someone, the thing was he was married at time now divorced since 3 years so we stayed friends. We still ke... (188 words)

It's killing me because he expects me to spend time with him 24/7 he is smothering me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have recently started dating a real nice peaceful guy, at first I thought the fact that he has no friends and hates going out to places would make life easier for me, but now it's killing me because he expects me to spend time with him 24/7 he is smothering me. I have ... (72 words)

He doesn't want to make our relationship public. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have recently started dating a guy whom I have met a year ago. We share the same friendship circle. He doesn't want to make our relationship public. Is this normal? And why should he want to do this?... (43 words)

My 'friends with benifits' is going to get married, but I want him now!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am confused about my feelings for my best friend. I'll call him David. I met David 4 years ago. We met through mutual friends and our social circles and interests just crossed paths. We are both involved in an organized sports team for which we do alot of trave... (914 words)

Did she have revenge sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Revenge Sex? My girlfriend and i were out with another couple. I knew the other girl for years, and we were all drinking. The other girl kissed me, open mouth style and I let her. My girlfriend saw this and was devistated. Two weeks later my girlfriend shows up after w... (185 words)

Am I wrong to have asked for the expensive ring back?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I just bought a $3K ring for my girlfriend and then she announces she is moving out after 10 months. I asked for the ring back and that offended her? Am I wrong to have asked?... (37 words)

He is mad about a one night stand that happened 7 years ago!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - 10 Years ago I went out with this lad for 3 years, we had a very volatile relationship, we were always finishing, but was strange as we did really love each other and the sex was always great, 1 of the times we split up for 3 months a during that time I had a one nite stand ... (386 words)

Does he love me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with ag guy a year older than me. i love him with all my heart, but the problem now is i don't know how he feels about me. we once had communication breakdown and i sugested we part ways thinking that maybe he will realise that i'm someone special to him. but he ... (87 words)

When you masterbate, why does your penis hurt afterwards?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - When you masturbate, why does your penis hurt afterwards?... (9 words)

How can a person marry someone they dont even love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F) - How could a person marry someone that their not even sure if they like or love them? ... (17 words)

He's spending up to an hour, sometimes 3 times a day, looking at porn... !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - ok, porn and sex question folks. my husband of 9 months and i generally have a decent sex life. we're pretty experimental and i'm the vocal, very enthusiastic type who actually REALLY likes having "porn" type sex. i'm fairly kinky, and he DOES mention that he thinks my high ... (378 words)

He is harrassing me about spending 150 on a laptop when he spends 170 a month on BEER!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and my fiance is 26. for some reason i feel like i'm wasting my time! we have been together 9 months and have known each other 4 months before we got together. i have kinda moved in with him and his dad and sister. because of the hassle we decided to look for a place of ... (399 words)

He is my guy now, but his ex still calls him Babe and talks all nice to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

13 July 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I am in this same situation! My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now, and I realized that he still contacts his ex girlfriend. They dated for about 7 months or so. My boyfriend and I started off as friends, and I've helped him through a lot. He even told me ... (665 words)

Can you get STDs without intercourse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - A quick question can you get any diseases from REAL passionate wet kissing with tongue and mutual masturbation, or dry humping? I had my undies on the whole time, while he wanked and I tried not to come into contact with it.... (45 words)

He is a great boyfriend, but completely clueless as to the little things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now, and I have gotten to the point where the "little things" just seem to agitate me more. He is generally a great boyfriend- loyal, treats me well, keeps me involved in his life, tries to keep me satisfied, but lately, I haven't ... (293 words)

I need THE most safe birth control

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I've been going out with my present boyfriend for nearly a half year and hes mad for me and I'm mad for him. Well 2 things really he wants me to squirt and I think im broken...because I cant. Also I need to find THE most safest things to use to prevent pregnancy and al... (61 words)

She has had too many sex partners and it bothers me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - How many partners is ok for a woman to have before it is considered promiscuos? My GF is 23 and has been with 19 guys including myself, it's the fact that she racked up about 15 within 2 years that bothers me the most, all in one night stands.She says it was due to the ... (321 words)

Why do some people have to be so rude on DearCupid?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a question. why do some people have to be so rude on here. whats the point in asking for help when your just going to get ridiculed half the time and not taken seriously. i believe if they need help, help the person if your just going to respond to their questions with ... (75 words)

Is it ok to reject someone because I think they are wrong or because they cant help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (M) age 41-50 - do you reject someone just because you think that you are right and they are not, or you think them to be wrong in some way.. is it the fear of unknown and paranoa in general about life and hopelessness / desparity about their own future leads one to do so? like if they can... (84 words)

Am I ill or pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i have been really tired the past 4 days and havnt wanted to eat anything. i have felt like i wanted to throw up and my stomach hurts. these are some signs of being pregnant. im kindof scared im pregnant but i have never had sex. i fool around with my boyfriend but i dont ... (69 words)

My parents dont like my tattooed boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am only 14 years old and I really like this 16 year old. He has two tattoos and my parents don't like the fact that he has them. I like making out with him but it feels like i want more and don't know how to tell him and plus I want him to know i like him more than a friend.... (63 words)

Are penises supposed to point up when erect?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was younger and dated younger men their penises would always point straight up when erect. The last two guys I dated (one was 44, the other, 40) had penises that when erect, pointed down and even to the side! Is this an age/health thing or are men's penises just ... (57 words)

Is it possible to reach my target weight with my diet plan?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I plan to go on a peach and orange fruit diet for 7 days. And just going for brisk walks in the morning (no other excercise). Right now I am a size 7-8. I want to get down to a size at least 5. Is it possible for me to reach my goal?... (53 words)

I don't want to be with her when I am but when we're apart, I want her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - When i'm with my girlfriend, i'm always looking for ways to break up with her. When we've split up I can't help stop thinking about her and wanting her back. Why is this?... (36 words)

I keep having sexual thoughts about a picture I saw on the internet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know why I think like this. I keep on thinking about this guy I saw on the internet(picture). I think about him sexually. Is this normal?... (28 words)

What makes a woman physically attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just curious. This one is for the men. What do you like to see in women based on physical appearance on how they look?... (26 words)

We talk, we cuddle, we have sex. But he says we are just friends!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age - I met this guy online. We met, had a couple of dates then he said it wouldn't work. A few weeks later he contacted me again to see how I was and to apologize for hurting me. We now get together and see each other. He says we are just friends and don't get attached. When we ... (130 words)

She broke up with me just before summer break and I miss her terribly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all, I was with my ex for about 3 months but have known her since the start of uni (we have now both just graduated). She broke up with me before the summer holidays out of the blue, its been almost 3 weeks since the day she left and I still miss her so badly, i think ab... (197 words)

I love my guy but when we are away from each other over summer break I feel its ok to have sex with other guys.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so been with my man for almost 3yrs and we have gone our seperate ways on holiday for the summer i am completely in love with him and would never wanna lose him but wen ppl go away im a believer in the theory that different rules apply!i met a random guy wen i was away and ... (143 words)

I am attracted to other girls. Does that mean I am not comitted to my girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

13 July 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old male. I have been with my girlfriend (who is the same age) for two years now, we rent a place together and it has got to the stage where we are looking to buy somewhere. Obviously this means more commitment. I am worried because in the last few months I sta... (164 words)

I need some new flirting ideas

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

13 July 2007 (F) - There's this one guy in particular who I like and I try to flirt with him the best way I know how, eye contact, touching, making him laugh and just generally trying to be a good friend. He responds well to it all and even flirts back, but I'm tired of just flirting all the time ... (94 words)

I didn't used to like him but since my friend started to like him then I like him too.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - help help help!!! my boyfriend doesn't like me talking to his mates especially this one paticular mate. I tell my boyfriend over and over again I do not find him actractive which was true, then an old mate of mine started seeing him. The thing is I really didn't like him at ... (76 words)

Do you think im being selfish towards him doing what I did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

13 July 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been on/off together for 8 years. We have a 3 year old boy which I really don't think he is bothered about. He never buys him clothes or toys it always me who does. He doesn't live with us, he's 40 and still lives with his mum who does anything for ... (222 words)